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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by drss(m): 9:02pm On Mar 01, 2016
am not proud of dis zoo.
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Mar 01, 2016
QueenValerie:
I do this cheesy
But it's always comes up or I'm explain' my speach/type or that I don't get somethin'.
It's ether that or be labeled "posh".
Oh an why not
Yeah yhu did it to me once...
If I hadn't had a crush on yhu b4 then I woulda said smthn...sad
Am tired of explaining to some folks on here who can't seem to understand the entire thread...Ts nt about self esteem or about inferiority complex...Ts about how some of yall foreigners point out yhur country of origin deliberately to belittle others...sucks...

Ts ok to be proud of yhur country..but it doesn't suddenly make yhu some sort of Demi god

Waiting for the next mofo to quote me undecided

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Mar 01, 2016
Danfuster:


They worship Africans, Nigerian men especially like gods cos they desire and adore our condo coupled with our strength in bed. The new trend now is Chinese women disvirgin twice...so now you know what cock does the second.
lool grin none can say you ain't a proud Nigerian man....
A lie..... But proud smiley
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Mar 01, 2016
taurus21:


I noticed how you kept on spelling "you" as "yhu", I don't get it? They're both 3 lettered words why do you go ahead to spell it wrongly, please help me understand.

I apologize if you feel I'm derailing your thread.
Of course not bruhh
Uhm..'H' is closer to 'Y' than 'O' is on the qwerty keypad..I use a blackberry
I hope I havnt broken any rule..grin

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Mar 01, 2016
slyIsaac:

Yeah yhu did it to me once I hadn't had a crush on yhu b4 then I woulda said smthn...sad
Am tired of explaining to some folks on here who can't seem to understand the entire thread...Ts nt about self esteem or about inferiority complex...Ts about how some of yall foreigners point out yhur country of origin deliberately to belittle others...sucks...

Ts ok to be proud of yhur country..but it doesn't suddenly make yhu some sort of Demi god

Waiting for the next mofo to quote me undecided
No sir. I have no superiority complex.
I don't think myself above Ya'll at all.
I wouldnt be here if I thought you beneath me!
You've projected what you THINK we feel an think about ya'll onta us.
An its not fair.
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Mar 01, 2016
QueenValerie:
No sir. I have no superiority complex.
I don't think myself above Ya'll at all.
I wouldnt be here if I thought you beneath me!
You've projected what you THINK we feel an think about ya'll onta us.
An its not fair.
Didn't say yhu were...sorry if I implied it...
Only the first two sentences were related to yhu
I didn't project nothing......I have some foreign friends...I get along fine with them here in Nigeria...Am talking about on social media...

Uhm How do I close tis thread sef...I don tire to dey famz... undecided

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 01, 2016
slyIsaac:

Didn't say yhu were...sorry if I implied it...
Only the first two sentences were related to yhu


Uhm How do I close tis thread sef...I don tire to dey famz...:-/
Don't know tell lala ta close it
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Mar 01, 2016
Funny. Lots of folks here don't understand what the op is trying to say.
But op, i dont think u should have unfriended heR. U change the world's mentality one at a time.

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by firstking01(m): 9:53pm On Mar 01, 2016
slyIsaac:

It seemed like a harmless question but I know what usually comes after the answer...
your perception is wrong...you didn't even say what i expected to hear sefundecided
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Mar 01, 2016
enieme:
Funny. Lots of folks here don't understand what the op is trying to say.
But op, i dont think u should have unfriended heR. U change the world's mentality one at a time.
Yeah I probably shudnt have ....
A lot of people here probably didn't read my post to the end....To see the thing I have been trying to point out! RACISM.....from the conversation above,apparently,the chinese lady thinks I should consider it a privilege she's chatting with me...well I don't like *pity chat*..n I didn't feel the need for her to tell me "africa is a nice country"...call me egostical...The reason she gave me for asking why she needed to know were am from is : "its just that am from china"..I wanted to reply So? Just kept my cool...

**Its a shame tat the first commenters on a thread ususally messes with brain of the other commenters tat follow 'em ....some foreigners come here an be forming Omni knowest...Sadly sef I had such respect for one of em here on NL..shame..

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Lsofdk(m): 10:17pm On Mar 01, 2016
slyIsaac:
I. Read on NL sef about a Guy whose Lebanese boss slapped him here in Nigeria!! In his own country !!...God help Nigerians sha


Lalasticlala
@bolded they can't try that sh*it with me, i wee deal with him there worst outcome is a sack but a message has been passed. besides op should have told her his country, i play a lot of online games, i've quite a good number of friends and they know where I'm from

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Mar 01, 2016
firstking01:
your perception is wrong...you didn't even say what i expected to hear sefundecided
Sorry I didn't meet yhur expectations sad
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 01, 2016
Lalasticlala little help closing tis thread?? sad
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Danfuster(m): 12:17am On Mar 02, 2016
QueenValerie:
lool grin none can say you ain't a proud Nigerian man....
A lie..... But proud smiley


Proud or not...im just stating the obvious, Asians have really small d!ck
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 12:18am On Mar 02, 2016
Danfuster:



Proud or not...im just stating the obvious, Asians have really small d!ck
A racial stereotype
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by ipledge10(m): 12:24am On Mar 02, 2016
Asians are generally except Indian and their family....she just want to know you more and tells you more about herself
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by misspicy(f): 12:34am On Mar 02, 2016
Kashybaby,Queenvalerie and Raines does this well tongue



I miss my girl Punky,I knew she is from southy,without her telling grin
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Danfuster(m): 12:36am On Mar 02, 2016
QueenValerie:
A racial stereotype

Call it what you want... It is what it is.
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by misspicy(f): 12:36am On Mar 02, 2016
slyIsaac:
Lalasticlala little help closing tis thread?? sad
why don't be scared tongue
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 12:38am On Mar 02, 2016
Danfuster:


Call it what you want... It is what it is.
A stereotype.But let's not argue,bye smiley
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 12:39am On Mar 02, 2016
misspicy:
Kashybaby,Queenvalerie and Raines does this well tongue



I miss my girl Punky,I knew she is from southy,without her telling grin
tongue tongue tongue
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by misspicy(f): 12:41am On Mar 02, 2016
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Danfuster(m): 12:42am On Mar 02, 2016
QueenValerie:
A stereotype.But let's not argue,bye smiley

And the truth shall set your free...you never said hello nor hi, I don't need the bye... You can have it grin
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 12:47am On Mar 02, 2016
Danfuster:


And the truth shall set your free...you never said hello nor hi, I don't need the bye... You can have it grin
I give it to you as a parting gift.....bye wink
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Danfuster(m): 12:59am On Mar 02, 2016
QueenValerie:
I give it to you as a parting gift.....bye wink

#Melifé
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 1:01am On Mar 02, 2016
Danfuster:


#Melifé
What does that mean
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 1:27am On Mar 02, 2016
Lol...are u ashamed that ur Nigerian? Coz this very common with ur compatriots as well..they wud even asked their first question: " ARE U MARRIED?" or they wud answer "I'm from AFRICA" ...these mitches are acting stup1d, we all know Africa is not a country but a continent but still they wud answer like that....whhhhhhhy?


So OP before u put urself on fire, if u think talking/chatting/ mingling with "foreigners" is a hazard to u then stay in ur lane...

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 1:51am On Mar 02, 2016
Dude you've got issues. Seriously, you need to get your self sorted. It's difficult to admit but it's self esteem right there. Did you even consider that English isn't her default language?? What's wrong with asking where you're from? What's wrong with "it's just that I'm from China"?and she presumed You're African and said something nice but you chose to focus on the negative.
Your problem is that you already think foreigners are superior to you - and with this mentality, I really don't blame you -. There's nothing in the chat that suggests China is greater/superior to wherever you're from
One more thing...Get your spelling right. Spelling 'you' as 'yhu' is irritating and doesn't show the least sophistication. I take it that you're a teenager but still Get yourself sorted. Be proud of where you're from. Nobody asks where you're from to demean the other. It's all in your head.
slyIsaac:

Yeah I probably shudnt have ....
A lot of people here probably didn't read my post to the end....To see the thing I have been trying to point out! RACISM.....from the conversation above,apparently,the chinese lady thinks I should consider it a privilege she's chatting with me...well I don't like *pity chat*..n I didn't feel the need for her to tell me "africa is a nice country"...call me egostical...The reason she gave me for asking why she needed to know were am from is : "its just that am from china"..I wanted to reply So? Just kept my cool...

**Its a shame tat the first commenters on a thread ususally messes with brain of the other commenters tat follow 'em ....some foreigners come here an be forming Omni knowest...Sadly sef I had such respect for one of em here on NL..shame..
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Cavenchy(m): 5:12am On Mar 02, 2016
Wow what a thread, Chinese people I've come across are usually very nice and courteous (has something to do with their culture). The lady was probably just being nice. One thing you need to understand about Asians (in general) is that they are very inquisitive, if you have a talk with an Indian or Pakistani, you are bound to receive more questions, its kinda how they converse with someone they just met, you're bound to hear things that sound like: "What currency you use? Where you work? How much they pay you? How long you work?" and its more as a result of curiousity than being an as.s. With Chinese, in my experience, they are usually impressed with anyone who speaks impeccable English especially if they are still learning or trying to improve on their English Language, they don't find a lot of people in China to speak English with so they rely on the internet to fuel this need. She was just happy to chat, if you had told her where you were from, rather than get a sudden ....(you know what), you would be surprised she would ask, you write very good English (you might also find this offensive) but she's just inquisitive and impressed as they usually see learning English as a huge achievement especially when you aren't from an English Speaking country(they usually wont know this until you tell them). Rule number 1 in dealing with foreigners: Don't expect them to know a lot about where you are from unless you are From a World Power Country. You usually have to educate them on a lot of stuff but don't push it, they really don't wanna know if they aren't planning a holiday in tinapa. I doubt that they have a lot of tv commercials with 'Save the African child' slogans showing malnourished unclad African children being breastfed in Chinese Media as much as they do in the US, UK or other European countries, and those are the people more likely to be disgusted after they find out where you live.
Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 7:06am On Mar 02, 2016
misspicy:

why don't be scared tongue
Oh I aint..just bored grin

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by Nobody: 7:28am On Mar 02, 2016
TheSixthSense:
Dude you've got issues. Seriously, you need to get your self sorted. It's difficult to admit but it's self esteem right there. Did you even consider that English isn't her default language?? What's wrong with asking where you're from? What's wrong with "it's just that I'm from China"?and she presumed You're African and said something nice but you chose to focus on the negative.
Your problem is that you already think foreigners are superior to you - and with this mentality, I really don't blame you -. There's nothing in the chat that suggests China is greater/superior to wherever you're from
One more thing...Get your spelling right. Spelling 'you' as 'yhu' is irritating and doesn't show the least sophistication. I take it that you're a teenager but still Get yourself sorted. Be proud of where you're from. Nobody asks where you're from to demean the other. It's all in your head.
Good Morning Sir,Read/heard all YHU typed/said n am realy Glad YHU think am nt sophisticated,....The problem is I wasn't trying to...Mayb be I was really hard on the girl/woman . sad , I am a 'teenager' (I'll be 22 by july)...I didn't know NL was for only adults...Mayb I don't have self esteem,Mayb I've gat issues,Mayb I am a lot of other things YHU wrote up there......Ts all good bruhh grin

All YHUR observations was based on what YHU saw in the conversation...Ts obvious YHU didn't get what I was trynna get across but ts all good...

The few people who did,Did not claim OMNI KNOWEST...

In 2face's Voice "so if YHU want to criticize talk small small YHU no holy pass my brother"

I apologise to QueenValerie and anyother foreigner on here who thinks I was doing* Racial profiling...mayb I was a little but I did it outta experience...Orientals are nice people...
Let's not forget tat I said in my post "I have noticed" so obviously it wasn't about the chinese girl....Yhu literarily took the example n made it the subject...ts all good..
Dnt quote me anymore I've gotten all the answers I need

But....am gonna be watching YHU bruhh...n YHUR posts so I can learn to be sophisticated as adults are/do...

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Re: Why Do Foreigners Do This When Chatting With Them On Social Media? by freshkik(m): 8:54am On Mar 02, 2016
taurus21:


I noticed how you kept on spelling "you" as "yhu", I don't get it? They're both 3 lettered words why do you go ahead to spell it wrongly, please help me understand.

I apologize if you feel I'm derailing your thread.
atlast some1 that is as confused as i am in this area.....this 1 is not even as bad as those (esp. Teenage girls) that will spell "I" as "ah", ... I'm like the correct one is just 1 letter, why stress yourself to replace is with something wrong that has more letters.

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