today my neighbour (who by the way is a female) was discussing with me her relationship with a guy she met two years ago. the guy who is in his early 30's came to my neighbour with is sweet mouth dat he want to marry her and after showering her with gift and dating for like a year she got pregnant for him & dey had to do introduction to avoid family disgrace. on d day of d introduction neither his father or mother was present(he lied to her parent dat both of his parent are dead) instead he came wit a friend. d month after d introduction she gav birth. during dat 4 month dere was no sign of him even during d naming when i asked abt him she said he was in abuja dat he was busy. but 2day she opened up to me dat he already had 3 children with another woman dat she found out after introduction(when she carried out a little investigation) . dat she doesnt even knw where he stays. my advice 2 ladies b4 u give urself to any man b4 marriage make sure u carry out little investigation b4 u fall a victim of deceit

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Tell them ohh,cos if it happens now they will now come to Nairaland seeking advice,disturbing our peace with their marital woes

Calm down

I don't understand this thread...

Is it because your neighbour got pregnant? And gave birth? And the man abandon her? Why did she get pregnant in the first place?

Strahovski1:
I don't understand this thread...

Is it because your neighbour got pregnant? And gave birth? And the man abandon her? Why did she get pregnant in the first place?

she got pregnant because she was foolish enough to get deceived by the man. Right now he his no where to be found

Being a woman is hard especially when they hit 30.