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Learn to avoid the Caps Lock key.

i dont think anything anyone says could make you see the light. if after everything that has been done and said to you, you still considering to be with that person then no advices could help you.
you are what is commonly known as a "fall back guy" or even "spare tyre". how could you even look at this girl again when she clearly shown you that you are just a second best?! (thats IF there was/is only 2men in her life).  also, if you were living together and she suddenly leaves top be with the other guy, that means she was cheating on you for a while and then decided to go for the other guy who was sweeter than you. what more signs do you want to understand that this person has no valuable care for you?
she could be sleeping with another man in your own bed (no better than what she did to you) and you would still take her back. the only way this relationship is going to be truly over is when she decides it. you have absoluter no power in this one sided relationship so accept it, and may god be with you.
ps i sincerely hope that when it is over, your health and mind will be intact.

@poster

that is end of that relationship - she will defiantely leave u again.

you can hang around until she reconciles with the other guy.

Goosh!!! U are the biggest fool I have ever come across your Girl walk into another mans arm, stays with the guy for sometime and left the guy and returned to you and you willingingly accepted her. That's foolishness on your own part. Do you know if she has contacted AIDS? Use your head man what where you thinkig of? You're just digging your grave by yourself,

why would you want to be someones second choice or fall back guy?

sistawoman:

why would you want to be someones second choice or fall back guy?

My thought precisely. . .I think the Chic has more GAME than he does.

Beaf:

Learn to avoid the Caps Lock key.

. . .dude, you crack me up

She left you before, she will leave u again. . . shikena!

I don't understand some people at times
Do you actually think about a long time goal with this girl
Can u list what you want in a woman to marry and list the girl qualities and u'ill even realise that she's not what you would want in a woman
What makes you love her
she hasn't got any character or behaviour regardless if she was dating someone new or not
She hasn't got any right to treat others like dirt and she even dated you before bullshit and u take such bullshit from her,when u're married who's going to be the husband,her or u.
It's like you haven't got any self respect for yourself becos u've taken such rubbish from her she wouldn't even know how to stop,such people don't change maybe with someone else but not you.
You say u love someone and they don't any quality of a good person.
You should actual kick her to the curbs,

we cannot blame that poor guy. its LOVE we have to blame.
look here:
this girl is probably the poster's first ever girlfriend and the first toto he ever tried. life must have been hard to find a girl, let alone a "good" girl so when the poster remembers about all the lonely nights before he met her, where he had only his "five fingers" for sexual gratification then breaking up with her is the last thing on his mind. he doesnt want to go back to this life of loneliness, this life of masturbating in the shower because he couldnt get his dikc to go down etc
in the poster's mind, he thinks that "if nobody knows what happen with the other guy, then everything will be allright". but he doesnt understand whatkind of rat he is laying with.
life is difficult for some and until we can put ourselves in his shoes, we shouldnt judge him.
POSTER: i say keep this RAT girl. if she insults you, shags your best friend, flirts with your father or even have sex with a dog then dont worry, just close your eyes and pretend it didnt happen and that it was all a dream. this is the best you will ever get and loosing this girl will only get you back to the sorry bullshit life you had before.
to each their own.

Do you need anyone to spell it out for you? She is so useless, you can do so much better than that.

C'mon guy are u d most ugliest guy in the planet that wil make u to tink that u cn do witout her.guy wud advice u dump her b4 she dumpses u 4 good that har bn my code.do nt allow to b dumped by grls,instead u should control ur feelins and controls the things around u. I knw hw u feels bro but ave u forgttn their are many fishes in the ocean.go luk for one.