Romeo4real:

If u date decent (not "nigerian standard" decent) well brought up girls with good value and morals, you would not have this problem.

could u pls explain the highlighted a bit clearer? what is the nigerian standard decency

lord krato:

Guy,i gt ur point bt d fact is dat d decent girls r nt seen evry day nd 2 tel u sumtimes i miss d lyf of a bad boy u knw, d attntion,d respect nd d fact dat gud nd bad girls dote on ya.bt hell,girls dnt knw gud tins wen they c 1

kalauta:

Wetin do your keyboard? Reading through your post is like running though a maze.

Thank you jare!
Go dey post like say na text message, giving pesin headache trying to decipher. Na so the thing dey destroy people writing skills

@Topic, most of the guys i've seen and met flash. . .has nothing to do with them being bad boys.

Romeo4real:

Having dated many Naija girls in Naija, and Naija girls in the UK & USA, it is quite clear that in Naija, the bar for morals are set very very low. I met so many girls in Naija termed as "Good" girls, but "good" was the last thing u would assciate with them.
I soon realised that a "good" girl in Naija is different from a "good" girl anywhere else.
The reason is Naija guys in Naija hold the women to less extracting and demanding standards, and are more willing to forgive them of their indiscretions than Naija guys in the US/UK. But when the same girls leave Naija, they have to up the game, b'cos the rules are not the same, and the guys in US/UK would not tolerate such nonsense.

lord krato:

@klassyguy,wel i get wat u mean but wat about being offered sh*#t,come on,no one likes 2 be tot as a maga @ first.to me it insults ma degree from "school of hard knocks"

lord krato:

@iice okay,my post was kind of shortened but a lot of people do so on nl or do we all keep it "on a long thing" and with respect to flash we do know that most flashy guys are the hardest to keep down.its just like saying that there are some party girls that are wifey material.kinda true but not rarely true.thanks

People shorten a few words, not the whole sentence, unless you are in the phone section

On the flash issue, like i said, alot of men flash - not necessarily because they are playaz but because it has become accepted that to catch the eye of ladies, one needs to flash what he has or supposedly has .