we have been together for abt 7yrs. we've passed tru thick and thin of life. we've loved and fought each oda. But my problem now is that there is no week that we don't quarrel and keep malice. we quarrel more than we make love. pls, nlandas, is this love? we plan to get married next year. but m scared and concerned abt how we are going to live as husband and wife. pls, I need your advice on wat to do. Should I let her go? wat should I do?!

Depends on what you call 'quarrel'

How serious does this everytime quarrel gets?
How quick do you make up?
Does it affect the relationship/love?
Does she nag?
Are you hot tempered?
Is it violent?


If one of this, then all you need do is figure your (both of you) weaknesses and work on it

For 7yrs, you guys suppose to have understand each other to a greater extend.
Though quarrel is bound to take place in a relationship but marriage is a different case. Because it will definitely affect your home. So I advice you sit him down to discuss the possibility of curbing this menace.

what makes you both quarel?
Have you sat down to think it through?
It's normal to quarel but there should be a limit.

you quarrel and keep malice in almost every week...

its enough sign my brother...from experience

leave now or regret later.

Hmmmm, it's serious oh. Get to know the cause and if the quarrels and malice can stop, if not do the needful