I want to be financially independent by this time next year, I want to be in a committed relationship leading to marriage by this time next year, I want to own my first house in the next 1 year, I want to be a middle-level
manager in the next 3 years. I want to shed off 30 killogram by joining a gym or jogging regularly, I want to avail more time to be with my family… among other resolutions.
Yet some of these goals never see the light of day. If there is a man who has battled with procrastination, I lead the pack.

When I was 19, I drew the grand plan of my life that by 28, I was supposed to be married, done with my masters, let’s not just go deep, it’s a story for another day.
While I was doing soul searching, I stumbled on a great piece of advice which I think might help all of us as we move on with our lives :

Be decisive
Achievers and non-achievers have one thing in common, they both have dreams. While achievers will wake up in the morning with zeal to achieve their goals, non-Achievers are the ones who hope that one day their dreams will work out even if they don’t. If you don’t work, nothing will happen in your life, you will remain stagnant, no shortcut to success. Regardless of how grand your dreams and ambitions are, if you don’t fold your sleeves and work.......

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