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22 Golden Rules Of Marriage by iamrashyy: 10:57pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
Marriage Advice To You All ...
1. Choose to love each other even in those
moments when you struggle to like each other.
Love is a commitment, not a feeling.
2. Always answer the phone when your husband/
wife is calling and when possible, try to keep
your phone off/on silent when you’re together
with your spouse.
3. Make time together a priority. Budget for a
consistent date night. Time is the “currency of
relationships” so consistently invest time into
your marriage.
4. Surround yourself with friends who will
strengthen your marriage and remove yourself
from people who may tempt you to compromise
your character.
5. Make laughter the soundtrack of your
marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the
hard times, find reasons to laugh.
6. In every argument, remember that there won’t
be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in
everything so you’ll either win together or lose
together. Work together to find a solution.
7. Remember that a strong marriage rarely has
two strong people at the same time. It’s usually
a husband and wife taking turns being strong for
each other in the moments when the other feels
weak.
8. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It
takes more than sex to build a strong marriage,
but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong
marriage without it.
9. Remember that marriage isn’t
50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be
100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but
both partners giving everything they’ve got.
10. Give your best to each other, not your
leftovers after you’ve given your best to
everyone else.
11. Learn from other people, but don’t feel the
need to compare your life or your marriage to
anyone else’s. Allah's plan for your life is
masterfully unique.
12. Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re
raising your kids or else you’ll end up with an
empty nest and an empty marriage.
13. Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy
is the enemy of intimacy.
14. Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and
trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.
15. When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and
humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to
say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”
16. When your husband/wife breaks your trust,
give them your forgiveness instantly which will
promote healing and create the opportunity for
trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I
love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”
17. Be patient with each other. Your spouse is
always more important that your schedule.
18. Model the kind of marriage that will make
your sons want to grow up to be good husbands
and your daughters want to grow up to be good
wives.
19. Be your spouse’s biggest encourager, not
his/her biggest critic. Be the one who wipes
away their tears, not the one who causes them.
20. Never talk badly about your spouse to other
people or vent about them online. Protect your
spouse at all times and in all places.
21. Pray together. Every marriage is stronger
with Allah in the middle of it.
22. Never consider divorce as an option.
Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two
imperfect people who refuse to give up on each
other!
As you're stepping in may it be fruitful and everlasting. (Amin) 1 Like |
Re: 22 Golden Rules Of Marriage by ThuGnificenX: 11:05pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
Pls.. A range ur post and rename it accordingly as I say 22 GOLDEN WAYS TO DIE |
Re: 22 Golden Rules Of Marriage by Nobody: 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
Goan sleep op and come back here to re-arrange |
Re: 22 Golden Rules Of Marriage by Nobody: 11:47pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
It dosnt take much to spot a DREAMER. |
Re: 22 Golden Rules Of Marriage by iamrashyy: 6:53am On Mar 12, 2016 |
Thanks guys will do that next time. |
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