Cakephp:

You are right. The story is cooked.

He works 26hrs a month. That's less than 1hr a day.
What kind of organization is that?

a 28 year old is shooting at a 23 year old.
total gibberish.

And he's very sure both are virgins. Lol

LOL, I laugh at you, where I work, I am only meant to be there for supervision on Sundays, Wednesdays and Fridays weekly, with Sundays getting the most time, I will not blame you because of the situation you find yourself, it's about knowing your worth, improving yourself, praying and let God do the rest, they will find you and you will work on your terms because you are so good at it.

And hey, this is not the first older lady who has asked me out, this just happens to be the first i admire.

XhosaNostra:


The bolded actually says a lot about the kind of person you are. The 1st two are, in fact, very cringey. It makes one wonder why anyone would give you the time of day with that kind of mindset.

Is it now wrong to have specs?

tetula123:
Most stories on nairaland looks cooked up

Sorry to disappoint you sir, I am not even a good story writer, talk more of coming up with this kind of story, I am talking about my life here, my story, I am a human, just like you.

frozen70:


A food you will not eat don't taste it

If you know that the age difference which is the issue here is nothing to you, pls leave that your colleague alone before she becomes pregnant for you

Just respect yourself by thinking of how the other lady in school will cope over your disappointment in her

You can't be keeping a virgin girlfriend and decides to break another virgin and still go back to your virgin girl

If you have not slept with her pls sit her down and let her know that you love her but marriage is not going to work out between both of you

It's difficult to say but it's the best at this moment

I have not had sex with any of them, and I don't intend to till I marry.

I don't know how to get her to understand me without hurting her, I've tried to say it countless times that I have to put so much in place before marriage and she is saying she won't be a dumb wife and we will contribute to the upkeep of the family and children can come later, bla bla bla

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Thanks sir, I also feel the same too.

namiji2598:
A virgin girl in the university? Should we tell him?
Well my guy's babe got admission some years back, few months after the admission he has started bragging that her love did nt change bla bla bla but two years later in the university hmmmmm my brother e don cut


Campus life starts after 200l bros

U see 300L-400L hmmmmm
U can choose between an upcoming LovePeddler or an evening news paper now, the choice is yours

Well, there are exceptions, this lady even went for her masters after serving and still did not compromise, so why can't my girlfriend do it?

Lalasticlala please help, I need more suggestions

Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.