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Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Seeing my mates and younger ones getting married... Living all alone Cooking and eating all alone Sleeping and waking up all alone Working and coming home to meet no one Driving all d time with no one at d passenger seat It seems am getting tired and ashamed of this kind of life ...I need to be FOUR Just 4 I&my wife 2 kids Pls help is this thought normal for a working class guy If u ar a young woman and feel d same let's make it a chat 4 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by virginchaser(m): 12:20pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
I feel you, what a style to advertise that you are looking for a wife. 11 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Nobody: 12:21pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
See rant o!
LMAO! |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Pineapp: 12:24pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Is your husband material up to 27 yards?? 20 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Atlantian: 12:24pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
You are just 32. I know very well to do millionaires and billionares at 42, still single and not searching. 11 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by StPete: 12:32pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
If your reason for needing a partner is cos of boredom then ur reason is pathetic. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Swissheart(f): 12:38pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Companionship is one of the reasons for marriage so you aren't wrong about your thoughts however it goes beyond just seeing a woman beside you. Are you ready for marriage?..... .... I do not think it is all about the age though age, growth, development and responsibility should b hand-in-hand 2 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by adren(m): 1:00pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Pineapp: just continue with your tailoring work.. if that is you on your DP.. OP would rather wait till he's 50.. 5 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by yomi007k(m): 1:05pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
I'm 31.... I live like this and I'm very happy. Na wa oo 6 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by HermajestyQ(f): 1:10pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
I feel ur pain Oga, now that u r sure u want to settle down, approach any single lady that u fancy. It might just be ur lucky day. 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Hollyb(f): 2:34pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
God will help u locate the right one. Shalom 5 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Ursino(f): 2:35pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
StPete: Conversely, you are the one failing, and not the OP; for the primary aim of marriage is for COMPANIONSHIP. Other things might follow, but they are just added advantages. Go ask any marriage expert. 8 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by StPete: 2:48pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Ursino: U may hav a problem comprehending wat companionship entails. Pls enlighten yourself and get a full grasp of d meaning of words before u quote me next time. 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by yvelchstores(f): 1:21am On Feb 16, 2016 |
mylogic111:Don't be so hard on urself. Don't rush it n most especially, dont look for a wife on nl. Start or continue d search in ur church.....all d best. 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by MurderX: 3:39am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Been married for over a decade. Your feelings are absolutely justified, desire for companionship is a key signal. 7 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by SirShymexx: 8:05am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Being 32 as a guy isn't that old. For most guys, life starts at 30, hence there's a luxury and window of opportunity to make mistakes and live the life during ya 20s. Don't watch others and focus on yourself. At 32 - most of the most powerful and richest guys in the world today, were still trying to figure out what they wanted to do with their lives. Relationship/companionship is grossly overrated, especially if you're in it for the sake of it. The most sacred and important thing in life is peace. And if you can't get the same peace you get by being alone from companionship/relationship - there's no point being in one. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Dyt(f): 12:28pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Atlantian: Pls let me meet just 2 of the billionaires 6 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Acidosis(m): 2:22pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
How else do you want to spend your lifetime? Loneliness is not the issue, the problem is doing the same thing (routine) everyday. Bath, go to work, come back home, and eat. You will do this for 35 years say for instance you work with the civil service, with a wife or not. Don't get tired yet, you've not started. 2 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by timilehing(m): 6:32pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
What exactly are you trying to say You don't have any girlfriend @32 or they are not all good for marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Sunnypar(m): 11:57pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
The girls commenting you can start by sending them pm |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Sunnypar(m): 12:00am On Feb 17, 2016 |
timilehing:One need to be careful with the girls outside now...... Women are good pretenders..... Shine your eyes... 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Sunnypar(m): 12:02am On Feb 17, 2016 |
yvelchstores:Church Church ..... He can try that....but a lot of hypocrites in church today...... 2 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by pretydiva(f): 6:49am On Feb 17, 2016 |
Why don't u approach a lady n express ur feelings 2 her |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by jashar(f): 10:07am On Feb 17, 2016 |
Sunnypar: @ OP, are you mentally, physically, financially, intellectually and emotionally ready for marriage? Don't let desperation and people's opinions drive you into something you ain't ready for. 'sides, there should be a cutie that's got ya fancy 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by StPete: 10:10am On Feb 17, 2016 |
☹ 1 Like |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Nobody: 11:07am On Feb 17, 2016 |
SirShymexx: OP, listen to Shymexx. |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by SirShymexx: 11:31am On Feb 17, 2016 |
Yieldings: Lol. My beautiful yield the junior doctor. When are we going to start our companionship? Who knows where that's going to take us? Erm, still daydreaming about what you look like and you need to make my dream a reality lol. |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by ancashy(f): 3:18pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
yvelchstores:CHURCH? I LAUGH IN SPANISH. |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by ladygudhead(f): 3:36pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
Na waooo! hmmm...orishirishi! |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by ladygudhead(f): 4:18pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
Op, just ask yourself what you want.I mean what you really want. U will find your answers within you. I asked myself this same question some few months back,I got my answers...All I do now is watch and wait(as relating to my own answers o). Stop looking at other people's life.Its not all engaged that are truly happy.You see two persons every Saturday, dancing n smiling to n fro the alta;it does not mean their life the best.It's always the smiling countenance we will always display outwardly. Singlehood is cool ,as well as Companionship.Emotional attachment is not about how soon but how well! Its about the peace of mind one should derive from it. The truth of the matter is, no matter how we 'singles' would try to hide it or form tough, we all SOMETIMES wish for a warm mate.A heart mate.But each time one remember that it is not just finding anyone but finding the right one for us,it brings the feeling of contentment.There are right ones o.But there are the one that is RIGHT for YOU(getting the logic?). OK.Now singlehood is the best time of ones life!...Quote me anywhere.Try to optimize it; Make the best use of it. Marriage is sweet! With the right person though. na for one news recently I hear say peson spouse send am go him afterlife so early so.May that not be our portion. So don't rush.Don't b desperate.Be patient, watchful n trusting in ur creator.Op,prepare ur mind, heart and self for her. Peace# 2 Likes |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by Bisjosh(f): 10:31pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
Op u can lie for Africa sha. U opened a thread abt a girl u wanna marry. So why deceive people here? Iranu! https://www.nairaland.com/2840348/she-says-she-wants-pastor |
Re: Am Getting Ashamed Of Still Living A Single Guy by petiteee(f): 1:27am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Do Do affidavit and become 23 |
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