Ohims:
I need a solution plsss they is dis girl I love I asked her out and she agreed ever since den it has been over seven month now and since den we only had nice time once.. if I try 2 see her she claim 2 be busy and am de only 1 doing de calling if I din call her she can stay a Month without hearing 4rm me and she will be owk

When Chating she reply me as if am a stranger ....and I seriously love her I can just help my self without thinking of her I need help plsss I want her 2 crave 4 me so hard .....
De girl is killing me help me plss

SLIMDON88:
Told her that i will love for us to live together forever she smiled and asked her to come around in the evening that I have something to tell her....


Now my problem is that I don't how to keep a vibrant relationship because I havn't been in a relationship before (22 and havn't had sex with a woman but I m*st*rbate ooo lols)

I don't know how to crack jokes, biko make una reason my matter.


Harddon and other gurus please help.

DrBrainiac1:


And I saw her today, I wasn't able to approach her. I have this attitude called *shyness*.


When ever she sees me, she start smiling, she can't control it. Today was worst, when she saw me, we bothcwanted to cross the road, she was at the other side, she was just smiling and trying to control it by turning her face so I wouldn't see it, but I saw it and was smiling too.

When she's was passing through my side, she said something, while smiling heavily but I couldn't hear what she said.


Pls I have two questions...

1. What's her reason for smiling when she sees me? And also she likes looking at my side.

2. How can I approach her without my shyness attitude ??. This is not the first time, we've talked many times I.e last year.


Pls help me...

yetunsbay:
kindly re-read

lahp:


u still haven't answered my question

yetunsbay:
first the rationale isn't to date student rather to achieve the target.

To ur questn I guess normal I'm nt cheap attitude of average lady when she sense where u will be driving at

HARDDON:
To help u take control of your emotions, u have to learn how to turn down ladies. start by the little things;
turn down that airtime request from that your crush, turn down that ur course mate/colleague lunch request, turn down that outing request, however u may, but subtly, funnily and cockily.

SENSE PILL 1b : for once, have d balls to be brave, be YOU and do things because you want to do them not because they cajole u to!
dont be fooled ladies know exactly what they are doing when they go demanding for things they dont even need and airtime they wud never call you with( this is how mugus and magas are made, this is where friendzoning begins) , it is your duty to fashion responses to deflect their demands and hold your sway.

Bae: babes could you u help me get that over there?
YOU: yea sure, after i'm done with this game..or you can say sure, if only u beat me in this game....we know that game isnt ending soon nor can she beat u, she wud be forced to go get it her self (subtle but very effective).

slowly u grow in this game: from subtle refusal to outright funny ones. the only time u wud master this act is when bae starts touching u, u respond, then when every one is steamy, all cloths off and she launches for ur weapon, remove her hand, she wud try again, remove it still, after the 4th time she tries u can let her, i can bet you it wud be explosive! dont ask me why

then be man enough to turn her outright down one day!

i'm not really in the mood to get down tonight B, just want us to cuddle and kiss thereafter we sleep! she wud try her best but if you can stand your ground, you wud have passed this great test. she wudnt bliv it that a guy can turn her down with his hardness and her wetness! she might act funny thereafter, ignore it..... She knows u r becoming a Man!

the ultimate test in this self control drill is this:

try and hook a new catch, after the 1st - 3rd hang outs, they usually feel comfortable, wanting to come know ur place because you have been deflecting all talks away from where u stay( we wud talk more about this soon. it is a perfect way to have any lady BEG to come know your place instead of you begging to have her over as u have been doing and she has been refusing because she knows what your plans are already! )

so lets say you finally agreed to have her over, and after all said and done, reggae turned blues and u guys are on each other, cloths flying with supersonic speed off your bodies as u kiss( more on this in DRILL NUGGET 3) passionately in anticipation of a sumptuous session,
then just as she pulls u over and want u inside of her, u pull away, sit on the bed for a while thinking, then after a brief moment, pick your boxers and start wearing it! she wud be wondering what is happening, tell her u just lost it, that you gtg now. she wud cajole, implore, seduce and do all possible to have you, DONT YOU YEILD! remember this is a test! and to help you scale tru, always remember it your final test. wear your cloths, apologize and hit the street. u wud literally murder her with thots like : is it that he has a gurl friend and doesnt wano cheat on her? or is my kini smelly like that of that blogger? stretch marks on my laps? or is he impotent? cudnt B because i touched his hard Jrod..... is there something i did wrong? ...... if only she knew....

yea i know, it is not fair to do this to any lady, but sit back and ask yourself, is it fair to do this to a guy? Ladies do this to guys all the time that is why they have mastered the act of staying on top of their game, and only let in guys they really want into their web, and for you to master your act also, this you must learn to do, not with one, but as often as u can,,,,,u wud bcome a master in no time, Jrod wud learn its place and then cease to control you.

lahp:

using the student as a way to make her jealous sends the wrong message to the student
hereby losing ur respect

yetunsbay:
first the rationale isn't to date student rather to achieve the target.

To ur questn I guess normal I'm nt cheap attitude of average lady when she sense where u will be driving at

PaulAris:

LMAO!!!
Is this a real question?
I doubt you read the thread to learn, you just picked up lines that he gave for examples and used em'.
And now that its exhausted, you coming back for more.

He made this thread to drill you and not for you to drill through it.
Quit handpicking, learn it all.
Master the art of words

Oregbe17:
Bro you are too much So much wisdom THIS IS PHILOSOPHY OF DATING

Kayus4real:
What if she asks if you had sex before?

Mekanus:
Oga na oshofree we want.

ChiefGuru24:


Lol. You cant learn effectively that way. Buy books, read then go out and practice.

LillyVal:
if she’s curving you in the dms, remind her of Isaiah 4:1.

“On that day , 7 women will grab hold of one man saying: we will eat our own food and cloth ourselves. Just get married to us and take away our disgrace.”

So bro, our time is coming.

Donlexybaze:
I have it bro,bang rule and advance bang rule

Ohims:
I need a solution plsss they is dis girl I love I asked her out and she agreed ever since den it has been over seven month now and since den we only had nice time once.. if I try 2 see her she claim 2 be busy and am de only 1 doing de calling if I din call her she can stay a Month without hearing 4rm me and she will be owk

When Chating she reply me as if am a stranger ....and I seriously love her I can just help my self without thinking of her I need help plsss I want her 2 crave 4 me so hard .....
De girl is killing me help me plss