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Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by whitelexi(m): 1:23pm On Jul 15, 2009
spikedcylinder:

In all of this, I blame Laura (not like the solution right now is to pin point blame but it helps with clarification, yer see?). YOU NEVER DATE A FRIEND'S CURRENT OR EX. It hardly ever ends well.

Obviously, "jigglypuff" ( grin grin) is too daft to have a mind of his own regarding women (and I can guess everything else too) that he has to rely on his friends to help him "make a choice". In the process, he picked a totally innocent girl and tore her heart to pieces. If Laura blocked all advances from him and narrated things as they were to Angel, the situation wouldn't be as messy as it is now.

Way forward? Shoot jiggly puff in the groin. That way, he'll run away from angels and towards demons. grin grin grin


grin grin grin
No let me catch u oh grin . . . Nice one sha grin

@Topic:

This is not about me oh, its about poor Puffy and his current gbese grin I am only slightly involved cos i advised him to listen to Angel a bit. . . tongue
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by TheSeeker(m): 1:49pm On Jul 15, 2009
This is fast becoming an interesting opera. Well, I do not have much to say, as much as I would have loved to pity on Angel, she's beginning to upset my patient personality. How could she have, in the whole wide world, think pregnacy keeping will tie Puffy down? And her mom is a lawyer? Doesn't her mom know this might not work? I'm again, at this point, questioning her mom's gumption. From the beginning of this scandal, I thought she(her mom) knew about this and shouldn't she have advised her not to threaten Puffy with such?

OK! I'm not a big fan of abortion, but didn't she know having this baby will not only soil her reputation but put her future relationship with her child in jeopardy? What is she planning on telling the baby? That she fell in a crush and made her way through to his dad and she tried trapping him with his pregnancy then? Or is she planning on lying to him? My advice is she gets to see a good doctor and have an abortion -- I'm not scared for Puffy because I do believe he's capable of paying child support if ever it comes to that. Someone should tell her to wake up from her dreams, because she's keeping that baby for the very and the most immoral motive; if, after everything, she's bent on keeping the baby let her have the baby and Puffy pays for the child support.

As for Angel showing off her ignorant "right" to block Puffy off from dating Laura, it's the most ludicrous comment ever. She, as much as anyone else, has no right to tell Puffy who to or not date. It's immaterial if she's her friend or whatever, the fact is they are all adults and should do anything they want to do. . . . . . . I still reiterate that I'm not against his decision to date Laura, but I detest the time span between his relationship with Angel and his sudden crush on Laura.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by whitelexi(m): 2:37pm On Jul 15, 2009
TheSeeker:

This is fast becoming an interesting opera. Well, I do not have much to say, as much as I would have loved to pity on Angel, she's beginning to upset my patient personality. How could she have, in the whole wide world, think pregnacy keeping will tie Puffy down? And her mom is a lawyer? Doesn't her mom know this might not work? I'm again, at this point, questioning her mom's gumption. From the beginning of this scandal, I thought she(her mom) knew about this and shouldn't she have advised her not to threaten Puffy with such?

OK! I'm not a big fan of abortion, but didn't she know having this baby will not only soil her reputation but put her future relationship with her child in jeopardy? What is she planning on telling the baby? That she fell in a crush and made her way through to his dad and she tried trapping him with his pregnancy then? Or is she planning on lying to him? My advice is she gets to see a good doctor and have an abortion -- I'm not scared for Puffy because I do believe he's capable of paying child support if ever it comes to that. Someone should tell her to wake up from her dreams, because she's keeping that baby for the very and the most immoral motive; if, after everything, she's bent on keeping the baby let her have the baby and Puffy pays for the child support.

As for Angel showing off her ignorant "right" to block Puffy off from dating Laura, it's the most ludicrous comment ever. She, as much as anyone else, has no right to tell Puffy who to or not date. It's immaterial if she's her friend or whatever, the fact is they are all adults and should do anything they want to do. . . . . . . I still reiterate that I'm not against his decision to date Laura, but I detest the time span between his relationship with Angel and his sudden crush on Laura.


Believe me bro, we stand at the same side with what you've posted above - i dont see any reason why a girl should try what Angel is trying. . . Especially where there is a potential of it being a lie. she has refused all forms of concrete confirmation and is not presenting any proof!

Matter of fact, I'm considering asking her to come over and view this thread so that we can hear from her directly. . . I dunno if thats a good idea - I'm currently in a conferenced chat with Mase, Minches, Becks, and Shaggy. . . So far they're saying its a NO-NO, they think its not right cos Laura has got visibility to this already and Angel would be pissed to know we went through with discussing her without her knowledge.

What d'you guys say? Invite her or leave her out?
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by spikedcylinder: 2:46pm On Jul 15, 2009
I didn't say it was you. I only called your friend "jiggly puff" because you referred to him as "puffy". wink
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by TheSeeker(m): 2:51pm On Jul 15, 2009
Bring her over. If she feels she's right, a dose of truth will be enough to heal her ignorance.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by whitelexi(m): 4:49pm On Jul 15, 2009
spikedcylinder:

I didn't say it was you. I only called your friend "jiggly puff" because you referred to him as "puffy". wink

Okay, I thought u wanted to thread the same path as Miss Freedom-of-speech was grin tongue

TheSeeker:

Bring her over. If she feels she's right, a dose of truth will be enough to heal her ignorance.

Believe me, i think its a good idea but the guys are solidly against it - I think the mere thought of Angel's Mum is doing a lil more than scaring them away. . . Guys no want any court cases grin grin grin
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by TheSeeker(m): 4:53pm On Jul 15, 2009
whitelexi:

Believe me, i think its a good idea but the guys are solidly against it - I think the mere thought of Angel's Mum is doing a lil more than scaring them away. . . Guys no want any court cases grin grin grin

Court case for what? Infringement on her privacy? Oh pleeeeaaase!
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by whitelexi(m): 5:02pm On Jul 15, 2009
TheSeeker:

Court case for what? Infringement on her privacy? Oh pleeeeaaase!

Its still up in the air sha, i know they'll give it a go when we meet for discussions and drinks tonight. I'm so looking forward to the Drama that will ensue when she gets here and reads stuff about how she's behaving - that might just be what she needs to see reason.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by Nautillus(m): 5:08pm On Jul 15, 2009
spikedcylinder:

In all of this, I blame Laura (not like the solution right now is to pin point blame but it helps with clarification, yer see?). YOU NEVER DATE A FRIEND'S CURRENT OR EX. It hardly ever ends well.

NOOOOO ! ! ! . .do chick share this rule too? ? ? ? . .Thought it was STRICTLY an all Boyz code . .Interesting, . .but the thing is . .i know quite alot of chics . . .who date and even marry there EX's friends grin grin cheesy
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by TheSeeker(m): 5:20pm On Jul 15, 2009
whitelexi:

Its still up in the air sha, i know they'll give it a go when we meet for discussions and drinks tonight. I'm so looking forward to the Drama that will ensue when she gets here and reads stuff about how she's behaving - that might just be what she needs to see reason.
Yes and if possible let her comment on here.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by spikedcylinder: 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2009
In some sense, Angel can be blamed. She did come on to him. Not like its bad (21st century or whatever) but. . . yer know how these things can be.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by ikamefa(f): 1:06am On Jul 16, 2009
na wah oh! interesting read! for starter!

i have no respect for Angel, puffy ( mr amoeba) does not want her raggedy ass any more why is she tryna hang on to him by all means? did i hear that she is just 27? shocked and if she has it going on like lexy said why is she crazy about the amoeba? undecided

aight so she approached him initially, she went bunkers for him, soon as the josser wanted out of the relationship, let him go undecided am sure she would have survived no matter the heartbreak et all undecided

i have no respect for women who use the preggers antics to hold a man down! angry so her mama na radical lawyer so freaking what? she and her mumsie should go flush their heads in a nearby toilet jare! grin grin grin
she should let the sheep-shagger(puffy) go! he ain't worth all that trouble.


as for puffy hummmmmmmmm! original Mr sampler! grin grin grin agbogidi! grin grin grin grin ran ka dede sir! grin grin grin grin grin
Ladies please avoid Guys like this oh! he is surely gon get his! angry, what a low-down dirty thing to do!
i hope his future wife( if he is intelligent enough to marry)or any woman he ever looses his mind over,no matter who she is ends up leaving him for one of his best friends. shikena! grin grin grin grin


laura is a she goat! if one had friends like this who needs an enemy? undecided karma is a bad biatch girl! grin grin grin grin


and lastly lexi? undecided na wah oh! your friend nor dey do!, na you dey convince am? cheesy undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by Naturez(m): 9:07am On Jul 16, 2009
Hmmmm, Ikamefa which language you belong to sef? You hear all the WA ZO BIA, i like dat. Your expatiation for this issue na correct.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by Naturez(m): 9:13am On Jul 16, 2009
TheSeeker where you at? I dey feel you too grin
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by DaudaAbu(m): 10:13am On Jul 16, 2009
strictly frm a guys point of view, i think there's no need 2 keep wondering y things are happening like dis.

u see guyz like the game of chasing and when its d other way round(dey ar chase) it bcomes depressing, they might wana try it out cos they kno dat there wil b alot of freebies associated wit it. but wait,

what was d agreement they went in to in d 1st place ? friends, lovers? watever.

i belive sometimes both sexes misunderstand what they are actuaaly going in2? feeling might develop along the way bt if it fails to develop the affected party might b aggrieved bt dats not d end of life is it?
moreover if she has all the qualities u stated abov i dont think it'll b hard 4 her getting another guy abi? beta late than neva. she might be thinking of all d investment she made in the relatnship bt somtime it beta u tek a small loss and move forward than to go all d way and loose more.

The worst advise iwill giv here is dat am sure among u guyz there's som1 dats interested in her? y not giv her a try? giv puffy a dose of his own medicine by having her date 1 of his friends, if he doesnt giv a 4ck then i bliv he actuaaly never loved her in th 1st place.

allow him moveto laura jare. sometime its beta we allow pple learn frm dia mistake than try to stop them frm making it
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by crackhead: 10:19am On Jul 16, 2009
Yes o. He can date the world if he pleases. As long as he isn't yet my hubby.
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by whitelexi(m): 10:30am On Jul 16, 2009
Trust Ikamefa. . .  There are very few people who command my respect on NL and she is right up there. . .  and on that note, i'd like to thank u for the mild slap on the wrist grin  some people wanted to bulala my bakassi but u only slapped my wrist - thank u grin

Guys, I have some news. . .  Angel will be joining us pretty soon, I was able to convince the boys yesternight, and we've all agreed to invite her. A copy of this thread has been sent to her alongside an invitation, and as soon as she registers, she will give me her user ID and we can start understanding this whole scenario from her own point of view.

I know some of you cannot wait to give her a grilling so i would like to ask that we go easy on her, ease her into the system first, we dont want her getting the wrong view of NL cos some of us are angry with her now do we? wink


DaudaAbu:

The worst advise iwill giv here is dat am sure among u guyz there's som1 dats interested in her? y not giv her a try? giv puffy a dose of his own medicine by having her date 1 of his friends, if he doesnt giv a 4ck then i bliv he actuaaly never loved her in th 1st place.
allow him moveto laura jare. sometime its beta we allow pple learn frm dia mistake than try to stop them frm making it

Believe me, if its the Puffy i know - he wont give a flying Bleep about his ex dating his friend, he is just the craziest human being - he still keeps in touch with his married ex, and calls her his sweetheart that couldn't wait for him - even in front of her husband. . . he just has a way of making it all sound like a really blunt joke that after passing such a comment he turns to her husband and tells him to take good care of his [puffy's] missing rib oh. This is a man who is probaby 10yrs older than puffy grin
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by ashe2(f): 10:51am On Jul 16, 2009
even if we hav run out of love for each oda am still like even my friend? tins jus come up wen he does dat, its not in my power to stop anytin though but if u asked me no will be my ansa wink
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by macmek: 11:12am On Jul 16, 2009
life is full of choices !
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by whitelexi(m): 10:10am On Jul 17, 2009
macmek:

life is full of choices !

I agree with u, but sometimes we make silly mistakes when we have a variety to choose from.

@Theseeker: I've got good news for u. . . Angel is gonna sign up, but she seems to be taking her time watching what people are saying. . . I dont wanna pressure her either
Re: Girls: Would U Let Your Bf Date Your Gf? by Naturez(m): 9:55am On Jul 25, 2009
whitelexi:

I agree with u, but sometimes we make silly mistakes when we have a variety to choose from.

@Theseeker: I've got good news for u. . . Angel is gonna sign up, but she seems to be taking her time watching what people are saying. . . I dont wanna pressure her either

Don't pressurize her

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