I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

The Fact That He Onced Raised His Stinky Hand To Slap You Is Enough Reason To Arrest Him.
Do Not Marry Him Please, Else He I'd Turn You Into A Punching Bag

Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible for readers to offer their advice which you direly seek....




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Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

See question! . I wonder when my fellow womenfolk will learn. Oya go and marry a Ticking Time Bomb and come back later to complain when it Explodes. Mtcheew!

Put Him thru more tests ,and sorry to say the later part of your story isnt clear enof

Op u dnt need amadioha or sango to reveal to u dat u shouldn't marry dat guy..

Cmon, God gave us a brain, please use it.

I SELL COMMON SENSE ..2 FOR #5


OH OH..DOLLAR RISED
ITS NOW 2 FOR #100

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SMH.op where did you keep your brains?

Please go ahead and marry him. We will be here to advise you on how to fix a broken arm.

Look at this one,he beat u,asked for forgiveness,you now gave him alittle drilll,he has jabo and latr know you were referring to him and said he should have given u double double............,he is not even feeling remorsefull,he'll fi" batani ba tie je if you marry him",my 2 indojis.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

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Please I am not the op, thanks!

Hmmmm. Be wise my dear. Don't blindly dig ur own grave. I won't mince words as it seems u rly need someone to jolt you out of ur reverie with the bitter truth. I have been in ur shoes before, I stayed hoping things would get better, it wasn't until I was battered once more that I came to my senses that a man ain't rly worth dying for. He even stated it already that he WL give u double d previous slap, what other clarification do u want darling?

The handwriting is clearly written on the wall...leave him before your story becomes that of the Ibadan lady that murdered her husband owing to accumulated hurts.

Abo oro lan so fun omoluabi... Toba denue a di odindin..

Suigeneris93:



Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

Pls tell him.. People won't remove d spec of dust in their own eye before criticizing others. As if anyone out here is perfect

Don't dare marry him, i percieve he's a wife beater, or you wanna become the bag he 'll be using to practice his punching prowess

The guy look lyk a hot tempered guy.

He said he would have given you more slaps?



Ahahahaha

Someone seems to njoy slapping u, n u are asking whether u should marry him,?? , nawa u.

We humans like making things difficult for ourselves, specially when we knw d ryt thing to do.
Seems u njoy d slaps he gives u, cuz u for no dy ask dz kain thing.

Suigeneris93:



Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

hahaha

Sure the guy is rich that y d op remain there.Unfortunately ladies dont mind double slaps so far their bills are paid .

Why are you still with him
cos he s cute, presentable or what? or for pple to see both of you and feels you are lucky to have him?
he slapped you once? nor be there e dey start?
my sister no how wey u go cover sh1t wey nor go still smell oo

borrow yourself brain ooo

Hmmm, i dey pity you already

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

She needs advice not tutorials.

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

What other advice do you need? Till he beats you and leave you for death?

Suigeneris93:



Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

Shots fired

Suigeneris93:



Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

you really need help, if you lack in English language, you should seek help..... This isn't a classroom and I'll not waste my time on a kid that knows nothing putting you through written English.....

mimzy:


Pls tell him.. People won't remove d spec of dust in their own eye before criticizing others. As if anyone out here is perfect

stop being silly, what are the blunders you can extract from my piece ? Because a cretin quoted me and blabbed rubbish , you are hailing her...... Now I understand why our educational system is in the messy state it is right now (when u have people that cannot think for themselves)

Olodo rabata. Oju eja lomo je. Oni je paper. Silati loma lo. Aji yan wo. Eba tutu lomoje . shiki shiki. Shiorrrrr . Oro dun , ofe ke. Wole Soyinka. Mschewww. Did I even mention u in d first place. Notice me oshi

She highlighted all ur blunders. Its a shame cos u were tryna put someone else down when u ain't perfect. Stop tryna blow grammar biko. If u can't construct , keep it simple and real.
P.S I won't reply u again. UV been noticed

Raymondenyi:
stop being silly, what are the blunders you can extract from my piece ? Because a cretin quoted me and blabbed rubbish , you are hailing her...... Now I understand why our educational system is in the messy state it is right now (when u have people that cannot think for themselves)

mineANDurs:
See question! . I wonder when my fellow womenfolk will learn. Oya go and marry a Ticking Time Bomb and come back later to complain when it Explodes. Mtcheew!

sincerely, sisters reasoning like this is annoying.

My spidey sense tells me she's considering the guy cuz she feels it's her time for her to get married.

mimzy:
Olodo rabata. Oju eja lomo je. Oni je paper. Silati loma lo. Aji yan wo. Eba tutu lomoje . shiki shiki. Shiorrrrr . Oro dun , ofe ke. Wole Soyinka. Mschewww. Did I even mention u in d first place. Notice me oshi
She highlighted all ur blunders. Its a shame cos u were tryna put someone else down when u ain't perfect. Stop tryna blow grammar biko. If u can't construct , keep it simple and real.
P.S I won't reply u again. UV been noticed

I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...