Really tough choice.

Find a good time to tell your boyfriend.
Maybe when in bed.

omofola:

Tell him to buy the car first and see what happens.

haa!!! greed!!!

it kills!!!

El Gators:

Please people, i'm not saying i want to sleep with my b/f cousin. The cousin is a crazy guy who gambles a lot (He actually lost N80,000 to my cousin during the last champions league game, betting MU will win the cup).

My point is that he has the money to spend and thinks he can tempt me with it, telling me my cousin won't know. I know he just wants to massage his ego. The thing is i would really like my b/f to know what kind of person his cousin is. I'm only afraid that iy might backfire and i'll be the loser at the end. My b/f never sees anything bad in his cousin, even though he is arrogant and extravegant.

About the cousin not buying the car is out of the question, because he can afford it, he has an oil servicing company. The guy is really rich and i think that gets into his head, making him think he owns the world.

OLE BURUKU.

If he has no money this topic, won't be up for discussion. You know what to do, lil girl, stop frontin'

izeek:


am sorry to say, but u find this chap appelaing, u just want to be in denial.

no she doesnt.

She doesnt want to embarass her bfs cousin, nor doe she want to be inbetween her bf and her cousin who her apparently worships.

I feel ya girl, dont tell him but ask him hypothectically but dont make it seem like it is you. Once u find out his answer, then u go on from there. If he says he would be angry at his cousin, then tell him, if he says he wouldnt believe it, then make it like a setup and have him find out on his own. Arrange a meeting or something and have ur guy walk on it or something.

Good luck.

FL Gators:

OLE BURUKU.

If he has no money this topic, won't be up for discussion. You know what to do, lil girl, stop frontin'

ah ah ahhh sis, she's askin do I tell, not do I sleep with him!

platinumnk:

ah ah ahhh sis, she's askin do I tell, not do I sleep with him!

If the dude ain't got no money, she'd have told.

platinumnk:

no she doesnt.

and u know this because?
abeg stop decieving ur age at post,
we all know if nothing was at stake this issue wud be highly irrelevant and annoying in the first place.
sleepwith him or tell u bf.
thats just the two options u have.

i think u are moved by the benefits involved. ]

FL Gators:

If the dude ain't got no money, she'd have told.

but that is precisly the point, her bf worships the man, what would very well happen is that she got booted to the curb.

Like how how women are afraid to tell on everybody favorite "uncle" that he sexually abuses them.

izeek:

and u know this because?
abeg stop decieving ur age at post,
we all know if nothing was at stake this issue wud be highly irrelevant and annoying in the first place.
sleepwith him or tell u bf.
thats just the two options u have.

i think u are moved by the benefits involved. ]

Ok, so there was a thread earlier about a Marketing woman who is constantly hit on by her client. She doesnt want to lose her job, and yet she hasnt told her boss.

Does that mean that she also wants to sleep with the dude?  

Not very much ppl were accusing the poster of trying to sleep with the client.

How is this different?

You people will end up confusing OP

Look what i noticed:
There is EL and FL Gators. . .

So who is the older of the Gators sisters?
Is it like a Serena/Venus thing?. . .

Dnt act surprised, my dear. Impersonation is not a new thing on NL

I take it EL impersonated FL.
Since FL has more posts.

It could be fun though,
Like our nateevs and nateev.

FL Gators:

Dnt act surprised, my dear. Impersonation is not a new thing on NL

are u saying El and FL are thesame person?

i hope this post is not a bloody joke?

platinumnk:

Ok, so there was a thread earlier about a Marketing woman who is constantly hit on by her client. She doesnt want to lose her job, and yet she hasnt told her boss.

Does that mean that she also wants to sleep with the dude?  

Not very much ppl were accusing the poster of trying to sleep with the client.

How is this different?

babe what ur job demands and family issues are two dif things.
we know the co-operat  world actually endorse's prostitution but with style.

i say she let her bf know or do the deed.
she has issues i dont like.

tosyne007:

are u saying El and FL are thesame person?

i hope this post is not a bloody joke?

Instead of writing all that, you should have just let us know that you don't know what IMPERSONATION means

are u saying El and FL are thesame person?

i hope this post is not a bloody joke?

How can it be the same person?
Don't you know what impersonation means?

@FL,
Come to think of it,
Perhaps you're OP's role model.

FL Gators:

Instead of writing all that, you should have just let us know that you don't know what IMPERSONATION means

BlueDiva:

How can it be the same person?
Don't you know what impersonation means?

@FL,
Come to think of it,
Perhaps you're OP's role model.

of course i do!!!.

it could as well be thesame person using two id's.

Well, i don't think blue diva will agree wit me cos it seems both of u are allies.

Ma dear, I don't have time to play with children.

C'mon theseeker no beef d chick naw, havnt u heard of opportunity cums bt 1ce.
@EL Gators
baby girl cum 2 tink of it, wat if it waz ur sista dat ur b/f wantd 2 f**k would she tell u? Girl c'mon 2 can definitely play d game cos ur nt even tinkin of a car in d nxt 5yrs or more. Aft d whole drama make sure u start anoda topic lyk
'help! Ma b/f is askn hw i got a car'
i promise 2 still give u advice on hw 2 get out of d shit
@fl gators
why dnt u give dat guy sum tutorials, guez it will improve his english skills

Y would u accept such offer. Many chicks will accept such but if u ever do such then u are the bigger fool

Ok, you guyz need to chill. It is not that serious

see me see trouble.

I think say na Fl Gators be the OP.

I don dey wonder since.

u've got to love NL, someone asks for advice and it degenerates into a free for all!

netotse:

u've got to love NL, someone asks for advice and it degenerates into a free for all!

abi o!!!!


and na2day ur example was waay off

tpia.:

see me see trouble.

I think say na Fl Gators be the OP.

I don dey wonder since.

Ehrrm nope.
And why would I bring any problem to NL? Jesus is Lord!

Who changed his ID?

Thank you

who changed the ID to CRACKHEAD!!!!

ROFLMMFAO!!!!

I cant breathe!!!

Nairaland please dont kill me oooooooooooooo

Nairaland should carry warnings: do not read while u are consuming food!

Chei! Wetin i miss 4 here? See fight, dis fight suppose show 4 judgement day in wwe.

warning to Gaggi and na2day? - continue this exchange and you will both be banned.

Stay on topic from now on.

@ EI GATORS

I believe you are not a golddigger, but that you are just genuinely scared of your boyfriend choosing not to believe his precious Cousin would do such, if you told him.

Tell him, if he flips out and accuses you of lying, then he is not meant to be your man then, because that just simply proves he does not love you.