Eleanor Roosevelt defined a mature person as one who does not think only in absolutes, who is able to be objective even when deeply stirred emotionally, who has learned that there is both good and bad in all people and all things, and who walks humbly and deals charitably. A matured being is someone who have total control of his/her environment and himself/herself.
First of all, 'immaturity' is a term used most frequently to describe persons who do not take responsibility for their actions. Literally, it is described with the number of years an individual has lived on planet earth. I have seen old men and women who have not attained the 'maturity personality'. These are older persons who don't accept their faults and cannot stand criticism or confrontation because they would always want to prove their point even when it is obviously evident that they're wrong.
On the other hand, we have some young adults who have achieved self-mastery and self-development despite their young age and have a high level of emotional intelligence. Biologically, maturity has a designated number or age limit but the kind of maturity I'm talking about is that of the physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, psychological type that spans all around the human life. Evidently, maturity has nothing to do with age.
Emotional Intelligence
Maturity is all about how responsible you are to handle issues that affect your well-being. It has a lot to do with having strong emotional control, a great understanding of persons around you. Being responsible for you actions, successes and failure. Persons that have high levels of emotional intelligence already know what they want, they can relate well to people and know how to keep a win-win attitude, they stay focus on their priorities and important tasks, and they understand that life is what they make it. Through self-mastery and development , they know how t manage their emotions and people. Oftentimes, these young adults who have attained mature personality at an early age are the ones who succeed and live a well-meaning life.
How Do You Become A Matured Person?
A mature person has achieved self-mastery through personal development and self-improvement. By learning and mastering the right principles and attitudes, a mature person can overcome any challenges life brings. If you want to become a mature person, take this as an opportunity to start improving your well-being through personal development. The first step to becoming a mature person is through personal development and self-improvement
Personal Development
There are steps you take to developing oneself.These steps when practiced vigorously can make you achieve great things in life. they are;
Know your strengths and weaknesses.
Make friends with those that do not have the strength(s) you are admire so you can learn to override your weaknesses.
Always put your emotions in check.
Give more and expect less from people.
Set goals and tasks for yourself and do well to achieve them by setting a time limit.
Be focus and deal with challenges as they come.
Focus on things that will leave you a happy person.
Build your spiritual life on daily basis.
Understand that personalities differ and learn how to relate well with everyone you meet.
Maturity is a choice. You can choose to live as a mature person that lives consciously with established principles and attitudes. Or you can choose to live as you are and continuously be beaten by the struggles and miseries because you did not choose to develop mature attitudes.

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