I would really appreciate sensible comment! Ok take a seat..

I’m engaged to be married soon. My fiancé is a very
sensitive person and it’s both a blessing and a curse. His
sensitivity makes him caring, thoughtful and sweet, but it
also makes him get angry over little things. Right now he is
not talking to me, because yesterday he sent me a message
which I didn’t reply to. I didn’t notice the message because I
wasn’t with my phone for hours and when I finally got back
to it, I took a picture and sent it to his WhatsApp. He read
the message and saw the picture I sent but didn’t reply.
Since I had no idea he was mad at me, I assumed he was
busy and would reply in due time. I didn’t want to be a petty
and annoying girlfriend by asking why he had read my
messages without replying. I wasn’t mindful of the chat
above the picture I sent, because I thought they were from
our previous conversation. I have apologised to him and
explained that if I wanted to ignore his message, I wouldn’t
have sent him a picture minutes after he sent me a
message. He said he didn’t feel like talking last night and he
has been silent, distant and cold to me all day. (He hasn’t
read or replied the messages I sent him)
He gets angry with me over pointless things and I always
find myself apologising for so many things. This makes me
look like a constant offender in the relationship. I feel like I
deserve more patience from him, considering that I love
him with all my heart regardless of all his shortcomings and
family drama. His brother is a serial rapist and my fiance has got him arrested twice, once in Nigeria and once in south Africa. His brother managed to bribe the victims families in both cases and got the charges dropped. His brother’s depravity is so bad that he has slept with countless closely related family members and raped a lot of others. I’m still willing to overlook all these because I’m convinced in my heart that we both complement each other.
I am relocating to another country to join him, but I still
haven’t figured out what to do with my life over there. I’m an artist, a happy go lucky person who isn’t content with just
working to make money. I want to be happy with whatever
I’m doing. I don’t want to wake up a few years down the line
and regret leaving Nigeria.
He has made some sacrifices for me too. Moved into a
cheaper apartment, made some lifestyle changes in order to
save money for our up coming wedding and to have enough
to take care of both of us when I join him. Thinking about
how he reacts to issues has got me thinking and wondering
if most people in the world have got one comma or the
other. Perhaps this is his own and I have to help him
gradually grow out of it. His behavior and feelings of distrust
of me stems from several heartbreaks from women. Does
he have to be so sensitive or am I overreacting?

Long Epistle, learn to summarize.

Bottom line is he gets angry quick, you can't help it
But you can apologise and buy him gifts
Don't be tired of that
And sometimes you too form angry!

Communication... is the key

OP nor vex. I didn't read this shiit.

he dey vex well well abi
lols sensitive people are like that, when u have them as family either as kids, sidling or spouse u av no oda option than to be up class in calmness and understanding. seeing appology as breakfast, lunch and dinner for dem. be slow to speak and watch wat u say to them when,u re angry cos they hardly forget words and gestire they value and read much meaning to this things. if u must be straight wit them to clear your dislike in any issue ensure u choose ur wwords carefully. that doesnt mean u cant get angry oo u can. cos they re swit and quick to appologies too wen they discover they re wrong in a matter.if ur bobo is not talking to u now dont push him just give him some breathing space.am not saying u should distance ur self oo.just explan ursef wen then give him space to calm off. hr ll get over it.just remain loving and sincere .

prestige2013:
Long Epistle, learn to summarize.

help the young lady out.i dont no why its so hard for people to lend a helping hand.it wont take u a 3minute to read the post and say somtin.i aword from u can make a difference. kai

Pucaxo:
OP nor vex. I didn't read this shiit.

then u shouldnt av written any sh......t

He will change when you get married. Just insecurity problem from him.

Also, please always reply your fiancé's messages on time, because I am sure you expect same from him. Delayed reply gives room for negative thoughts.

Finally, the part of his family drama and brother isn't needed. Every family including yours has a problem or two that they deal with so why bring it up? What is your intentions? To get more sympathy or what?

Do have a great day.

madone:
then u shouldnt av written any sh......t

Foolish cretin! Drink water and mind your goddam business.

its not by force to comment when u know u have nothing sensible to say.na wa oooo



back to the topic ,op I think you guys should sit down and sort out your problems like adults.like a poster said COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY

Pucaxo:


Foolish cretin! Drink water and mind your goddam business.

no offence dear, i just realised u are just a minor

madone:
no offence dear, i just realised u are just a minor

I'm a minor cos I look cleaner than you eh?


Mr. Major, kindly swerve to hell.