Estharfabian:
Why bother??
You'd Only be stressing Your ever So precious self.



The "Husband" Is the master. The Almighty, The king. his majesty!
The "Wife"on The other hand is Nothing but A low-life being, who's leading the life of A Robot. Her sole purpose in life is to Serve her husband(Lord n Almighty) And do whatever he tells her to.
Hence, Subjugating the wife To Eternal slavery Masking in the name of "Marriage"

LoL! issoryt!


The way things are going. I won't get married till I'm 60!
#Long Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!

tosyne2much:
You are a man of wisdom


Our customs and norms have placed women beneath men

silverr:


That's the thinking that kills marriages.
There's no resting place for the head without the neck. I'm not married yet but hope to be very soon. I know my limits as a wife but if something like this happens, and my hubby goes ahead to bring the friend, no wahala but I'll suddenly receive a call from the village and leave the house for them. Its humiliating.

sarutobie:

My thoughts exactly.. A responsible husband will tell his wife..a good wife will not say no...

linusbnn:



So sorry if you have a man like me as husband. That your father's house that you love so much, I will send you back there. I display my authority in relationships so if you dnt like it,you quit. I respect women and they must obey me whether good or bad.

abdoolorunwa:

THEN SHE MUST HAVE A VERY GENUINE REASON.

Kazrem:

Let we married men say to it.
You politely inform her but not for seeking permission but as a notice. Something like this, "Baby my friend agarawu23 is coming to town for his clearance and will be staying with us for 3days. I will like uyou to upkeep yourself and do other necessary things for him to have a good stay.

linusbnn:



So sorry if you have a man like me as husband. That your father's house that you love so much, I will send you back there. I display my authority in relationships so if you dnt like it,you quit. I respect women and they must obey me whether good or bad.

igivefuck4free:


And if she refused?

Kazrem:

Let we married men say to it.
You politely inform her but not for seeking permission but as a notice. Something like this, "Baby my friend agarawu2 3 is coming to town for his clearance and will be staying with us for 3days. I will like uyou to upkeep yourself and do other necessary things for him to have a good stay.

Estharfabian:
Why bother??
You'd Only be stressing Your ever So precious self.



The "Husband" Is the master. The Almighty, The king. his majesty!
The "Wife"on The other hand is Nothing but A low-life being, who's leading the life of A Robot. Her sole purpose in life is to Serve her husband(Lord n Almighty) And do whatever he tells her to.
Hence, Subjugating the wife To Eternal slavery Masking in the name of "Marriage"

LoL! issoryt!


The way things are going. I won't get married till I'm 60!
#Long Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!

Adaeze003:
The African type marriage is just scary... sheesh...


Note that I really didn't want to quote you...

Anyhoo... you do know you're still sleeping on a pole right

It's funny how you guys carry the submission thing on your head but when someone implies that submitting to a man is master-slave you guys start looking for ways to soften it up. The man can bring in who the hell ever to stay with them but the wife must get his approval when she will be the one to basically take care of the guest? She has no say and can't object to whatever "final decision" the said husband makes? And the marriage is a union and not slavery?

Oh well... good luck to ya wife sha.

And try and wake up from that pole before you'll be forming head and end up beheading the family...

tosyne2much:
Make I help you.. Which sectional mod ban your Tallesty1 account?

Ofornaira:
O girl this ur moniker, e get as e bio.

pinkpebbles:
Good for you. Enjoy it while it last

silverr:


For every Ahab, there's a Jezebel. For every Adam, there's an Eve.
U just might end up with a woman who loves being dominated. U can't marry someone like the lady u quoted. C'est la vie

Kondomatic:
I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

silverr:


For every Ahab, there's a Jezebel. For every Adam, there's an Eve.
U just might end up with a woman who loves being dominated. U can't marry someone like the lady u quoted. C'est la vie

amokeme:
from your comment, I guess it's all about the money so marriage to you is a business
Anyways, you are very correct. I mean, if a wife wants equal right with her husband, then don't ever let him spend a kobo on you. And you will get your equal rights. It's very simple, life is simple

But I have a problem with men who think their wife/girlfriend is always up to something when she refuses any financial help from him. Some say it hurts their ego. They like to say "I'm responsible for that" "I did that for her" "I bought this and that for her" and they don't feel like a man when she refuses them that prevelege, why is that so? I mean, aren't you supposed to be happy?

pbs4real:
hmmm

pbs4real:
u need an iron hand to calm u dwn.

Sixix:




Which father's house? It is a foolish woman that you would send packing not someone like me. Most of you forming hardcore usually end up with women with self esteem issues. O cnant be bothered.

Must respect mi ko, must respect mi ni. Pathetic loser!

Originalsly:
Based on our African society... the husband should inform the wife. ..listen to her opinion...then make the decision. " Yes honey...thank you for reminding me we have one bedroom and one bed only...but the bed is big enough to fit all three of us. He will come...my decision is final...case closed."

pinkpebbles:
Good for you. Enjoy it while it last

Adaeze003:

AKUKO...

linusbnn:



Ask your mother the reason she is still with your father happily, that is if she is still with your father oooooo... mannerless gold digger

vfactor:
Not really seeking her approval. But getting her informed and hearing her opinion. She may just give u a side to it you may never have thought of.

linusbnn:



Thank you oooo, i'm even nurturing her calmness so it would continue to get better. I fancy ladies who are submissive

KingEbukasBlog:


But wait ... what do you mean by " equal rights with her husband " ?