Never sit down and call yourself a housewife
You called yourself a help meet, please be one. Support your husband financially. No matter how little.
If you are a stay at home mum, learn a skill please. It will give you some form of respect amongst your inlaws
And your husband will be proud of you.
I learnt how to bake, sew, cook for people, joined businesses and it's paying me.

Be a wife that your husband will be every proud of.
Are you still thinking of what to do? Ok ask me! I can give you some more ideas.