Please Nigerians and Africans in general stop painting marriage as a yardstick for success. Many of you so called husband's and wives are suffering in silence. You cannot get divorce because of what society will say. Many of you marry who you don't love because "You are getting old"

MARRIAGE DOES NOT DETERMINE SUCCESS OR GREATNESS. Nigeria is poor because out of 150 million citizens 100 million are married. Rich and poor. So they give birth to more children without money.

If everyone could wait until they have "made it" before getting married trust me the poverty rate wil reduce. Even IDP camp dey marry. People wey no get house of ter own dey marry born pikin why won't majority Nigerians remain poor?

STOP HYPING MARRIAGE! IT'S A HOAX! A FRAUD DESIGNED BY SOCIETY AND ILLITERATE MEN FOR BRIDE PRICE TO MAKE MONEY. You can never die of loneliness. Loneliness is a fake word.

I'm not against marriage.. just stop hyping it and painting it to our faces like it some kind of heaven. See the one on front page that caught his bride to be jst 2 weeks to wedding fvcking his best man. That one go marry am dey shine teeth they post marriage meanwhile he is suffering and crying about his wife who wh0red her way to his best friend.

STOP THE HYPE

Okay.

Are you married? Or are you getting confused and you want to convince us in your confusion?

In my opinion marriage is a fracas.

A hoax. The old ancient men that created it painted it all white and rosy just to get money by selling their daughters in the name of bride price. The perverted men who joined in the creation of marriage was to satisfy teir sexual desires so no one will see them are fornicators. Since they had wives.

It's a big fraud.

IsaacBuchi:
Are you married? Or are you getting confused and you want to convince us in your confusion?

What are you saying what I'm I saying?

I'm not married. I dont even plan to. Not anytime soon. Perhaps when I have completed my 50-point agenda in life then I can go and find/buy a wife. An agenda that ensures my children and their children's children will never ever be poor. Until that is achieved i don't need a child or wife.

BoiledHead:


What are you saying what I'm I saying?

I'm not married. I dont even plan to. Not anytime soon. Perhaps when I have completed my 50-point agenda in life then I can go and find/buy a wife. An agenda that ensures my children and their children's children will never ever be poor. Until that is achieved i don't need a child or wife.

When you completed your 50 point agenda at 50 years you can then marry a young lass, give birth and leave them with money to replace you and love them.

By the way so you will still marry? I thought you said it was of no use? Marriage is an institution, only matured heads can carry it. It is not meant for everybody.

IsaacBuchi:


When you completed your 50 point agenda at 50 years you can then marry a young lass, give birth and leave them with money to replace you and love them.

By the way so you will still marry? I thought you said it was of no use? Marriage is an institution, only matured heads can carry it. It is not meant for everybody.

He never said marriage is of no use. I thought you are matured? He said it's not worth the hype. Just like someone hyping Nokia and I say don't hype Nokia it's not as good. Does not mean I won't use Nokia or idont use Nokia.

And 50-point agenda depending on the agenda can be completed in 20 years. Even if it's 50 he completes it from his posts nothing mandates him to marry. He can just enjoy his wealth or leave it for his nephews or younger ones or he gets married. Read and understand

Point is stop hyping it.

Ur head don boil finish true-true oh. E be like say woman don break ur heart to pieces

We've heard u, so we should strt hyping single mamas n randy men, or prostitutes and escort services, though marriage shouldn't b because one is getting old but tht doesn't mean u should degrade a beautiful thing. Some have it sour, some r njoying the life of their head

IsaacBuchi:


When you completed your 50 point agenda at 50 years you can then marry a young lass, give birth and leave them with money to replace you and love them.

By the way so you will still marry? I thought you said it was of no use? Marriage is an institution, only matured heads can carry it. It is not meant for everybody.

That's the point I'm saying. You guys see this age thing as a clock or countdown that if you don't marry u nothing.

Marriage does not determine your future. It does not make you matured or better. Who said my agenda will complete at 50? Let's assume it does who said I will/must marry? . Marriage is not by force. My message is stop making it look like a law or order. its not

Greene66:


He never said marriage is of no use. I thought you are matured? He said it's not worth the hype. Just like someone hyping Nokia and I say don't hype Nokia it's not as good. Does not mean I won't use Nokia or idont use Nokia.

And 50-point agenda depending on the agenda can be completed in 20 years. Even if it's 50 he completes it from his posts nothing mandates him to marry. He can just enjoy his wealth or leave it for his nephews or younger ones or he gets married. Read and understand

Point is stop hyping it.

Hey man! i don't even see the point of hyping singleness on the other hand. He has no solid base to argue this out...it is as much baseless. To every man his world he rules...

silverwolf:
We've heard u, so we should strt hyping single mamas n randy men, or prostitutes and escort services, though marriage shouldn't b because one is getting old but tht doesn't mean u should degrade a beautiful thing. Some have it sour, some r njoying the life of their head

Excuse me, a cheating wife and promiscuous husband is any different from a prostitute or escort, yes? What makes marriage beautiful? Marriage is a cage. Slavery. A fraud.

Those having it sour did they force them inside? I'm sure they were excited and also hyping it now they have it sour.

RadicallyBlunt:
Ur head don boil finish true-true oh. E be like say woman don break ur heart to pieces

Actually no woman has broken my heart.

BoiledHead:


That's the point I'm saying. You guys see this age thing as a clock or countdown that if you don't marry u nothing.

Marriage does not determine your future. It does not make you matured or better. Who said my agenda will complete at 50? Let's assume it does who said I will/must marry? . Marriage is not by force. My message is stop making it look like a law or order. its not

No one cares, marriage or no marriage....so far as you arrive where you want to be....how you get their is your business - married or single. If singleness makes you happy why care what others think about your decision...people would always talk

IsaacBuchi:


When you completed your 50 point agenda at 50 years you can then marry a young lass, give birth and leave them with money to replace you and love them.

By the way so you will still marry? I thought you said it was of no use? Marriage is an institution, only matured heads can carry it. It is not meant for everybody.

you don't get the point but I do


marriage is not an achievement,it is a choice

see what this 2colour wrote and understand
www.nairaland.com/2965073/queen-ella-mo-adenugba-discolored-babybump#43386014

IsaacBuchi:


No one cares, marriage or no marriage....so far as you arrive where you want to be....how you get their is your business - married or single. If singleness makes you happy why care what others think about your decision...people would always talk

Abeg... Unless you are not in Nigeria. This same nairaland you write this is the same place people bash great women like Linda ikeji any other single Nigerian who is successful saying 'go and marry'. That's what my message is addressing.

BoiledHead:


Abeg... Unless you are not in Nigeria. This same nairaland you write this is the same place people bash great women like Linda ikeji any other single Nigerian who is successful saying 'go and marry'. That's what my message is addressing.

Alright bro i get you....at the same time you cant flock Nigerians or Africans for our strong family culture. White who live their lives anyhow they are the same people who have disintegrated societies and families - who dont care about anyone but themselves.
Family thinking has its advantages and you cannot rant it away from us.

Dont get me wrongly..i see your point about our over sensitive nature about getting married and having family which effects a lot of things but every man but choose what please him or not regardless of the critical hands on him. And family is the strong hold of an African living and i dont think we should look down on it.

misspicy:

you don't get the point but I do


marriage is not an achievement,it is a choice

see what this 2colour wrote and understand
www.nairaland.com/2965073/queen-ella-mo-adenugba-discolored-babybump#43386014

I understand and agree entirely (marriage is a choice) but there is still a but in that his argument supporting his claim....check it

Staying single do not make you rich...Getting marrried does not make you poor....Riches is a mindset + his other arguments that are faulty

BoiledHead:
Please Nigerians and Africans in general stop painting marriage as a yardstick for success. Many of you so called husband's and wives are suffering in silence. You cannot get divorce because of what society will say. Many of you marry who you don't love because "You are getting old"

MARRIAGE DOES NOT DETERMINE SUCCESS OR GREATNESS. Nigeria is poor because out of 150 million citizens 100 million are married. Rich and poor. So they give birth to more children without money.

If everyone could wait until they have "made it" before getting married trust me the poverty rate wil reduce. Even IDP camp dey marry. People wey no get house of ter own dey marry born pikin why won't majority Nigerians remain poor?

STOP HYPING MARRIAGE! IT'S A HOAX! A FRAUD DESIGNED BY SOCIETY AND ILLITERATE MEN FOR BRIDE PRICE TO MAKE MONEY. You can never die of loneliness. Loneliness is a fake word.

I'm not against marriage.. just stop hyping it and painting it to our faces like it some kind of heaven. See the one on front page that caught his bride to be jst 2 weeks to wedding fvcking his best man. That one go marry am dey shine teeth they post marriage meanwhile he is suffering and crying about his wife who wh0red her way to his best friend.

STOP THE HYPE

I buy your opinion, it's true to the teeth....

IsaacBuchi:


Alright bro i get you....at the same time you cant flock Nigerians or Africans for our strong family culture. White who live their lives anyhow they are the same people who have disintegrated societies and families - who dont care about anyone but themselves.
Family thinking has its advantages and you cannot rant it away from us.

Dont get me wrongly..i see your point about our over sensitive nature about getting married and having family which effects a lot of things but every man but choose what please him or not regardless of the critical hands on him. And family is the strong hold of an African living and i dont think we should look down on it.

I don't quite agree.


Whites think about their family and kids. They make plans even before their kids are born contrary to we blacks who leave everything to God including using our own brains.

Teaching one to be independent does not mean u don't care, it actually means u do care enough to show d person d truth becos Life aint easy n its usually d strong dt survive.

Between white n black society,which is more disintegrated? Where don't things work? Why do we always want to troop to whiteman's land?

Having a bunch of fake ppl showing u fake love wen d going is good doesn't mean u hav an integrated society.

OP your life will be misery if you ever marry in Jesus name I pray. Amen.

I totally agree with the OP.

Mr Man, go and marry before your mother swear for you. wtf with all the typo nonsense

IsaacBuchi:


Alright bro i get you....at the same time you cant flock Nigerians or Africans for our strong family culture. White who live their lives anyhow they are the same people who have disintegrated societies and families - who dont care about anyone but themselves.
Family thinking has its advantages and you cannot rant it away from us.

Dont get me wrongly..i see your point about our over sensitive nature about getting married and having family which effects a lot of things but every man but choose what please him or not regardless of the critical hands on him. And family is the strong hold of an African living and i dont think we should look down on it.

Unfortunately that strong African family bond is the bedrock of corruption in Africa. Once a family member hits it big no one else in the family will want to work again. The breadwinner is then overwhelmed with demands till he/she illegally puts hand in the till.

BoiledHead:
Please Nigerians and Africans in general stop painting marriage as a yardstick for success. Many of you so called husband's and wives are suffering in silence. You cannot get divorce because of what society will say. Many of you marry who you don't love because "You are getting old"

MARRIAGE DOES NOT DETERMINE SUCCESS OR GREATNESS. Nigeria is poor because out of 150 million citizens 100 million are married. Rich and poor. So they give birth to more children without money.

If everyone could wait until they have "made it" before getting married trust me the poverty rate wil reduce. Even IDP camp dey marry. People wey no get house of ter own dey marry born pikin why won't majority Nigerians remain poor?

STOP HYPING MARRIAGE! IT'S A HOAX! A FRAUD DESIGNED BY SOCIETY AND ILLITERATE MEN FOR BRIDE PRICE TO MAKE MONEY. You can never die of loneliness. Loneliness is a fake word.

I'm not against marriage.. just stop hyping it and painting it to our faces like it some kind of heaven. See the one on front page that caught his bride to be jst 2 weeks to wedding fvcking his best man. That one go marry am dey shine teeth they post marriage meanwhile he is suffering and crying about his wife who wh0red her way to his best friend.

STOP THE HYPE

and who told you that marriage does not make a man successful??...you people will just wake up one morning and come here and type whatever that comes into your mind...you typed this shit cos you 've not met a lady with great destiny and grace ba??, need i tell you that success is contageous, and for the records, riches and wealth are transferable even in the bible...the pros is, majority of nigerians marry for the wrong reasons...so, stop coming here to decieve people

yomi007k:


I don't quite agree.


Whites think about their family and kids. They make plans even before their kids are born contrary to we blacks who leave everything to God including using our own brains.

Teaching one to be independent does not mean u don't care, it actually means u do care enough to show d person d truth becos Life aint easy n its usually d strong dt survive.

Between white n black society,which is more disintegrated? Where don't things work? Why do we always want to troop to whiteman's land?

Having a bunch of fake ppl showing u fake love wen d going is good doesn't mean u hav an integrated society.

The highest rate of disintegrated homes aka divorce and single families is in the white man's land.

Yea we have a bunch of fake love here and a bunch of fake love in white man's land too.

We all need someone to survive....

We troop to the white man's money to make money not to make families......There are rich, that has nothing to do with family....Remember they once trooped to our Africa for our money....

oglalasioux:


Unfortunately that strong African family bond is the bedrock of corruption in Africa. Once a family member hits it big no one else in the family will want to work again. The breadwinner is then overwhelmed with demands till he/she illegally puts hand in the till.

There is a good part and there is a bad part. In the whites man's land we have heard cases where an old man died in his room for 5 years and no one knew or asked after him even his neighbours. So we all have our good part and our bad parts...

Why have people forgotten that marriage is an institution created by God for the procreation of mankind.
Just that some people have now turned marriage into a poverty alleviation program or a s3xual pervasiveness awareness program. Hence all this useless thread on what one buffoon thinks marriage is. SMH

kateskitty:
Why have people forgotten that marriage is an institution created by God for the procreation of mankind.
Just that some people have now turned marriage into a poverty alleviation program or a s3xual pervasiveness awareness program. Hence all this useless thread on what one buffoon thinks marriage is. SMH

100% true talk

firstking01:
[s]and who told you that marriage does not make a man successful??...you people will just wake up one morning and come here and type whatever that comes into your mind...you typed this shit cos you 've not met a lady with great destiny and grace ba??, need i tell you that success is contageous, and for the records, riches and wealth are transferable even in the bible...the pros is, majority of nigerians marry for the wrong reasons...so, stop coming here to decieve people[/s]

Your post would have made sense if you did not say 'success is contagious' or 'marriage makes one successful'.

Now that's trash. Don't work. Don't labor. Sit down there and say marriage will transfer success to you.

Even God told Adam 'You shall till the soil for bread' ... he never said. . 'When you marry you shall find bread'.

For your level, bread in that context is not the bread you eat. Bread means success, wealth, and the likes.

So if God could command man to labor for success any other person saying marriage will make him successful is a big fool

kateskitty:
Why have people forgotten that marriage is an institution created by God for the procreation of mankind.
Just that some people have now turned marriage into a poverty alleviation program or a s3xual pervasiveness awareness program. Hence all this useless thread on what one buffoon thinks marriage is. SMH

Did you read my thread Or you just rushed to comment ?

Did I tell you 'DON'T MARRY'?

Did I tell you 'Marriage is not an institution created by God?

Did I tell you 'Don't have children'?

Hellooo. . This is what we are saying.. mtcheew

You think you are making sense..