Last Saturday, I invited my fiance home to assist me...she helped me in cleaning up the house, wash the plates...but to my suprise after she left my mum called me to ask who wash the plates....I respond it my fiance.....she got angry and said it is better for her not to have touch the plates...I ask why, she said the kitchen were she wash was dirty which I went to kitchen to confirm.....but I realize its not true....I told my mum why all dis.....u always find fault in anything she does.....my mum got angry telling me she don't want to see dis lady again.....NOW....am 28 years old.....av been dating dis lady over 4years now....we both LOVE each other...but I observe my mum dislike this girl because of her background......she called me sometimes ago 2years back to ask about her background but I thought she was happy with her.....I explain everything about the lady and her family but her respond was....u can't marry her...I asked her why....she said because of her background..... NOW AM OUT OF IDEAS......PLS I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE PLS DONT MIND MY ENGLISH AND SPELLING PLS.

Why don't you strt first by telling us exactly about her background?

What is her background?

what exactly is she saying is wrong with her background?

Tell ur mum to fork off

She's poor.....both her parent
My fiance studied accounting and auditing and she's currently working with accounting and auditing firm in Abuja now

What is the "background" you're talking about here

Last Saturday, I invited my fiance home to assist me...she helped me in cleaning up the house, wash the plates...but to my suprise after she left my mum called me to ask who wash the plates....I respond it my fiance.....she got angry and said it is better for her not to have touch the plates...I ask why, she said the kitchen were she wash was dirty which I went to kitchen to confirm.....but I realize its not true....I told my mum why all dis.....u always find fault in anything she does.....my mum got angry telling me she don't want to see dis lady again.....NOW....am 28 years old.....av been dating dis lady over 4years now....we both LOVE each other...but I observe my mum dislike this girl because of her background......she called me sometimes ago 2years back to ask about her background but I thought she was happy with her.....I explain everything about the lady and her family but her respond was....u can't marry her...I asked her why....she said because of her background..... NOW AM OUT OF IDEAS......PLS I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE PLS DONT MIND MY ENGLISH AND SPELLING PLS.

She's poor.....both her parent
My fiance studied accounting and auditing and she's currently working with accounting and auditing firm in Abuja now

She's poor.....both her parent
My fiance studied accounting and auditing and she's currently working with accounting and auditing firm in Abuja now
Last Saturday, I invited my fiance home to assist me...she helped me in cleaning up the house, wash the plates...but to my suprise after she left my mum called me to ask who wash the plates....I respond it my fiance.....she got angry and said it is better for her not to have touch the plates...I ask why, she said the kitchen were she wash was dirty which I went to kitchen to confirm.....but I realize its not true....I told my mum why all dis.....u always find fault in anything she does.....my mum got angry telling me she don't want to see dis lady again.....NOW....am 28 years old.....av been dating dis lady over 4years now....we both LOVE each other...but I observe my mum dislike this girl because of her background......she called me sometimes ago 2years back to ask about her background but I thought she was happy with her.....I explain everything about the lady and her family but her respond was....u can't marry her...I asked her why....she said because of her background..... NOW AM OUT OF IDEAS......PLS I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE PLS DONT MIND MY ENGLISH AND SPELLING PLS.[/quote]

OK we know she's poor but do u have to over-emphasize it by ur multiple posts..


make ur mum understand she's the one ur heart is it...and she's is already doing better for herself..
nobi her background u go marry..with time she would adjust to the wealthy lifestyle...

u cud also expose her a little more , take her to sophisticated places in town..

Marry ur mum Na. Make case close

Just because she came from a poor home?

Your mum got no reason to dislike her if that's it, if you wealthy enough you can make things okay, besides she's working and not the lazy type so?
You need to have serious discussions with your mum, convince her the lady is good.

Ur mum has no geniue excuses, there are more than what ur mum has told u, know when ur mum is happy and jokingly ask her why she dislike ur fiancee

Mothers and their way of troubling DILS

If u love her make her family rich to ur mother standard...that ur lady is real if u leave some1 richer than u nd ur mother will come for her cus those poor parents have invested thier richies in her.u jst watch

Make ur mum. See. D good side in her
Let her know she's someone that would take good care of her