Is it true that if an Awka man bring a lady to his family (village) just to show his parents the lady he wants to marry, that is highly forbidden for the lady to pass the night in that compound? that their tradition forbids it, that no matter the condition the newly introduced lady must not sleep in the man's father's compound until they are legally married? that they must sleep elsewhere?.

Pls. I need an urgent responses to make sure someone is in a safe hand.

I wuld hv answered u but I am not from Awka, just wait for som1 from Awka k?

That is a fat lie. Totally untrue.

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Is it true that if an Awka man bring a lady to his family (village) just to show his parents the lady he wants to marry, that is highly forbidden for the lady to pass the night in that compound? that their tradition forbids it, that no matter the condition the newly introduced lady must not sleep in the man's father's compound until they are legally married? that they must sleep elsewhere?.

Pls. I need an urgent responses to make sure someone is in a safe hand.

very big fat lie maybe it's the tradition of the family but not for awka people that one is a lie am married to an awka man and am sure i slept over once or twice when I went to see my in laws and nothing happened so na lie Peace

@Doremi & blade21, Thanks I appreciate your response, at least this response can help her to know what next. I have bn skeptical about this kind of tradition in this our generation since the lady in question told me this, Because am always very careful when it comes to marital advice, after prayer I like to investigate some fact on my own on behalf whoever, I have bn wondering why a man must not sleep in his father's compound with a lady he want to introduced to his parents.

OK, he said they will sleep somewhere, what is the name of the somewhere? she does not know.
Still investigating for her no one close to me will be a victim of marriage scammers in Jesus name.

whoever the information is meant for should remember it is supposed to apply specifically to Awka indigenes if true, not the whole world.





no juxtapositions or transpositions when judging, bye.

gr8tgg:
@Doremi & blade21, Thanks I appreciate your response, at least this response can help her to know what next. I have bn skeptical about this kind of tradition in this our generation since the lady in question told me this, Because am always very careful when it comes to marital advice, after prayer I like to investigate some fact on my own on behalf whoever, I have bn wondering why a man must not sleep in his father's compound with a lady he want to introduced to his parents.

OK, he said they will sleep somewhere, what is the name of the somewhere? she does not know.
Still investigating for her no one close to me will be a victim of marriage scammers in Jesus name.

he's lying big time infact the guy na scammer hope he doesn't want to use her for rituals she better be careful

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This is not about being an Awka tradition and custom, it is inappropriate and is generally frowned on.

Why would the lady even want to sleep there when they ain't married yet?;

D guy just wan chop pewssy run....

I hate these kinds of lies..

If you know u dont lik a lady, just tell her so plainly...

U can imagine a urhobo dude... After getting a gal pregnant... Told her they cant get married

Because in his village, it is a taboo to marry pregnant woman...!!..