Adonis3:
if a woman doesn't no how to discard admirers(whether exes or potential ones) in any way possible


Then there's a problem!


OP here's my advice:

Please sit the babe down and have a talk with her


Make her see reasons why she needs to tell him off


As her inability to do so may send the wrong signal to the dude

He might see it as her still having feelings for him(which might be true)

And may cause him to persist in trying to win her back


Trust me, one way or the other

It's almost impossible to totally get off your ex

Especially if you guys shared something special


Cutting off completely is the key


That's if you're interested in making your relationship work.


#Adonis3HasSopken

halfricanadian:

I am always amazed how people do it

no matter wat i share with a guy once its over im never attached atall not even a drop of feelings any more

so wen people cant let go of their ex i feel awkward towards dat

Adonis3:



that's why I said "if u shared something special"


#Adonis3HasSopken

halfricanadian:

mogbe meaning av never shared something special
I need to flog my self diligently

KingAdeOluomo1:
can I help in doing dat ma

halfricanadian:


Please do cos i am never attached to ny ex once im gone

halfricanadian:

mogbe meaning av never shared something special
I need to flog my self diligently

halfricanadian:

mogbe meaning av never shared something special
I need to flog my self diligently

KingAdeOluomo1:
you r the smart girl type very good at playing games.

halfricanadian:
ex is like a virus in any new relationship

judey1992:
I made two observations.
1. You are a bully.
2. You are commandering nd want things to happen nd be done only in ur own way.
maybe you should consider your partners opinions at times nd overlook somethings. Love shouldnt be enforced otherwise its consequences cn be drastic. :

ladyF:
Make I no chook mouth for the OP's grammar sha, and you are saying somebody is not academically intelligent

repogirl:
Hmm, maybe her ex is not really exed?

Or..... She's not into you, or just wants to focus on herself for now?

I don't know jare! This your question is like sitting for JAMB all over again.

There's something she's not telling you sha. Maybe you need to voice your concerns or just quit sef.

I really don't know, I'm still sleepy.

oppybouy:

Looool. 'Sitting for jamb all over again'
I think the Op is the one who thinks he is in a relationship with the babe, or maybe the Ex ain't an ex like he thinks.
You know Op, just like in Maths. x can have any value

MrCork:




..sweeery but..how comes you ain't stalk me this year?..... don't you wanna stepppup?

MrCork:




..sweeery but..how comes you ain't stalk me this year?..... don't you wanna stepppup?

halfricanadian:


Playing games me games?

i can be 200% faithful nd honest nd loyal nd sincere if u are right for me

Lytech:
I quit my 2yrs relationship september last year because my girlfriend was lazy and not intelligent accademically,several attempt to help her change was abortive..,after her ND i advice her to go and learn craft work,she insisted on working and getting money to get some material things.
Early this year,i met this blessed lady,she was a NOUN student,brilliant and hardworking. I advice her to find a craft work doing because they dont recieve lectures which she obeyed,that increased my love for her as she was the type of woman i dreamt of settling with..
The problem i have with her was her Ex who keep calling her..each time i complained,she replied me with the word"she wanted to send him away with her attitude not with the word of her mouth"..if i press further with my complain she will get angry.
She denied me sex anytime i make an attemt,telling me its too early.
She hardly collect any kobo i offered her which bothered me the most.
I dont know what she is upto and am scared of wasting my precious time and lossing her to her Ex in the long run..
My fellow nairalander,mature advice please...