I will be 30 this year, single....just starting my life in a small way. I stay in my dad's house though he's dead and mom stays elsewhere married to another man, so I practically stay alone in that house. My question is. Is it proper or improper to stay in my dad's house, and also get married there?..though I have plans in building my house in future as God's will prevails over my life.

No crime in that bro...... Or is it not better than to get married in a rented apartment and landlord start doing his tin cos of delay in house rent.......


Just go for a woman that can cope and not the one that would put u under unnecessary pressure all in the name to impress her peers



Cheeeeeers

Ur father's house is your house. Just as the lord's house is our house.

MayowaOke:
I will be 30 this year, single....just starting my life in a small way. I stay in my dad's house though he's dead and mom stays elsewhere married to another man, so I practically stay alone in that house. My question is. Is it proper or improper to stay in my dad's house, and also get married there?..though I have plans in building my house in future as God's will prevails over my life.

nothing wrong in that if you are a hardworking man and willing to struggle to accomplish more than your late father did. just be sure you make him proud so he can look down with a smile. God bless your hustle.

That's your decision to make Op,
Do what you think is proper, not what i or any other person thinks,
Don't live your life based on the expectations of others,
To add to that in case you get any money were you no wan use again, abeg borrow me, my account number dey my signature

As for me I'll advice you not to get married while still living in ur dad's house whether ur dad is dead or not, because you'll be feeling too comfortable to make a move any further. But if you move away before getting married, it will make you more matured and independent. Remember, that house is a ``family house'' and nomatter how comfortable you are now, it wont change that fact.
So if you can afford it, bros make a move.

One question: Are you the first born son, and if no, did your dad leave a will?

osesology:
As for me I'll advice you not to get married while still living in ur dad's house whether ur dad is dead or not, because you'll be feeling too comfortable to make a move any further. But if you move away before getting married, it will make you more matured and independent. Remember, that house is a ``family house'' and nomatter how comfortable you are now, it wont change that fact.
So if you can afford it, bros make a move.
One question: Are you the first born son, and if no, did your dad leave a will?

Well, I can't afford moving out now...just stuck in between decisions...I hate the fact that I have to rent an apartment(so many things I've heard)...yes I'm the. First and only son.

Since you are the only son.. ... staying in the house isn't an issue. You'll get yours later. I hope your siblings are good ppl though

Swissheart:
Since you are the only son.. ... staying in the house isn't an issue. You'll get yours later. I hope your siblings are good ppl though

Best sisters ever!

I dont think there is a problem with your decision.

there is nothing wrong with it since you are the only son .

@op. Thats not your father's house any more. Its practically yours. You are the only son and child. What becomes of the house if you decide to leave?

So one can actually get a sincere and matured advice on NL? Maybe cos this is not yet on frontpg. I'm impressed. Op, u've got what u searching.

Do the needful bro