omusiliyu:
Mr. Ugo is a sharp igbo man. He eloped her to avoid paying huge amount for her dowry.

You budget like #1M to marry ordinary Igbo Lady

You budget like #2M to marry Igbo Lady with first degree.

You budget like #3.6M to marry Igbo Lady with second degree.

....and over #6M for Igbo Lady with PhD or Medical doctor.

....LOLZZZZ...dem no too much??

What is wrong with this guy wey dey para with everybody like this. See it is rubbish to marry a woman/lady even if she is 40yrs of age without her parent endorsement. Weda it is for a selfish reason or not, you must make sure they support u. D girl will soon come back and begged him.
There are beta ways of handling such things na. No one can take such nonsence. Who now rep the parent on d wedding day. Abi na by force, u think bcose u just have small moni u can be climbing everybody anyhow in d name of socialization. I'm a young guy and i can never do such rubbish.

omusiliyu:
Mr. Ugo is a sharp igbo man. He eloped her to avoid paying huge amount for her dowry.

You budget like #1M to marry ordinary Igbo Lady

You budget like #2M to marry Igbo Lady with first degree.

You budget like #3.6M to marry Igbo Lady with second degree.

....and over #6M for Igbo Lady with PhD or Medical doctor.

Anu mpama.

phenol33:
just pray it doesn't happen to u. and also pray the guy doesn't die in ur arms.

are you okay at all? Die in my arms meaning?


Who prays for such to happen to them? But if my parents for reasons I can't agree with, say I won't marry the man I love/want and decide to lock him up for marrying me, then I surely will not find it funny with them.

kenonze:
Mtcheeew.

The parents are jokers.
Some family are begging guys to collect without pay, they help u relieve u of heavy burden, you dey para

LOL U NO WELL OH

Marriage without the approval of the girls family is not real even the bible condemns it marriage if d guys family didn't approve it it doesn't mean anytin but d girls family approval is compulsory its even in the bible and let me tell u going to church to wed is not even in the bible dat one is just white mans culture the church don't have any say in issues concerning marriage,marriage begins d day d girls father accepts ur payment simple oda ones are just nonsense imported culture even d white wedding go to the bible its written dia white church wedding is not in d bible its a means of church economic exploitation because before u wed u will be required to pay a lot of dues so in my own sense d guy is wrong simple but d inlaw arresting him is not good because dia daughter is up to 18 years

meforyou1:
When quarrel comes, I will see who the hopeless girl will run to

u talk fact.na stupid pikin she b. If na me I will disown her. After giving her d best,showing her love n making sure she has a gud future by sending her to d university. She come disrespect me by marrying some1 without my blessing. Even her pentecostal pastor's prayer no go work for am after I place curse on her head. Useless pikin

kenonze:
Mtcheeew.

The parents are jokers.
Some family are begging guys to collect without pay, they help u relieve u of heavy burden, you dey para

Maybe your family is among those begging guys to collect without pay. pele

Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

You could not have gone to university. Even your high school cert must be examined. An Adult should be arrested for marrying another full grown adult?

Dang i hate the way some Nigerians fill me with shame at their reasoning!!

Why didn't the parents go for the court and lawyers that joined them together. Yeye de smell

The approach of those parents are out or order, our most primary objectives in whatever we do in this life is happiness, whence their daughter is happy, no need of them going the extra miles just to humiliate their son in law ,may God give us understanding in a situation like this.... Amen

kennybabs1980:
African man gidigan leleyi o

Na Today?

OlivetBen:

Don't justify what is wrong b4 it happens to u. Imagine ur own daughtr in someones house without ur consent.

what are you saying ...... its wrong for parents to choose for force their children to marry who they want ....... the two had agreed to be married ... its not that he kidnapped he lady and forced her to marry him..... if you don't like the person your child wants to marry , you can only advise and pray .....

confun:
D lady is an adult anyway, bt what she did isn't too cool, once a while, one will always need ones parents in marriage no matter what, won't she need her mum wen she starts nursing children or want, d blessings of parents are necessary before marriage. I think it would av been better if they had resolved all dir issues before marriage, Well all d best to her sha.

She has a mother inlaw. Those parents of hers are wicked and if not for blood ties, they should be sued for bribery, manipulation and illegal arrest. she is an adult and in the eyes of the law, they are legally married. Why did our police still get involved in this sort of things? Ugo should sue the Minister for Justice, Prosecutor General and PS Fed. Ministry of Justice, IG, AIG in the zone, Area Commander and DPO for breach of his fundamental human right and illegal arrest and detention.

kenonze:
Mtcheeew.

The parents are jokers.
Some family are begging guys to collect without pay, they help u relieve u of heavy burden, you dey para

Where is that some 'family' located? You marry with parental concern and receive the blessings instead of invoking a curse. Do you think its easy to nurture a child to a marriageable age?

missjahiniekpe:


Where is that some 'family' located? You marry with parental concern and receive the blessings instead of invoking a curse. Do you think its easy to nurture a child to a marriageable age?

Nigeria /Africa perspective...... NO

civilized and western world... .. Yes

omirb:


What is wrong with this guy wey dey para with everybody like this. See it is rubbish to marry a woman/lady even if she is 40yrs of age without her parent endorsement. Weda it is for a selfish reason or not, you must make sure they support u. D girl will soon come back and begged him.
There are beta ways of handling such things na. No one can take such nonsence. Who now rep the parent on d wedding day. Abi na by force, u think bcose u just have small moni u can be climbing everybody anyhow in d name of socialization. I'm a young guy and i can never do such rubbish.

Have you seen a situation whereby girl parent ask boy to bring his family, because of that they pick a date at the registry thinking everthing will go fine at the introduction. on the day he came with family, the lady parent vacated their home to avoid/embarrass the boy's parents. the date at registry waiting and they love themselves, what would they do?

They look so happy!!!!

Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

you be am the parents should choose for her at 28.you never wise bro.I married my wife here in US last yr non of her family was there.untill naija parents consider the happiness of their children when it comes to marriage.in fact naija we have a very long way to go.

luvbeloved:
The girl is already a woman naa...so the case doesn't hold any water. 28 year old na serious adult be that o! Unlike guys from 'you know where' who kidnap teens to covert/marry

true

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Ok nice

Awon Igbo ma fi eleyi se movie.........

Nigerian police are made up of certified fools.

So it takes the CP's order for them to do the right things. Police in Nigeria should be disband. Their rank and file keep on giving them bad images.

Having said that, I will also like to warn Nigerian youths. If the parents of a lady you want to marry didn't approve of the marriage, please be wise and leave the girl alone. Don't force yourself on any lady because of love.

If the lady dies in your hand, her family will make you go through hell before she's buried.
There are many fishes in the river.


Be wise.
Be Warned.
Don't fall a victim.

ichommy:
Must parents approved wedding? Am sounding crazy abi? In this current age. I dont think anyone can chose or appoint wife, who to marry for me.

If the lady love him no wahala.

Vice-President Atiku married his first wife TiTi without her parent consent at Idi-Iroko Border.

We need to view this Wonderful planet with another Optical view at times.

Titi is his second wife. I think his first wife is Ramat.

OlivetBen:

Don't justify what is wrong b4 it happens to u. Imagine ur own daughtr in someones house without ur consent.

they don't get it so don't bother . She will surely regret it .its like the medical students from that school are given a kinda of juju . Same happened to my sister n she was warned, cos my parents don't like this kind of public disgrace they let her go,now a whole doctor is working in a mall cos the man has refused to work or even take care of his own kids . My sister takes care of her kids n rush to work n come back n take care of the kids . We can only look on cos my father has vowed to let them be.

From Punchng:

Uche • 19 hours ago
I actually know this family personally. The mother of the girl in question went through the same ordeal with her own family 30 years ago before she married Dr. Ejike Orji, the girl's father. I am deeply disappointed that Lagos state police department was bribed by the girl's parents to conduct this act of atrocity, locked up a man for getting married to the love of his life and this insinuation about hypnotism and criminal investigation? I am ashamed of Dr. Ejike Orji and his wife, Dr. Ifenyinwa Orji, for instigating such shameless move on their oldest daughter and her husband. We must not all marry doctors! SHAME ON YOU LAGOS POLICE DEPARTMENT!

Ivegotsolutions:

So when the parents refuses the introduction rites and every effort for a peaceful get together, they should fold their hands and get old?

exerctly my point

Some parent just like frustrating their children life . For God sake Love is free from God and if a woman has choosen her man the best the parent can do is to investigate what kind of family the guy in question from and if pleased the next is to bless them. Nigerians with their yeye procedure . If no be religion e go be culture, or tribe.

Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

So you surpport being arrested illegally?

peacengine:
Why did he marry her against her parents wish? What if they decide to use spiritual means against him, it's too risky

He too can go spiritual against them too na!.