Flocky:
Hey Big Gees in the house. After going through the drills, I've had lots of stories which turned out really cool but here is my most recent although this one turned out somewhat different.

I used the drills on this particular girl and it turned out real cool, she got all over me and she always longed to hear from or be with me every single day but then, I noticed I started falling in love with this girl and then I screwed up by asking her out. Damn! She said NO.

Well, I didn't talk to her about it again and since then I noticed she has been trying to bring up the issue again as all her talks bothers around the issue, (she wants to say YES this time, lol) but she doesn't want to come out straight and say it cos of the African woman's mentality in her. She is waiting for a heads-up from me but I kept avoiding it.


Now, where the problem lies is that I really do love this girl and I want to make her my woman. She z everything I ve always wanted in a woman but I want to do this without acting clingy and needy. How do I go about this?

Flocky:
Hey Big Gees in the house. After going through the drills, I've had lots of stories which turned out really cool but here is my most recent although this one turned out somewhat different.

I used the drills on this particular girl and it turned out real cool, she got all over me and she always longed to hear from or be with me every single day but then, I noticed I started falling in love with this girl and then I screwed up by asking her out. Damn! She said NO.

Well, I didn't talk to her about it again and since then I noticed she has been trying to bring up the issue again as all her talks bothers around the issue, (she wants to say YES this time, lol) but she doesn't want to come out straight and say it cos of the African woman's mentality in her. She is waiting for a[b] heads-up from me but I kept avoiding it[/b].


Now, where the problem lies is that I really do love this girl and I want to make her my woman. She z everything I ve always wanted in a woman but I want to do this without acting clingy and needy. How do I go about this?

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HARDDON:


You dabbled from one mistake right to the other as you wobbled through trying times.

Haven't you heard? Tough times don't last, tough people do?

Mistake 1: Making mockery of a lady that decides, against all odds and rich side attractions, to be with you. If she is beautiful/endowed, she got richer guys on her tail.

Mistake 2: Going on Sabbaticals in challenging times. Times that she is most vulnerable to lil money temptations. Apart from that, her thought process would be, " if a lil challenge and he is pausing us even though we ain't married, what will he not do when we are married? "



That said, I did ask you what you want from her, you skipped it. That is very vital here because after NYSC, her people would be expecting her to bring some1 home. If you ain't down for marriag, what do you want from her?

HARDDON:
An Entrepreneur who waits until all resources are available before kicking off that biz would never start.

A bachelor who waits until he is wealthy and every situation right before settling down, would remain single for a lifetime

we going live!

greatforever:

All you said is true and her sentiment but I took d break cos I wanted to settle and get a work which she agreed to.

My intentions absolutely is to marry her...
Hardon pls what can I do to get her back.
She blocked me on WhatsApp I reside in lag while she reside in Ibadan. Would have visited her but I don't what her to embarrass me.

What can I do

Dataspider:
Oga HARDDON I really appeciate your efforts on this thread.
I have this girl in my department that likes me and has confessed that she does. Initially, I was doing the nice guy act, i knew something was not right about that and so i decided to do some research and that's when I stumbled on this thread. I have started applying some your sense pills and getting some good results.
I have a few question tho. How do I act in these scenerios:
1. When we're both taking a walk and she stumbles on a guy she knows and they start talking?
2. When she is answering un-ending calls from other guys and laughing.

Also do u think a guys should bang a girl at her house. If yes, how do i make her invite me.(I have a church boy kind of roomate so my house may not work)
thanks.

HARDDON:
@Dataspider

Also do u think a guys should bang a girl at her house. If yes, how do i make her invite me.(I have a church boy kind of roomate so my house may not work.


About this last Q, I would be vague. You are a student. You aint ready for no responsibilities yet. But if you must, Wear Two raincoats.

That said, I am not the type to go visiting a lady( do it very rarely and her place must be confy. if not, we check into a hotel( for the weekend)to have varieties instead of always bunking at ma crib).


BTW, if you must visit her place, you dont wait for an IV, rather you tell her: "hey, Here( hand her some money), I'd love to have chicken pepper soup and white rice for the weekend), weekend at your place. Hopefully, you wouldnt bore me to death!".

then Watch her reactions and analyze what comes out of her mouth next. You can tell a lot from a lady you are with through this HOOK.

Dataspider:

Thanks for the advice oga HARDON. I have a few more questions. How to I respond in these senerios.
1. When she asks me if I love her.

2. When I sight her walking down the road with another guy in an opposite direction to me such that we meet.
Thanks. Nice blog!

victoroscar:


bro have u even gone through d pages

HARDDON:



Obviously not!

Dataspider:
HARDDON and other gee's in the house. Help a brother.

There's this girl i've been using these drills on. I have let her know that if she wants to kiss me, she would have to ask for it. But she say's I have to make the move first . I want to tell her i'll be at her house this Friday without being needy. My big question is. How do I set her in the mood to kiss me while at her house while still being the boss . I've tot of using music. I've also read the "how to kiss section"on this thread. I just need more specific pointers on killing her defences and getting her to want to kiss me.
Thanks.

temi4fash:

Na this anxiety go finish you..
Just be your self.....

drloveeee:

pls, i need advice on this:
I've been in a 4yrs relationship with this girl. During the 2nd year of our relationship, I noticed some love chats on her whatsapp with a particular guy. I confronted her but she claimed it was nothing. Few months after, something came up and she confessed she had romantic affair with the guy but that they never had sex. The guy in question now has travelled abroad and sometimes, do send my gf some things apart from money. Recently, d guy sent her a phone, she told me about it claiming that he sent it only as a friend and that she doesn't love the guy. Now, my question is that, what do you think I should do at this point?

HARDDON:



You obviously haven't read the thread. If you have you would have noticed how I have been sound two things very clearly! :

1. NEVER ASK A LADY OUT

2. WITH LADIES, THE WAY FORWARD IS THE WAY BACKWARDS: FOR THE MORE YOU TRY TO GO STRAIGHT UP AND FORWARD WITH THEM, THE MORE YOU OOZE NEEDINESS AND DRIVE THEM OFF! Never be despirate( SENDLESS ) with Ladies!


Of all the beautiful places to hang out and still have her why your place?

Your place is a Red flag for any lady you haven't broken all her defenses. And I'm very much sure there is more you didn't tell us about her first coming.

Hear this; whenever you tell her to come to your place, the meaning she reads into it is : he wants to BED me! because she is well experienced going to guys or have read lota stories that touches the heart about other ladies who went visiting.... Arrrhhhh!


Be a boss not a jrod toy boy.

I did treat meeting ladies to a very high degree. Do yourself some good and read that section.

While at it, visit dating drill's blog and learn the robe from scratch.

https://datingdrill.com

rookiy:
harddon bro,but what this girl in question is your girlfriend, and she still doesn't wanna come over?

majormofor:

you gf doesn't want to come over?? and you believe she's your gf??

HARDDON:


Romantic affairs with a guy that was travelling out without s3x?
Please tell me more about my VIRGIN grandma.

Gifts weakens them limps. Beclouds them brains. Most especially if they are from Outa shores. From a guy outa shores. A guy we just kissed with no strings attached.
A guy that still remembers us constantly. A guy we might NOT be spending a lot of time chatting with and making all sorts of nude video calls with. Who knows, maybe the phone is to help us take good quality images and do clear video calls! He is DEFINATELY JUST A FRIEND.

A guy we DID NOT tell we needed a new phone. He JUST sent one! How so nice of him huh?

Pushing it way further: A guy that might return anytime and put a ring on it while we leave you totally in the dark. We might even make luv to you the penultimate night.

Want The Gospel Truth?
YOU ARE THE SIDE GUY.
Her heart is with him though he is far off. You are filling in the blank spaces untill he returns!

And She has YOUR control Knob . Oh how she has so manipulated you into LINE.

In your naive nature, you went swallowing her excesses one after the other while she was growing her guts at each juncture.

Solution?

Test her loyalty by

2. Telling her to prove her loyalty n love to you by using your pics as dp on all social media while she declares her love. Watch her reaction/ actions


1. Telling her to cut all communication with him. Sit there while she deletes, blocks, unfriends etc. That way, the 'clear out' gifts would stop. Watch her response. Words.

3. Collect the phone from her and watch her reaction.
If she doesn't raise dust over it, buy her another. You must not let her use that phone.

4. Tell her you want to pay her people ( parents) a visit. With all seriousness. Records her reactions/words

5. Tell her about this sugar momma that has been on your case. How she has been inviting you to come spend time with her in another state. All expenses paid. 5star treat all the way. Watch her reactions. Record her statements.

If you deploy any/some of the above appropriately and your are good with reading hidden reactions, you would know where her loyalty lies.

But bliv me, it ain't with you Gee.

Dataspider:
Hey guys I told my girl I will be coming to her house tomorow and she should expect out first kiss. We have made some plans for the day, but I sense she is not ready for me and so I have decided not to show up tomorow so that I don't look needy and to put her in suspense. Do you guys think its a smart move?

drloveeee:

thanks so much..I will work on your advice

Mavin1:
I greet you all.

What would I do when a girl (suddenly)started acting lovey dovey but expecting you to ask her out or to profess your love to her.

Questions like;
Who is your girlfriend?
Are you my guy? (when you flirting with her).
When is your birthday?
How old are you? (Told her to figure out herself)

Boss, what's the next move?

Double Don

rookiy:
harddon bro,but what this girl in question is your girlfriend, and she still doesn't wanna come over?

Dataspider:
Hey guys I told my girl I will be coming to her house tomorow and she should expect out first kiss. We have made some plans for the day, but I sense she is not ready for me and so I have decided not to show up tomorow so that I don't look needy and to put her in suspense. Do you guys think its a smart move?

Why are you going to her house? Why not invite her over to your place?

Telling her to expect "your" first kiss is a wrong move. It clearly tells her you've been thinking about kissing her and she's so not going to kiss you, just to make you give up your balls and chase her.

Even if you're dying to kiss her, you shouldn't give her that impression.

You're the boss, you're the prize, she should be the one craving to get a taste of you.

Tell her your lips is too sweet, you can't kiss her cuz too much sugar is bad for her health.

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 138:

To maintain Luv, you must apply BALLS!
If not... the man dies....

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL:

To maintain Luv, you must apply BALLS!
If not... the man dies....