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Heeelppp! by dtpchic(f): 9:08pm On Jul 13, 2009
Pls nairalanders,i need ur help, can you redate ur ex who has cheated on u before and is back with promises of change
Re: Heeelppp! by blackmann(m): 9:10pm On Jul 13, 2009
yeah. simply take him/her to a lab and give him/her some old fashioned carbon-dating.

on a more serious note, it all depends on wat made u break up in the first place, but for me, i don't go back to what i puked out in the first place.
Re: Heeelppp! by dtpchic(f): 10:23pm On Jul 13, 2009
thanks blackmann, its d cheating that made us break up in the first place and,u see actually d issue of love is involved that's y its hard to not look back,
Re: Heeelppp! by Kelvinj(m): 10:29pm On Jul 13, 2009
I cnt go bak 2 a vomit. So i'll take no. Did i hear u say he/she said dat he/she has changed? 2 wat? Monkey or lion!
Re: Heeelppp! by 190: 10:56pm On Jul 13, 2009
@poster
so tell me who did dis ur ex sleep wit
was it a girl called maria! grin
Re: Heeelppp! by Czarskit(m): 12:32am On Jul 14, 2009
190:

@poster
so tell me who did dis ur ex sleep wit
was it a girl called maria! grin

Mumu as usual. . . tongue
Re: Heeelppp! by posakosa(m): 2:12am On Jul 14, 2009

Cheaters don't change. So don't waste your time.
Re: Heeelppp! by iice(f): 2:05pm On Jul 14, 2009
People rarely change. Promises are rarely fulfilled. People are devious cheesy
Re: Heeelppp! by craziest: 2:27pm On Jul 14, 2009
open it for him tto do again and tell me what next
Re: Heeelppp! by tosyne007(m): 2:34pm On Jul 14, 2009
dtp_chic:

Pls nairalanders,i need ur help, can you redate ur ex who has cheated on u before and is back with promises of change

are u saying u have not met or dated anybody after ur so-called ex left u?

are u saying there are no guys who are far better than ur ex? Have u ever thouhgt of why he left u in the first place? (i'm sure becos u aint good enuf)

so, i dont think it's worth it to make-up with him and wat assurance do u hav that he's not planning to use u and walk way AGAIN.

think abt it sweetie!!!
Re: Heeelppp! by sistawoman: 2:42pm On Jul 14, 2009
Yes he will change:

he will change the way he cheats
He will not get caught doing it the same way again
He will change what he says to you when he gets caught again


All you will do is encourage his behavior again in the future.

Since you have parted ways and did not try to work on the r/s at the time that he cheated it is best that you keep on walking.

Walking away from a cheater is the hardest part now that you have please dont put yourself back in the position to be hurt all over again and miss out on the opp. to find that one that wont have a need to cheat on you.

You deserve better than second place or first place with someone in second. You desearve be someones be all end all and should not settle for less.
Re: Heeelppp! by yme1(f): 2:46pm On Jul 14, 2009
@poster
just a question for you
CAN YOU GO BACK TO YOUR VOMIT?
if yes good and if no good
Re: Heeelppp! by gen2genius(m): 2:50pm On Jul 14, 2009
Dtp, can you give more details of what happened between you and ex? wink
Re: Heeelppp! by chiejik(f): 3:22pm On Jul 14, 2009
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Pls nairalanders,i need ur help, can you redate ur ex who has cheated on u before and is back with promises of change
i dont think is wise to know thir secret ok
Re: Heeelppp! by biola44: 4:31pm On Jul 14, 2009
iice:

People rarely change. Promises are rarely fulfilled. People are devious cheesy

word! wink
Re: Heeelppp! by sirt1(m): 6:14pm On Jul 14, 2009
@ Poster,

Human beings are very hard to predict. Not only guys, but gals inclusive. so i will advise, if ur mind is still with him, to give him chance, but this time , try to be more cautious untill the cloud is clear. Just my piece.
Re: Heeelppp! by dtpchic(f): 7:55pm On Jul 16, 2009
thanks y'all, points taken smiley

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