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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by nelszx: 11:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
In as much as I feel not commenting but I'm forced to make a comment. Some ppl don't know what breast examination is all about. Yes you went for a lump to be examined and besides not all lumps are stationary but are mostly mobile (moving) within the breast so u need to get hold of it first to examine. That he was touching ur nipples or examining ur areola to check for degeneration or discharge from the nipples. U didn't say he raised ur hands to check ur armpit for inflamed lymphs. I was once in a breast cancer examination unit (histopathology) and hardly can you see a nurse or a female doctors. Not a crime dat we're young (it's part of the training).
She just has this bias that he's young bla bla bla most times its better to open ur eyes and see what's been carried out on u. Except wen drawing the aspirate.
Most centres is a team work so if you are not comfortable u can request for another Dr and I'm very sure it will still be a MALE

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by sybarite7(m): 11:22pm On Feb 07, 2016
wagazala:
OP could be blowing this out of proportion. Is there anyway he could examine without actually touching them and caressing? Inexperience on the part of the Doc forced him to smile seeing how the patient is aroused by just a medical examination. Lastly, OP had her mind made up about the 'Young' Doc before he started examining her, there's nothing he would do that would be right in her eyes. Wonder if she would have felt the same way if it was an older doctor and the scenario played out exactly the same.

PS: to those who think the tip isn't to be examined:


Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side — from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage.

Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the Tip, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn.

Read rest at link below.

http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps


Madam should have examined herself or insisted on a Female doc if she wasn't comfortable @ a younger doctor. Shikena.


Thanks for making sense,really appreciate, others should learn from u,on how not to think out of proportion, I wonder what she was expecting ,maybe she thinks d guy will just touch her boobs once and say 'madam u are OK' thanks once more
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by DaBullIT(m): 7:57am On Feb 08, 2016




Why is she complaining? as far as I know the doctor probably was smiling because you closed your eyes and was moaning



When you go to check for breast lumps do you think it's a machine (MRI) OR XRAY that'll check?


Make we hear word abeg he sweet the woman
chachanga:
[size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

Hello Princess,
I dont know if I should tell my husband about this or just swallow it so as to avoid causing problems or a confrontation. I went to ****** hospital close at Alausa to check for chest lumps. A very young doctor came strolling in to the office where I was asked to wait. He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown as was actually assigned to me by the admin at the general waiting area.
The hospital was actually recommended by my sister in-law who had her mammogram there. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when he asked me to remove my top and bra and then he started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and wait for him to finish the examination. The touching soon turned to caressing and at a point he seen to concentrate on my nipple and to be honest, I have a very sensitive nipple and the always harden and jut out when touched (even breast feeding my babies felt that way)

This went on and on until I was almost shivering. I was embarrassed beyond words and wanted to ask if lumps form in the nipple area but i felt so violated to speak. I opened my eyes to tell him to stop only to discover that he was looking at me smiling sheepishly! All the while he’s been handling my breasts!


I felt so awful. I felt used and molested. He didn’t say a word, I removed his hands and dressed up while he continued smiling and then started saying some medical trash that didnt make no sense to me cos I wasnt listening anymore. When I finished dressing up, he even asked me to come back in 7 days time for another round of checks as I left his office.
This happened on Monday and up till now I have this heavy feeling of being violated by a kid. I still cannot calm down, as if I was defiled. I have been moody and unable to tell my husband. Please what should I do?



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http://fashionbuzz.tv/blog-reader-feels-molested-by-male-doctor-who-squeezed-her-breasts/#comment-4763

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Yeah, I know this was from an agony column on a 'blog' for Pete's sake but one can't be too careful these days as the #Endtimes chanters would wanna have you believe besides I'm yet to forget numerous tales of these pathetic souls who throw all caution to the winds on the path of destroying another's virtue and sanity (https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=doctor%20caught%20molesting%20patients&gws_rd=ssl).

But why any self-respecting person would do this i just can't imagine! The woman should just take up the issue, abeg.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by mrdino(m): 10:38am On Feb 08, 2016
missdebs:
hah...see this one o, wa pe nbe
If only u could put yourself in her shoes, u will understand how she feels.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by ayanfemy(f): 11:06am On Feb 08, 2016
Been a victim before by health practitioners! I remember a med doctor who was checking my temperature by touching my bubs, incidentally my husband was in d consulting room with me, he later asked for my phone numbers for 'further consultations'
Went for a V swap, the lab technician was literally fingering me
Went for HSG, that's a story for another day!
I see their actions as "it's not their fault, they dare not if I didn't go to them, they will not molest me" let her see it as one of these things!

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by sublimev: 1:21pm On Feb 08, 2016
@ op wht u said is totally trash.you had the right to check it ursef or called a female nurse to examine you.not you wailing here on NL.Sensitive parts are either chked ursef and give bck result of wht u feel or rather chked by a female nurse / doctors.you had d right.......some ladies are really fish brain.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by phemzades(m): 5:00am On Feb 09, 2016
Pls dont judge.. D lady is at fault too.. Y dd she close her eyes nd she said her nipples harden too.. Hw do u convince ur husband if he sees a clip of dat nd she was almost shivering too.. Abeg na two of dem no well
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Nobody: 8:13am On May 31, 2019
Hugely thought out! Whoa. cry
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Johnchyz(m): 3:16pm On May 20, 2020
adorablepepple:
I would advice you to tell your husband because it once happened to me but it was while he was using his stethoscope on my chest and the next thing he started touching my breast asking if I do examine it,immediately I collected that his stupid instrument and hit it on his head and used my shoe on him and I kept shouting till people came. I told my mum and she followed the case up. It happened in a general hospital. He faced the hospital committee . Women stop keeping quiet when been molested,stop it! Fight back
.DID YOU SAY ALL WOMEN SHOULD DO WHAT? WHAT OF YOU WOMEN WHO CHEAT ON THEIR HUSBAND BY SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN IN A HOTEL ROOM. SHOULD WE MEN FIGHT BACK? DON'T TELL ME I'M DISECTING THE MATTER.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by adorablepepple(f): 9:31am On Jun 03, 2020
Johnchyz:
.DID YOU SAY ALL WOMEN SHOULD DO WHAT? WHAT OF YOU WOMEN WHO CHEAT ON THEIR HUSBAND BY SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN IN A HOTEL ROOM. SHOULD WE MEN FIGHT BACK? DON'T TELL ME I'M DISECTING THE MATTER.
What is this one saying?
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by hidhrhis(m): 10:24am On Jun 03, 2020
just seeing this topic since 2016
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by KAM3KAZI: 11:43am On Jun 03, 2020
It must be judgement day the way topics dey resurrect these days���

That doctor was very unprofessional. Also, I think the lady gave a wrong signal by closing her eyes,the doctor would have thought she was enjoying it.
it's still wrong though

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