ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

thank you my brother. It seems the babe sniffed yam powder as cocaine before typing.

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

Angry black feminist on d loose! Hope frustration is nt to be blamed here!
Nice write-up for d OP!

OP TRUE TALK

Jonathan2787:
You are a disgrace to guys [color=#006600][/color][b][/b]

Issalie he said the truth.

@Op,

You need isi ewu and one night stand,i go arrange them for you.

tete7000:
Be generous with a woman you intends to marry but let her know its your choice to do so and you can end it if needs arise. To women, a man stingy to you outside cannot be generous in the home. Generosity ought to be in the character of the man. A generous person gives irrespective of the situation. Love should spur a person to give.

It's not an obligation bro just that when you do all that they tend to think it is an obligation n you hear talks like why are you my boyfriend? What am I gaining from you? It takes a lady who understands what a relationship is all about not to see generosity as an obligation.

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

What's dis one saying?

Correct

ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

I tire oh

Jonathan2787:
You are a disgrace to guys [color=#006600][/color][b][/b]

op is saying d Truth..... Ur a disgrace to urself.... I congratulate ur stu.pidity

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

Since when did it start?

Okay that's some truth said by Rapmoney. Goodnews is, I never showed all the negative attributes listed. To some guys who are not too comfortable with this. Try and change. It only makes you a better person and a prospective loving hudband.

Jonathan2787:
i said shut up you preeq its the type of you that eventually become a puppet to a girl so weak it makes me shriek

bt the guy is right.

In a dating relationship u own each other nothing jst as any day or time one of u feel like ending the relationship...the person is allowed to take a walk.

I see nothing wrong in all the guy said.

Ur girlfriend or boyfriend is nt ur property bt ur wife or husband is.

Okay that's some truth said by Rapmoney. Goodnews is, I never showed all the negative attributes listed. To some guys who are not too comfortable with this. Try and change. It only makes you a better person and a prospective loving husband.

Rapmoney:
Seriously?

Yeah

weldone poster.

4) Taking the role of a husband financially: The dating period is not a time for you start catering for the financial responsibilities of a lady because you neither owe her any duty nor obligation to do that! It doesn't mean you should become mean as Caliban! You should show generosity to the one you are dating but don't make it seem as if you running to get to the finish line and at the same time, trying to carry somebody on your back all along. You sure know what that means It is difficult to stop when you have already started; it's better not to start what you cannot end. Never you use money to impress a woman you want to get serious with; instead, let her see the work or essence of the money in your life...then, she would'nt think of 'money' you'd have to spend but the 'success' you have been able to achieve. Don't forget, women love successful men and they are loyal to them and not just a money spender!!!

as far as majority of "girlfriend" expect this your no (4) point from their "boyfriend", all other points are not valid. except otherwise

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

If you have this mindset at this your single stage, I pity you.

there is a stage in dating,that if d guy find out d girl is not loyal he will leave but the problem is DAT ladies Dont really know d point.

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

Warris dis 1 saying sef?

Rapmoney:
Lol! This is a misconception It means you don't know me around here. Ask around, am an alleged misogynist! That doesn't stop me from being my real self. I speak the truth! Am not weak!!!

You may not be weak but then again, I guess you still don't know how to use I am or I'm in your sentences.

In other words, you are very weak (in English).

And that's very bad.

Some guys on nairaland sha.....haven't they heard of the Guy code......

so why was she begging one guy sometimes ago? Fake girl she be

BumBae:

Lol maybe she doesn't want to be "owned" guess not every chic wants marriage and all that
That's the only thing i got from it

Jonathan2787:
You are a disgrace to guys [color=#006600][/color][b][/b]

U are more of a disgrace

henryhemon:


It's not an obligation bro just that when you do all that they tend to think it is an obligation n you hear talks like why are you my boyfriend? What am I gaining from you? It takes a lady who understands what a relationship is all about not to see generosity as an obligation.

I agree its not an obligation, that's why I called it a choice but it's a choice that a good man must always make. Love is kind and generous. However on the part of the women, a good woman understands that it's a privilege to have a generous man and thus appreciate and adore such a man. If you meet a lady who doesn't appreciate generosity, I bet you have met someone who wouldn't be a good wife.

so what happens when reverse is the case ? Like its the girl doing the policing and the FBI and tins...

halfricanadian:
I'm waiting for the fool that would say he owns me

even if every single soul in my world choose u love u

Till i breath my last i wont get d facts ryt aint scared of dying

I just never want u i choose death over u a billion trillion million times

Smh..

Rapmoney:
It seems so many guys are so confused on dating to an extent where they erroneously equate it with marriage! Dating is just a period where two persons who find themselves attracted to each other try to know themselves better; it could even happen in a way where either one of them is not 'too interested' in the other person but as time goes on, good attitude, genuine love and care, coupled with clear understanding shown by either the guy or the lady could make both of them 'click' for good.

On a serious note, some guys can actually go the extra mile by portraying some unnecessary and irrelevant attitude that can cause them emotional pains in return

Below are some common misconceptions guys have about dating which is not supposed to be a 'do-or-die' affair!!!

1) Policing a girl: Dating period shouldn't be a time for you to police a girl as if you work for the FBI! When a girl agrees to date you, it means she has interest in you and would like to know you better. It is not a period to show your skills in detective operations and start snooping around her, trying to know her every whereabout...how she eats, who she talks to, who she calls or who calls her. You might just end up selling yourself out as a desperate and jobless fellow who has nothing serious to attend to in life! Give yourself some self-worth, Inspector Idemudia!!!

2) Exercising ownership over her: This is one big misconception that most guys have! Remember you have not paid a dime on her...so why exercise ownership? Isn't it funny that as soon as she agrees to date you, you want her to cut off every raport she has with everyone? You erroneously think that when you claim ownership, it gives you a strong ground in her life! Wrong! You could even trigger hatred. Allow her to study you and other admirers to see who has the desired traits! This is far from her playing 'hard to get' because at this stage, she has already showed interest in you! A woman hardly respects a man who act as if his life is tied around her.

3) Imposing your personal policies on her: Again, you are not married to her. There is no need for you to impose your policies on her to accept. She has her own life to live and there is no signed certificate anywhere that she is your wife or she is going to be one in the nearest future. Even husbands are not suppose to impose policies on wives talk more of doing that at the dating stage!!! You might end up selling yourself out as an undesirable tyrant!!!

4) Taking the role of a husband financially: The dating period is not a time for you start catering for the financial responsibilities of a lady because you neither owe her any duty nor obligation to do that! It doesn't mean you should become mean as Caliban! You should show generosity to the one you are dating but don't make it seem as if you running to get to the finish line and at the same time, trying to carry somebody on your back all along. You sure know what that means It is difficult to stop when you have already started; it's better not to start what you cannot end. Never you use money to impress a woman you want to get serious with; instead, let her see the work or essence of the money in your life...then, she would'nt think of 'money' you'd have to spend but the 'success' you have been able to achieve. Don't forget, women love successful men and they are loyal to them and not just a money spender!!!

Good evening everyone

Written by Kelvin Ukachukwu (Rapmoney)

Well, those are your opinions ... so you are telling me that it is after marriage that the guy should start letting her know his policies abi? And later on the girl will start crying out that bae is not this way when we were still dating. (go check broken marriages) .

As for me, I cant even date someone I didn't see the image of my future wife in her. And what I cant take from you while we are dating is definitely what I won't take when we eventually get married. So why would I fake it

halfricanadian:



Yeah cos y'all have d money connection makes u the top boss go read isrealite nd egyptian story nd come bck to me

Am so amazed dey feel so so hurt dey sent a 14yr old to me karma awaits you too but sadly i wont b there wen u experiencing urs i wud b far ahead with my own beautiful life

little boy dis life is not my future it doesnt define me

just cos u refused to see beyond a concave lens of life view doesnt mean i dont see beyond mine

most great women came out from nothing i mean absolute nothing to something ok u dont define me neither do ur words i av a direction bt i feel like just lecturing an home schooled f**l like u some bit of life lessons

.@@@@@@@@ my problem with u on all ur post or comments is d use of punctuation marks... Eh, u lack that... If only u make use of punctuation marks, maybe they will understand u better...

ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

i think she's trying to sound so tough Dat she can't bend to any man without knowin say nobody dey even look her face

Like the no 4

Are u saying it is wrong for a guy to find out whether he's nt the only one his girl is promising her love to?.......
.
i mean if d gal is double dating.

ronald4lif:
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable

Babe has an unpleasant past and needed to pour out her pain.