I've been living in my little apartment for about 8 months now quietly until a new tenant moved into the selfCon beside mine,She is a single mother and her daughter is about 3years. She has a boyfriend and I am a a serious relationship as well, so we know and respect our boundaries. But the issue we have not been able to trash is that of the daughter calling me daddy, even after several attempt to stop her. She has become so attached to me that she doesn't even want to be with her mum. The mother's boyfriend is always around and the funny thing is that she calls him brother,even though they are close. Even at night she will wake up and start calling daddy, she will even cry and disturb everyone except I come to carry her to my room. I'm not comfortable with the trend, I love kids but this is going rather too far. I feel she may develop natural fatherly love for me if something is not done ASAP. Please advise

Such a cutie

Are you sure you're not her father You both look alike

nothing is wrong there unless you're thinking another thing

Na so e dey take start o!

Pretty girl but OP.....hmmm. Anyway just be the adopted daddy..you hear?

You just have to find a way of not breaking the bond and at same time making her understand you are not her daddy.

Na so kids dey do...she now sees u as a father figure so accept d job

Daddy

U no see say una resemble?

Guy, stop complaining n be responsible

@op; It's neither your fault nor hers. The girl needs a 'father figure' in her life. This is one of the demerits of single-parenthood to the life of a child. Stopping her abruptly may affect her pschologically. You would have initially stopped it a long time earnestly. You need to get married, bear your own child/children so that she will vividly and clearly connote whose daddy you actually are. For now, continue to be buying biscuits.

blood is thicker than mud

i dont know if to laff or pity d OP. anyways OP u av been employed as a father, u wouldn't want to break d girl's heart..

Delphi:
@op; It's neither your fault nor hers. The girl needs a 'father figure' in her life. This is one of the demerits of single-parenthood to the life of a child. Stopping her abruptly may affect her pschologically. You would have initially stopped it a long time earnestly. You need to get married, bear your own child/children so that she will vividly and clearly connote whose daddy you actually are. For now, continue to be buying biscuits.

Lols but I think stopping it now is better so that she won't grow up thinking I'm her real dad.

Your wish should always be her command, irrespective.

okomogo:

Lols but I think stopping it now is better so that she won't grow up thinking I'm her real dad.

lord have mercy.

In the Baby's voice-
Daddy, oyo yo Daddy, oyo yo Daddy, oyo yo
Daddy, did you buy any biscuit for me


Na joke I dey ohh

Hmmmm. There's nothing wrong with that. Where I come from they say "the whole village trains a child".

poor kid. I pity her. She need a fatherly care when she got none

Naxo God dae use catch peeps like u na

I don't understand why you have to paste the picture of her here.

tensazangetsu:
I don't understand why you have to paste the picture of her here.

Exactly what I was gonna say. Op,I believe you can make your point without showing the picture of an innocent child. Something also tells me the mother might not appreciate that. I'm a mum and if someone puts up a picture of my daughter on a platform such as this,there'll be hell to pay,how much more with a thread like this. Pls remove.

op where is the child's father, and why did you folks not correct the child when she first started calling you her father?

I think d pix makes d thread more believable ......as for the op, do she is still a kid, with time she will knw just take her as ur daughter......

MizTyna:


Exactly what I was gonna say. Op,I believe you can make your point without showing the picture of an innocent child. Something also tells me the mother might not appreciate that. I'm a mum and if someone puts up a picture of my daughter on a platform such as this,there'll be hell to pay,how much more with a thread like this. Pls remove.

nice frnt u gat.

pbs4real:
nice frnt u gat.

pervert

This is one of d disadvantages of single parenting. Feel 4 d little girl. Op accept ur fate 4 now,wit time she will realise u ain't her real dad

Lol. Op I guess you're natural with kids hence her being comfortable around you. See the way she's all smiles. I guess you're the father she never had.

pretydiva:
pervert

MizTyna:


Exactly what I was gonna say. Op,I believe you can make your point without showing the picture of an innocent child. Something also tells me the mother might not appreciate that. I'm a mum and if someone puts up a picture of my daughter on a platform such as this,there'll be hell to pay,how much more with a thread like this. Pls remove.

Thanks I never tot in that direction.

pretydiva:
This is one of d disadvantages of single parenting. Feel 4 d little girl. Op accept ur fate 4 now,wit time she will realise u ain't her real dad

My fate keh, so if you as my crush visit me and discovers the situation, will you believe my explanation that I'm innocent?

Pennsylvania:
Lol. Op I guess you're natural with kids hence her being comfortable around you. See the way she's all smiles. I guess you're the father she never had.

Yeah you are on point, I like kids so much.