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How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Elo pipu... I'm in a bit of a fix now. I know some of you will call me vain but ion care. Met a girl abt 6 years back. She was cute n all...n I liked her. But I was a jewman then so I didn't make any moves. She liked me too, told me that but the Jew in me was stronggg. Fast forward, two weeks ago. She buzzed me saying she was back in d country. I was happy to hear from her. She asked I'd we cud hang out d next day, I wasn't busy so I said cool. To be honest, I did think about f*cking her (but it was a passing thought) She got to my house n as she got down from the bike , my first thought was "Bleep!! She's pregnant!". When I finally saw her well, I saw that she wasn't...she had just tripled in size. Sadly, I dislike fat people. I was pissed because she used to be super slim. She came in and I couldn't even hug her. I feigned excitement tho...just so I wouldn't hurt her feelings. We chatted for a while...caught up n stuff.. Then shii got weird. She told me she hasn't been with anybody since her ex and she needed some. I wasn't up for it but I really didn't want to hurt her feelings. I just smiled. I hoped she'd be quiet. But she came at me ooo...tried to seduce me. But my body set no gree. Even if I wanted to, long johnson decided to go on vacation. She tried n tried then gave up. Days later, she's been calling n texting. Saying she lives me n stuff and she wants us to get together. Please, how do I tell her I'm not into her anymore without making her feel bad...or too bad at least? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 4:07pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
awwww |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by dulux07(m): 4:11pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
If your not into her, jst let her know, dont date her out of pity. Its for her own good. There is nothing good about being fat, both medically and physically , that does not mean she wont find someone who will appreciate her the way she is. Jst let her go. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
EnigmaticEnigma: Drop advice na |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by domopps(m): 4:12pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
The same way you created this thread! Simple as abc Cheeeeeers |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Tell tell same way she would hv told you if the opposite was the case here. Or better still, ask that Plateau Damsel @Mimido2 to help you out. Or ask boobillicious geni340 to help you out. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Mimido2(f): 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
so because she is fat u no longer like her? Smh......if all guys date d slim girls den Hu will date d fat ones? d physical appearance of a lady does not matter. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Mimido2: We all have our preferences na. I don't think you'd date any guy because appearance doesn't matter. I still appreciate her as a person but I'm not into her like I was 6 years ago. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Mimido2(f): 4:16pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:lol.....am not from plateau state |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 4:20pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
samted: time heals all |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
EnigmaticEnigma: Lmao. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Mimido2:But you reside there i guess? and which state re u frm? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by AlienStar: 4:28pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
You are not into her anymore
-is it because she's fat. (tell her to hit the gym)
-or because it's been long you saw each other. (feelings can grow y'know)
buh, if you insist tell her now, the early the better. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by geni340(f): 4:29pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:just passing |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Roseey0(f): 4:31pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Why is it so hard to say no and stand your ground. Nawah |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by cruzita(f): 4:31pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
then tell her the same way u are telling us now |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Mimido2(f): 4:32pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:yeah I reside in plateau but am from Edo state |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
geni340:When i expected you to present me with a gold medal for appreciating what God did in your life for giving you these huge boobs that i can kill for? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Roseey0:Because pvssy is involve here. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Mimido2(f): 4:40pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:esan |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by geni340(f): 4:41pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:dont kill anybody, dont wana see u land up in jail |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Roseey0: it's not hard. I just want to know if there's a way to handle it without making her feel bad. Would you feel good if someone tells you they aren't into you cos you're fat or short or too dark?? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
AlienStar: i think its a combo of both...more because of her new size tho. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
geni340:Hmmm. sure i wont, but if its for those your huge looking boobs, then sorry to say, i would. Or isnt it worth it? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Mimido2:Hmmm. Same here too. Ekpoma or irrua or ubiaja or igueben? Pls dnt tell me its frm my uromi. lol |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Mimido2(f): 4:51pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:not uromi....Emuhi |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Mimido2:Thats EPKOMA. You hv families that reside here in Edo State? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Mimido2(f): 4:58pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA2:yeah i do but we are not close |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by rosieflower2(f): 4:59pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Hmmmmm... Jst tel her ur nt interested |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Mimido2:It would be understandable because with the way am seeing things, it kinda seem you were born and brought up in plateau. Were you? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I'm Not Into Her?? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Bad friend @shulamitewoman |
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