When you become of age, everyone is concerned about your marital status. Everybody wants to know when you will get married. They tell you lot of things you are missing out as a single and you wish you are already married. Hum! is a single person really missing out of something? Are the married one’s trying to tell us it’s a stage of perfection? Are there other things they have not told us about marriage?

Below are three things the married people don’t want to talk about:

1.You will work harder than ever: Do you still remember the stress you went through and the extra work you did to pass mathematics when you were in college? The mathematics in marriage is harder than that. Unlike our college mathematics that have definite answers to questions, marriage mathematics doesn’t, there is no specific method, you have to device your own methods to solve your own problems. Sometimes the solution you used to solve a problem may not be applicable for that the same problem when you encounter it again.

2.You can only change yourself: Going by the normal way of sending your younger ones, friends and staffs on errands. Yes, during relationship it’s most times faked. You will need to do those things yourself, because he/she will most times not help you. It becomes more frustrating when you want to change someone’s attitude. My dear, it easier to change yourself than trying to change someone else. It’s habitual, that their habit.

3.You will expect more: He’s cute, wow! My wife is beautiful. After sometimes you will want more. You will wish he/she looks like someone else. The feelings you use to have when you started dating will no longer be there after a long while, though it can be created, but can never be like the time you said I will die with you and for you. If you are not aware of this truth, you will look at the cute and beautiful one and you will say why did I get married to you, was I blind? You were not, it’s just natural that you expect more.