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I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by prettydiva003(f): 10:15pm On Feb 09, 2016
I'm not happy tonight.......

there is this guy i just met last month and we've been friends since then. we chat, call each other, gist and all that but there's nothing between us. But tonight he said someone checked his phone and saw my picture and the person said "she's a nice girl but she's a single mother" and i've never told him i had a son though he asked me about my past one which i told him another thing. Immediately he said that, I was shocked and felt somehow but I lied to him that the person was wrong and I've been having feelings for this guy.

please what can I do? I need your advise.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by K9Uneet(m): 10:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
You lied to get out of a lie Now you're asking us what to do to get out of the subsisting lie. Very simple. Do what you did before. . . Lie again.

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Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Molake94(m): 10:21pm On Feb 09, 2016
Are U planning on Dating Him
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by vault(m): 10:22pm On Feb 09, 2016
oh no..... you shouldn't have lied now, tell him about it and if he doesn't like it...

he ain't for you
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by chimerase2: 10:24pm On Feb 09, 2016
Morale lesson pls? undecided

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Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Femich18(m): 10:25pm On Feb 09, 2016
Telling a lie to defend a lie? Y not just com out straight to him. The lies uve told will just find you out one day and ur Integrity tarnished...
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Cutehector(m): 10:25pm On Feb 09, 2016
Ur problem. Deal with it! Next time, u'l realise taking someone for granted is bad.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Cholls(m): 10:26pm On Feb 09, 2016
My sister this is a big turn off. May God help you out of this predicament.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by prettydiva003(f): 10:30pm On Feb 09, 2016
I only sees him as a friend but with time i started developing interest in him maybe because we are close I don't know and I don't know if he's feeling the same way I'm feeling. But I don't want our relationship to end like this because I will not be free with him again.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Yungprinx(m): 10:31pm On Feb 09, 2016
ya, lie again n look for another lie to cover up d lie again...
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by am0s(m): 10:31pm On Feb 09, 2016
as a phsycologist both of u are liars
guys dont tell ladies what other guys said about them unless ....
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Nobody: 10:37pm On Feb 09, 2016
Are you not a single mother undecided undecided get your shits together it's not a derogatory word...or are you not proud of yourself? If you dey vex continue
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Aromas: 10:37pm On Feb 09, 2016
am0s:
as a phsycologist both of u are liars
guys dont tell ladies what other guys said about them unless ....

I like the smart game he played, thou the guy might not be loyal but still being Anti-Loyal doesn't stop you from having a responsible gal. she Bleep-up
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by SolexxBarry(m): 10:38pm On Feb 09, 2016
If u love him,y lie to him na undecided
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Nobody: 10:39pm On Feb 09, 2016
You lied,and that's why cant be happy.u dont get it,do u?lying is a burden especially to someone who loves u.look come out with it,now that it's still early redeem urself,tell him the truth and brace urself for the worst coz two things are involved and one is bound to happen,he either walks away or he stays.if he walks away,then it was neva meant to be and if he stays good.in situations like this,u never should have lied.let it be one of the first thing u tell anyone who is initiating a serious relationship with,let them know if they can handle it or not. hope i was helpful.

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Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Topestbilly(m): 10:44pm On Feb 09, 2016
If u tell another lie which u hav already did it will lead to another one n some on but sadly he will still finds out.


So just sit em down n explain everything regarding ur child from A to Z, if he stays fine n he leaves fin also.

My lady, I beg u in d name of God don't put men or anyone b4 ur child.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by emerged01(m): 10:48pm On Feb 09, 2016
You caused your problem. Don't deny your son for anything. Open up to the guy. You can't cover up lies with lies,.....truth,it is like a guy on viagra,he will surely come
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Nobody: 10:53pm On Feb 09, 2016
A lier will always need to tell lies in other to cover other lies.....continue the trend my sister..
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by cruzita(f): 10:55pm On Feb 09, 2016
undecided why didn't u seek for our advice before lying ?children of nowadays eh *goes back to my hut*
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by doveda: 11:05pm On Feb 09, 2016
prettydiva003:
I'm not happy tonight.......

there is this guy i just met last month and we've been friends since then. we chat, call each other, gist and all that but there's nothing between us. But tonight he said someone checked his phone and saw my picture and the person said "she's a nice girl but she's a single mother" and i've never told him i had a son though he asked me about my past one which i told him another thing. Immediately he said that, I was shocked and felt somehow but I lied to him that the person was wrong and I've been having feelings for this guy.

please what can I do? I need your advise.


Serves you right!
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Kayoski(m): 11:10pm On Feb 09, 2016
doveda:



Serves you right!
were u born heartless or its just life that framed u like this?..

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Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Kayoski(m): 11:14pm On Feb 09, 2016
cruzita:
undecided why didn't u seek for our advice before lying ?children of nowadays eh *goes back to my hut*
because say u don dey advice pple for here , u kon think say u be adult...
wait till life gives u a hot slap or probably a knockout punch. then u go know say khaki no be leather..
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by cruzita(f): 11:16pm On Feb 09, 2016
Kayoski:

because say u don dey advice pple for here , u kon think say u be adult...
wait till life gives u a hot slap or probably a knockout punch. then u go know say khaki no be leather..
well no be my fault say life no wan give me hard knock or punch .so make I continue to advice others
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Nobody: 11:16pm On Feb 09, 2016
Denying your son just cuz of a guy? What could be worse? Smh
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Kayoski(m): 11:21pm On Feb 09, 2016
cruzita:
well no be my fault say life no wan give me hard knock or punch .so make I continue to advice others
just saying don't be quick to judge, instead learn from their mistakes and make urself better.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by mekzyjoe(m): 11:24pm On Feb 09, 2016
prettydiva003:
I'm not happy tonight.......

there is this guy i just met last month and we've been friends since then. we chat, call each other, gist and all that but there's nothing between us. But tonight he said someone checked his phone and saw my picture and the person said "she's a nice girl but she's a single mother" and i've never told him i had a son though he asked me about my past one which i told him another thing. Immediately he said that, I was shocked and felt somehow but I lied to him that the person was wrong and I've been having feelings for this guy.

please what can I do? I need your advise.

Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:24pm On Feb 09, 2016
chimerase2:
Morale lesson pls? undecided

USE CONDOMS!

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Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by doveda: 11:25pm On Feb 09, 2016
Kayoski:

were u born heartless or its just life that framed u like this?..
Really, some people believe that I am very emphatic, generous and friendlysmileytongue....seriouslyundecided

I am not heartless but unlike most people, I find it easy to compartmentalise all my emotionssmiley


I don't like whoever is behind that moniker. I cannot begin to list the reasons that I hate her. I find it amusing that a woman who could mock another woman because of a sagging bosom is a single mothershocked

If there is one thing I don't do, I don't mock others for their mistakes or issues beyong their control and I cannot get my head around people who dosmiley. Well, except in this type of situationsmiley and trust me, I will love to make fun of hersmiley.
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Kayoski(m): 11:29pm On Feb 09, 2016
doveda:

Really, some people believe that I am very emphatic, generous and friendlysmileytongue....seriouslyundecided

I am not heartless but unlike most people, I find it easy to compartmentalise all my emotionssmiley


I don't like whoever is behind that moniker. I cannot begin to list the reasons that I hate her. I find it amusing that a woman who could mock another woman because of a sagging bosom is a single mothershocked

If there is one thing I don't do, I don't mock others for their mistakes or issues beyong their control and I cannot get my head around people who dosmiley. Well, except in this type of situationsmiley and trust me, I will love to make fun of hersmiley.

ok i get,the ish isn't about her post sef...

Good luck is resolving ur differences..
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by doveda: 11:32pm On Feb 09, 2016
Kayoski:

ok i get,the ish isn't about her post sef...

Good luck is resolving ur differences..

smiley

She could be lyingsad
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by Kayoski(m): 11:36pm On Feb 09, 2016
doveda:


smiley

She could be lyingsad
probably, but I don't think anyone in her right senses will joke with something like being a single mother, it could have future repercussions..


Na her wahala be that Jor...

everyone has his/her own issues , I no fit carry another person own for head..
Re: I'm Not Happy Tonight....... by doveda: 11:41pm On Feb 09, 2016
Kayoski:

probably, but I don't think anyone in her right senses will joke with something like being a single mother, it could have future repercussions..


Na her wahala be that Jor...

everyone has his/her own issues , I no fit carry another person own for head..

I like you alreadysmiley

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