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Marriage And Bank Account(s) by xoxoxo(f): 4:30pm On Jun 30, 2009 |
Is it ok to have separate accounts, you know his, hers and ours Also, what would your reaction be if you found out your wife/husband has a secret bank account? (his/her name or someone else's name) |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by Fhemmmy: 4:38pm On Jun 30, 2009 |
There is nothing bad in having a seperate bank accont. If i found out my woman has a secret account, as long as there is money in it for us to spend, no wahala. Seriously, i often tell men to have some money stashed away, in an account, in an investment, cos nothing kills a man when he needs to take care of his family and there is no money to do that. |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jun 30, 2009 |
xoxoxo: 1. Great idea 2. Be suspicious, unless it's family someone needs to explain him/herself |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by mrsb(f): 9:32am On Jul 01, 2009 |
I think its ok. We always used to have joint account for house stuff (50/50) and our own private accounts when we lived in the UK. I liked that hubby didn't see how much I blow on shoes, manicures etc!! Funnily enough now we are in Nigeria, we don't even have a joint account and his finances are a lot more private!! Think its just the norm here. |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by Nobody: 9:55am On Jul 01, 2009 |
Nothing bad in having or running same accounts with yor spouse but be vigilant cos anything could happen. ![]() |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by ifyalways(f): 10:02am On Jul 01, 2009 |
we operate a joint(for the home) Private accts(for personal needs or whatever) Anybody that really works,deserves his/her personal acct . . .If i can work,then i shld be able to have some money for myself and use it without apologies.IMO For full-time housewives and househusbands,i guess they "might" not be able to enjoy that priviledge. ![]() That aside,this topic has been overflogged here in NL. |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by JJYOU: 10:05am On Jul 01, 2009 |
mrsb:mmm that is naija mind for you. plan B and "just in case" as i am learning on NL. |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by Nobody: 12:12am On Jul 02, 2009 |
JJYOU: That has saved so many Nigerian women, i can't shout! The moment you leave your dads house, you've got to step up and look out for yourself. |
Re: Marriage And Bank Account(s) by kok(m): 1:00am On Jul 02, 2009 |
It is very much okay as long as its not a secret account. |
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