Hello nairalanders......... I am actually doing this for a friend...... Your contributions would be of great advantage.........


I recently found out my girlfriend, while drunk, asked a mutual male friend if she could visit and sleep with him. She also apparently lied to him and said she had my permission. He refused, since he didn’t want to screw me over. They sort of have a past, which is nothing more than flirting long distance and he admitted that he’s had a crush on her for a while. Thing is, both she and I are doing really well (or so it seems). She’s gone to great lengths to please me and she is always extremely affectionate when we talk. We’re about to take a pretty big step in the relationship and she is beyond excited. Should this be cause for concern? On one hand she was drunk, but many people believe the truth comes out when you’re in such a state. I feel like this should be a huge deal breaker. I still trust her, but not 100%.

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Dicey . But are you male or female?

I think the answer you are looking for is staring at you. draw up a pro-con list of ur relationship and you'll find ur answer

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Hello nairalanders......... I am actually doing this for a friend...... Your contributions would be of great advantage.........


I recently found out my girlfriend, while drunk, asked a mutual male friend if she could visit and sleep with him. She also apparently lied to him and said she had my permission. He refused, since he didn’t want to screw me over. They sort of have a past, which is nothing more than flirting long distance and he admitted that he’s had a crush on her for a while. Thing is, both she and I are doing really well (or so it seems). She’s gone to great lengths to please me and she is always extremely affectionate when we talk. We’re about to take a pretty big step in the relationship and she is beyond excited. Should this be cause for concern? On one hand she was drunk, but many people believe the truth comes out when you’re in such a state. I feel like this should be a huge deal breaker. I still trust her, but not 100%.

If the guy was your mutual friend and now you want to go up higher. Both of you certainly have pasts, that must have been considered before wanting to take major decisions. If his deeds with your girl friend or your girlfriends deed with him is a challenge then you don't need no advice just find someone else.