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10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by Foldvibes(m): 11:26pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Cheating on your partner, it would seem, has become an accepted part of having a relationship, but it shouldn’t be. Cheating hurts and it betrays a trust, and there really is no excuse for it. But, cheating is often a symptom of a deeper problem in a relationship, so here we explore some of the things that can be done to prevent cheating in a relationship: 1. Understand and agree on the boundaries What constitutes cheating can vary from person to person. Is it OK to dance with another person, kiss a person or give them a hug? Or, to your partner, does this mean that you have cheated? There needs to be a clear understanding of what cheating means to each of you, and then there can be no mistakes. 2. Be best friends, as well as starry eyed lovers It’s important to be good friends, as well as lovers. You need to be able to talk to one another openly or you will find that some things are being kept a secret. 3. Learn to grow and change together Couples need to be able to grow, in their right, and together. Everyone needs new challenges and new opportunities, so pursue those together and no one will feel the need to go elsewhere to broaden their horizons. 4. Make staying faithful a no brainer The best defence against cheating is to make the relationship so great, that your partner has too much to lose by cheating. Communication is the key here, talk to each other about what you want, and make sure that you take account of each other’s needs. 5. Keep things interesting and try new things together Boredom is often cited as a reason for cheating, so keep things interesting and try different things. This is not just restricted to being adventurous in the bedroom! It also means going out to different places, taking up new hobbies and even changing the channel you watch on TV. 6. Be there for each other and listen You’ve heard it before: ‘My wife / husband / boyfriend /girlfriend doesn’t understand me’. That is as much a symptom of not listening, as it is about not understanding. Listen, when your partner says ‘let’s do something different this weekend’, or they could be doing something different next weekend with someone else. 7. Don’t take your relationship for granted or you can find yourself surprised, and alone! Don’t assume that your partner is happy and never assume that nobody else would put with them! Just because you would never consider living apart doesn’t mean that they feel the same way. Taking someone for granted is a sure way to finding yourself surprised, and alone. 8. Don’t be too controlling Complaining, nagging and criticising can all add up to an unhappy relationship. You are in a sharing partnership and no one of you should be controlling the other. If you are trying to control your partner, you might find that they suffer in silence, until one day, they go elsewhere for solace. 9. Be sure to let your partner know that they are appreciated and loved You may well love your partner, care about them and would never want to be apart from them. But, when did you last tell them that? It’s about taking things for granted again, so don’t assume that your partner feels loved, tell them that they are. 10. Don’t cheat on your partner! Cheating means different things to different people, as we have already said. Men, in particular, are very sensitive to what they might see as cheating and, even if it’s only emotional, their way of hitting back can often be cheating in revenge. In the long run, no one wins by cheating. It is far better to just be honest. Do you have some other relationship advice and tips on how to prevent cheating in a relationship? - See more at: http://www.naijafold.com/10-tips-prevent-cheating-relationship/ |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:29pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by falconey(m): 11:30pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Me go still cheat oo. For those that will practice this, just do only number 10 |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by RoyalBlak007: 11:31pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Money...constant cash flow am just being real ![]() |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:32pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
It's not easy to b faithful in a relationship especially with lots of temptations around and at the same time, its not impossible. Nice write up |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by Strahovski1(m): 11:33pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Useless.. Those who would cheat would cheat. |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by klassykute(m): 11:34pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Foldvibes:abeg eeee who cheat go cheat |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by klassykute(m): 11:34pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
who go cheat go cheat |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by judey1992(m): 11:35pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
despite the fact that the bible is still in existence, people still sin without limit. whether u tie person rope nd them wan cheat, them go still cheat. |
Re: 10 Tips On How To Prevent Cheating In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
The only reason I have to cheat is if the tempting offer comes on a platter of gold. Like if a very beautiful gal is ready to spend for me and cook for me or seduce me without me asking, then I will cheat. But for me to use my 2 leg waka carry my mouth go toast person weh no show interest and come spend for her on top..over my dead skelenton. 1 Like |
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