Most women will choose their child over their husband cos of their love and bond with their children. While alot of men would prefer to save their wives instead of their child cos, of their love for their wives...most times, when a woman start having kids, she cant help but transfer all her love, affection and attention to her child. Thereby neglecting her duty and commitment to her husband. Women are known to behave like that. But a man will always love and cherish his wife, even when they start having kids. He will never love his kids more than his wife...

Family men and women should land here, food don done. come and educate us. Is the op right or wrong?

I will never chose my children over my wife lailai, the children will grow up and love someone else more than I or their mother.

How many remember their parents first when they collect salary? Your bae come to your mind.

On a hated note: I hate ladies that abandoned their husband when they have a child and all you see in their DP is their child with so many tags, my heart, my forever, my pride, my bae.... not saying is bad but the child will grow up and make you second oh his or her list..... your spouse should come first

It has to be the wife. The wife brought forth the kids!!!

If a woman gives birth, she automatically puts de kids first bcoz of de bond which is formed while de baby is in de tummy. De man can still put de woman first bcoz he has never carried a baby