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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by missyadorable(f): 7:51am On Feb 25, 2016
Fadekebisola:

YOU MUST BE INVOLVED DEEPLY IN AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE.....I CAN FEEL YOUR PAINS....I HAVE BEEN READING YOUR COMMENTS HERE..U ARE NEVER IN LOVE WITH YOUR HUSBAND...

PLEASE TRY AND SEE YOUR PASTOR

Thank You Madam! I hope you are married and you deeply love your husband...for your info,am not in an abusive marriage...I dont love my husband,yes! because men don't deserve love
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by popcykaylah(m): 7:52am On Feb 25, 2016
Any chick who thinks of nothing than what she stands to get in a relationship is typical hungry chick.relationship is suppose to be a mutual thing.for naija girls its all about the money.if you don't have money then you should never have an erection..

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by murphyibiam15(m): 7:53am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:


The whole point of being in a marriage is to be respected,to be accepted and termed "responsible"..the kind of insults and embarrassment single ladies go through ehn...Being single is a serious "curse"...

I give people gifts,friends,family and neighbour but a man am romantically involved with? Boyfriend,fiance and now husband? Can't get a match stick from me as a gift! Never!!
GOD PLEASE FORGIVE ME MY SINS AND I PRAY U THAT I SHOULD NEVER MARRY THIS KIND OF GAL OH LORD.....IF IT WILL BE A CURSE REMOVE IT FROM LIFE AND NEVER PUNISH ME WITH THIS KIND OF LOW THINKING BEING..AMEN!

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by popcykaylah(m): 7:54am On Feb 25, 2016
Any chick who thinks of nothing than what she stands to get in a relationship is typical hungry chick.relationship is suppose to be a mutual thing.for naija girls its all about the money.if you don't have money then you should never have an erection.that's how the mind of a naija woman work

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Fadekebisola(f): 7:56am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:


I am enduring o,just like most women..."They" said I should marry to be respected and I did! I didn't come for enjoyment,i came for the title(Mrs)..besides,am not sad! He is a calm man,doesnt maltreat me and keeps his philandering off my face,provides for d family and gives me peace...am happily enduring!
U SEEM MISERABLE AND PATHETIC....SEEK GOD

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:00am On Feb 25, 2016
Adufetohposh:
are you stylishly begging? smiley

Lol you got me real hard my dear friend. I just want to know if she will be a supportive wife
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:01am On Feb 25, 2016
mizthorlu:


rubbish!!!

Thank you stingy and grubbing housewife
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by chike4: 8:02am On Feb 25, 2016
Fadekebisola:

YOU MUST BE INVOLVED DEEPLY IN AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE.....I CAN FEEL YOUR PAINS....I HAVE BEEN READING YOUR COMMENTS HERE..U ARE NEVER IN LOVE WITH YOUR HUSBAND...
PLEASE TRY AND SEE YOUR PASTOR
I have been reading her comment too. Don't be suprised women like this have the best guys as husbands,but the problem she has is she may just be an ingrate & just failing to see the good side and sacrifice her husband makes to please her. Pls seek God Ma.
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:04am On Feb 25, 2016
olakan22:
it is wrong o. The decision of men to be dependent on women is a major cause of break ups. Men are naturally the head and they should be in charge. When a man starts collecting money 4rm his fiancee...that marriage don get comma be dat o...and if them no careful it'd be a full stop

Brother, yes I agree with you but in a situation where the guy fails to hold much with him, is it too much to asks as a gentleman to spilt the bill?
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Sweetrolly(m): 8:04am On Feb 25, 2016
menabae:
grin,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

WHY SHOULD A GUY SPEND ON YOU?
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by 4C2215131: 8:09am On Feb 25, 2016
amtaken:
Any man that sits down to watch if a lady has all these negative attributes or not and also maps out 2 hours of his supposedly precious time to write this lengthy novel just because he wants Nigerian ladies to stand spending monet on him must be a gold digger, that is a sugar boy.


Hehehehe... Hahahahahaha... Touche.

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by menabae(f): 8:11am On Feb 25, 2016
Sweetrolly:


WHY SHOULD A GUY SPEND ON YOU?
if he can't spend,he should stay on his own,is not by force to date biko.... As for those pained brokearse hole bashing me upanda,ya all should go and die please.. grin
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by abimic(m): 8:11am On Feb 25, 2016
ameboismyhobby:
I av half of dis traits to say d truth bt dat doesn't mean am stingy, am jst being careful wit my money, so wen u break my heart, I no go too cry nd say Choi, Udeme, Udeme, afta evritin I did for u grin grin grin
Ehn!
The traits are not totally a yardstick to measure stingy ladies though, but some ladies are intrinsically stingy and hence can't let go of even a pencil. Relationship is about loss and gain, firstly, don't consider which is gaining and which is losing but do all sensibly and wholeheartedly. Sharing of bills on dates is kinda immature to me, it's best the bill is footed by one person whichever it would be. Men are no doubt supposed to be in charge but a lady who receives all times, all ways and never ready to part materials for her bf isn't worth presenting as a partner no matter how broke she claims to be. Understanding matters in all though and don't ever think your bf would leave u having spent all he has in u and u couldn't reciprocate only to keep thinking after u've spent, he might leave u, That's not fascinating though.
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Sweetrolly(m): 8:11am On Feb 25, 2016
menabae:
yes especially when he is not yet ur hubby grin

no Guy should spend on YOU especially when u ARE not his wife....I think u need brain surgery
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:13am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he passed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

Good morning ma. I have been going through your comments but all I can see is that you are not enjoying your marriage just like the way you want it. People have stylishly ask if your husband is not the caring type but you state your stance about his caring attitude is 2nd to known as the only derogatory thing about him is that he is a womaniser. Well no wife pray for his husband to be a chronic flirt but u have a role to play but instead u are folding your arms to watching things fall apart which I don't pray it happens in your marriage. Kindly play your role concerning any area you are find wanting/lacking and watch your man drifting back to you like magnet.
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Fadekebisola(f): 8:13am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:


Yes,I don't love him, I don't attach my feelings and emotions to him.Men don't deserve love! Afterall,after showing them love and care,what do we get in return? Cheating,domestic violence,etc! Abeg,free me!!
AT EMBOLDENED.....PLS SAY MY HUSBAND DONT DESERVE LOVE AND NOT MEN....I LOVE MY BOO....IF U DONT LOVE URS....SORRY, IS NO ONES FAULT
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Missmossy(f): 8:14am On Feb 25, 2016
Lol cheesy


True to an extent anyway.

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Sweetrolly(m): 8:14am On Feb 25, 2016
menabae:
if he can't spend,he should stay on his own,is not by force to date biko.... As for those pained brokearse hole bashing me upanda,ya all should go and die please.. grin

LOLS
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by menabae(f): 8:15am On Feb 25, 2016
Sweetrolly:


no Guy should spend on YOU especially when u ARE not his wife....I think u need brain surgery
noted,can u goan die now?please
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Fadekebisola(f): 8:15am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:


It will be a wonderful idea! No heartbreaks,no sacrifices,no feelings,no emotions...How can a man love a woman,if not just romance? after that what else?People just allow themselves to be fooled.when the chips are down,you realize your romantic partner doesn't give a f**k about you!
BITTER WOMAN...SEEK GOD
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Sweetrolly(m): 8:16am On Feb 25, 2016
menabae:
noted,can u goan die now?please
mouth sealed baby...ur entitled TO ur opinion
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by MzPecs(f): 8:17am On Feb 25, 2016
tripoli007:


Coming to pay ur brideprice right away grin
Good cool
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:17am On Feb 25, 2016
ameboismyhobby:
I av half of dis traits to say d truth bt dat doesn't mean am stingy, am jst being careful wit my money, so wen u break my heart, I no go too cry nd say Choi, Udeme, Udeme, afta evritin I did for u grin grin grin

My friend Udeme! gringrin

Wait all these ladies that cry bitter after heartbreak is because they spend immensely on their boyfriends? I don't think so. I think most cry because their trust is boomerang with deceit and their kitty cat was well harnessed. lipsrsealed

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:18am On Feb 25, 2016
MzPecs:

Good cool

Will you subscribe for my next subscription please? grin don't disgrace in front of these people
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Fadekebisola(f): 8:19am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:


Thank You Madam! I hope you are married and you deeply love your husband...for your info,am not in an abusive marriage...I dont love my husband,yes! because men don't deserve love
HOPE U CAN COPE LIVING THIS WAY TILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE....QUITE PATHETIC OR IT SEEMS UR HUSBAND IS A WOMANISER....


U ARE REALLY BITTER

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Nobody: 8:19am On Feb 25, 2016
tosyne2much:
Since Dr. Wristbangle has started the Aluta, lemme follow suite.. Oyah Aluta, let's go there. cool

ALUTA CONTINUA, VICTORIA ASCERTA!!!


Lemme add mine cool


9. She's Too Obsessed With Suya

I don't think I can ever marry a lady who likes suya and asun so much. If care is not taken, the larger proportion of my salary will go with it.. Guys, na to grab race for such ladies oooo cheesy


10. She Only Flashes And Sends "Please call me

Research has it that ladies who are very economical with their call credit are very risky to marry. However, some of them will have 2,000 on their phones and will still be sending "please call me" to their boyfriends who only have N10 on their phones. Marry such ladies at your peril

11. She's Very Demanding Yet She Tells You No Sex Till Marriage

Before you bite me, please note a lady who is very demanding, she's not a virgin yet she's bent on no sex till marriage, always have something up her sleeves and I will advise you grab race sharp sharp. I won't even recommend such ladies for my enemies. When you marry such a lady, she will always use sex to starve or torment each time you offend her.. I know Ronald4lif can't cope with this kind of torture cheesy


**Quote me to say nonsense and I will show you why Mynd44 is the only supermod that womanizes**
cheesy
true talk..buh hmmm..me i lyk suya sha..only bought it wit my money
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:19am On Feb 25, 2016
menabae:
noted,can u goan die now?please

gringringrin

Are you related to Adams oshiomole

Our naijababes sef? sad
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by menabae(f): 8:20am On Feb 25, 2016
Sweetrolly:

mouth sealed baby...ur entitled TO ur opinion
gud boi
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Sweetrolly(m): 8:21am On Feb 25, 2016
menabae:
gud boi
BAD gal
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Nobody: 8:23am On Feb 25, 2016
MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy! cool
let date first to know u are not stingy.
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle: 8:25am On Feb 25, 2016
missyadorable:


Thank You Madam! I hope you are married and you deeply love your husband...for your info,am not in an abusive marriage...I dont love my husband,yes! because men don't deserve love

May God have mercy on your husband. I wish he can be reading this. Well I feel your predicament is deeper than i thought. Seems u were forced into the marriage sef undecided
Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by eddymandy94(f): 8:27am On Feb 25, 2016
tosyne2much:
Since Dr. Wristbangle has started the Aluta, lemme follow suite.. Oyah Aluta, let's go there. cool

ALUTA CONTINUA, VICTORIA ASCERTA!!!


Lemme add mine cool


9. She's Too Obsessed With Suya

I don't think I can ever marry a lady who likes suya and asun so much. If care is not taken, the larger proportion of my salary will go with it.. Guys, na to grab race for such ladies oooo cheesy


10. She Only Flashes And Sends "Please call me

Research has it that ladies who are very economical with their call credit are very risky to marry. However, some of them will have 2,000 on their phones and will still be sending "please call me" to their boyfriends who only have N10 on their phones. Marry such ladies at your peril

11. She's Very Demanding Yet She Tells You No Sex Till Marriage

Before you bite me, please note a lady who is very demanding, she's not a virgin yet she's bent on no sex till marriage, always have something up her sleeves and I will advise you grab race sharp sharp. I won't even recommend such ladies for my enemies. When you marry such a lady, she will always use sex to starve or torment each time you offend her.. I know Ronald4lif can't cope with this kind of torture cheesy


**Quote me to say nonsense and I will show you why Mynd44 is the only supermod that womanizes**
cheesy
lol...guy you don too provoke

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