A guy confided in me through nairaland that i should post this article.

Why are most girls so so confused
The discombobulation is upgrading by the day

REALLY,i now believe they really have fishbrain!!!

some days ago,a girl posted on nairaland seeking for advice if she should sever her relationship citing reasons that her fiance slapped her and refused to pay for her hospital bill sometime, matured nairalanders slammed her for witholding the composition of the story.
The guy who is a nairalander was shocked by the naivety of her fiance Narrates:


"i met my fiancee on 2011 but we started dating on 2014.she was full of games,pretenses and surprises,you never know what she might come up with at the toss of a coin,but i hanged on,She came at odd time and was asking of 40k. Giving reasons of unfinished school clearances,due to phone calls bombarding her line,i suspected voodoo scam,to cut the story short,i slapped her once just as my best friend advised me ,i regretted the ordeal and apologised,Before this incident her behaviour changed for the worse, i realised one of the scammers was having canal knowledge of her so i moved on,two weeks letter she left my town and gave me a call apologising that we should get back on again,so she visited and confessed the whole situation how she was hypnotised (mind you,it can happen to anyone)and etc justifying my intuitions and actions.I will not go into her private life,We had on and off relationship due to distance. This year we started talking again and i was assessing her to see the things i can change about her and marry her,and she can be bent or so i believed. (there is nothing like a dream spouse,it does not exist.)She was doing her service in the state and was planning to visit on the last week of march, i gave reasons of my new found faith which she accepted so the visit was annulled,now we are planning to get married soon and i want to accelerate it by introducing ourselves to the family in june which she was aware.If she chose to come to nairaland for advice,then she still has some work to do.Now am really thinking the search is not over yet!"
















Moral of the story: its not fair to judge without hearing the second part of the story,kudos to the men of nairaland who smelt burnt chimney smoke and gave technically matured advice.

Summary: A girl was charmed by scammers and was slapped by her fiancee probably to reset her and she brands him a potential wife beater,i noticed some mixed receptions about this story, the true motive of this counter thread is to eradicate completely the way we address issues on nairaland,if you go through the story,you'll notice the similarities between the two stories,she was seeking advice, but he was trying to clarify the hidden events that unfolded that led to the slap.He wasn't seeking for advice,a random girl would come on nairaland for advice and the gullible minds would not question the authenticity of the story.Bear this hard truth in mind,NEVER JUDGE IN A RUSH..

So, what's your point or question. If u not OK with her, move on.

You seem to have taken ur decision already. So stick with it. That's discipline. And like you said if u want to keep searching for the dream wife, I wish you patience and goodluck.

Only henergygirl can determine if you are a liar or not


BTW the both of you are very immature to be considering marriage. Taking advice from friends, relatives and strangers is the first sign that y'all need some growing up to do. Seems you're better suited for each other. Goodluck to you both, I wish you all the best

Suigeneris93:

Only hernergygirl can determine if you are a liar or not


BTW the both of you are very immature to be taking advice from friends who may really be enemies in disguise. Goodluck to you both, I wish you all the best

you are such and !diot? Qhen did he mention advice? He is trying to say its not good to judge and reach conclusion from one part of a story.I think he had already moved on. by the way ,birds of the same feather.

Immorttal:
you are such ans i*diot?Ia he here for advice? He is trying to say its not good to judge and reach conclusion from one part of a story.

I'm guessing you must be the friend who gave him the heads up to counter his fiancee's post. I won't waste my time on you, I don't care what he's trying to say

Suigeneris93:



I'm guessing you must be the friend who gave him the heads up to counter his fiancee's post. I won't waste my time on you, I don't care what he's trying to say

see me see trouble .if you mention me again.the thunder that will fire you is still smoking cloud.

Immorttal:
see me see trouble .if you mention me again.the thunder that will fire you is still smoking cloud.

K

Smh
So immature
Y'all need to grow up!!!!!

We still don't know the real reason you slapped her or how many times you did, all i saw was "to cut the story short i slapped her". There's not justification for hitting any grown person, if you know she's no the right fit abeg use ur two legs and walk away from the relationship; you aint a tree now and ur destiny isn't tied to her, rather than languish in the anger and frustration the relationship breeds.

Am agreeing with the posters telling you guys that you're not matured. The both of you need to work on yourselves and stop blaming NL coz na here we dey wen the story broke no be say we go do gbeborun

Just imagine

Mtchewwww!

The op and his friend deserve brain reformatting slap. Nonsense

So wetin concern us for the matter? You no dey shame you dey slap woman com dey talk nonsense put. Tomorrow if you marry am you go dey beat am still dey talk nonsense again

peacengine:
So wetin concern us for the matter? You no dey shame you dey slap woman com dey talk nonsense put. Tomorrow if you marry am you go dey beat am still dey talk nonsense again

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