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One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:31pm On Mar 20, 2016

This section has witnessed the creation of funny and annoying threads today, starting with Vinshu's pathetic opinion to Tosyn2much's perfect counter thread to Jadekitana's unnecessary support, and I am about to add my own. A very annoying one.

If there's anything I hate about our women today, it is the time some of them the waste in studying men and learning what men should/shouldn't do to/for his woman and how a man should treat his woman.

The way they keep making endless rules for men.

They know virtually everything about real men and how they treat women but have little or no knowledge of what real women should do and how they should treat their husbands.

What men should is our business not yours; we know it and we are working on it so work on becoming the woman that is worthy of a real man.

We already know that a man should be financially stable and responsible(aka stingy) before talking about marriage, I personal created a thread here and cited some reasons broke guys should not date, so you see? We know all that already.

Now here's what necessitated this thread. I read Vinshu's post and the comments there and discovered that women(many of them) are likely to marry a man for his today instead of his tomorrow, which is very bad.

What I mean is that they're more likely to marry an already made man than the one that is being made. Which is risky.

I know some women who married super rich husbands but they're very poor today, I also know some women who married hustling guys and today they're living comfortably.

Ask around and you will find out that most couple who enjoyed/still enjoy their marriage are the ones that married their partner's tomorrow after seeing their fighting-spirit, hope, inner-strength and never give up attitude.

These things are worth more than a car and a house and you can agree with me that success is always right around the corner when you have a 'Never Give Up' attitude.

So what am I saying essence? It is wrong to say that a man must build a house and own a car before he can marry you because the car can be stolen at the eve of your wedding and your first cooking in his house might set the building ablaze and you will have no other option than to divorce him because what attracted you to him is no longer there

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Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Creamish(f): 8:37pm On Mar 20, 2016

Bia nwokem! So u had to join them today? grin

The sensible, reasonable women who know n understand Wat u have said r out there... Don't wait for mass support on this cos so many would rather experience it for themselves than learn..

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Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by falconey(m): 8:39pm On Mar 20, 2016

Who borrow my guy weed?

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Nobody: 8:43pm On Mar 20, 2016

Ah but OP be honest. Is it not men of these days who are suddenly womenologists and know more about women than women themselves.

Lbr, if ladies don't like how you behave they usually leave you alone. But if a man doesn't like how a lady behaves you go fear o, he'll be instructing her as if he's her "daddy" .

If they want a man with a car, leave them let them have it grin

Some guys want a girl with the butt of two Kim Kardashian's put together. Is it your life? grin

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:44pm On Mar 20, 2016

Creamish:
Bia nwokem! So u had to join them today?

The sensible, reasonable women who know n understand Wat u have said r out there... Don't wait for mass support on this cos so many would rather experience it for themselves than learn..

I really dunno what came over the girl and the mod that pushed it to front page.

Wait oo, ịmara asụ igbo ofuma?

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Creamish(f): 8:47pm On Mar 20, 2016

Tallesty1:
I really dunno what came over the girl and the mod that pushed it to front page.

Wait oo, ịmara asụ igbo ofuma?

..nope..

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:48pm On Mar 20, 2016

MrsPhyno:
Ah but OP be honest. Is it not men of these days who are suddenly womenologists and know more about women than women themselves.

Men? As in responsible adults?

MrsPhyno:
Lbr, if ladies don't like how you behave they usually leave you alone. But if a man doesn't like how a lady behaves you go fear o, he'll be instructing her as if he's her "daddy".

he wants you to be good for daddy tongue

MrsPhyno:
If they want a man with a car, leave them let them have it Some guys want a girl with the butt of two Kim Kardashian's put together. Is it your life?

Nah this thing nah. If the nyash do mistake fall off he will terminal the marriage.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Nobody: 8:50pm On Mar 20, 2016

Yhu know the funny thing about tis life is...Some men can't attain their full potential until they meet tat special woman wink

... Tis world is a mystery ...what works 4 yhu might not work the next man

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:51pm On Mar 20, 2016

falconey:

Who borrow my guy weed?

No be weed bro. I go use genetically modified fish cook rice.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:52pm On Mar 20, 2016

Creamish:

..nope..

How you take knw wetin I ask?

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Mar 20, 2016

Tallesty1:
Men? As in responsible adults?

he wants you to be good for daddy

Nah this thing nah. If the nyash do mistake fall off he will terminal the marriage.

Yeah men. Well. I don't know about the responsible part sha.

Not that kind of daddy abeg grin

If it falls off he can keep it by his bed and look at it every night as he falls to sleep.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 20, 2016

This deserves to go into ma antiques grin

... Operation successful ! *grins*

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:55pm On Mar 20, 2016

slyIsaac:

Yhu know the funny thing about tis life is...Some men can't attain their full potential until they meet tat special woman ... Tis world is a mystery ...what works 4 yhu might not work the next man

lols. That's why village people dey advice guys wey don try dia best but their best is not enough to goan marry.

It works perfectly for some people.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by virginboy1(m): 8:59pm On Mar 20, 2016

Bros Nice one.

My prayer is for God not to ever lead me unto the path of such parasitic women. "I no wan die young"

She wants a man with big house and cars. I doubt if she can even pound ordinary yam or still make eba.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:59pm On Mar 20, 2016

MrsPhyno:

Yeah men. Well. I don't know about the responsible part sha.

Not that kind of daddy abeg

If it falls off he can keep it by his bed and look at it every night as he falls to sleep.

e no go smell?

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by KingRex1(m): 9:05pm On Mar 20, 2016

OP u right on the women's part.. Cus my 16yr old cousin already has a checklist for the kinda man she gon marry or date.

Truth is that they study men alot nd want men to study them too.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Mar 20, 2016

Tallesty1:
e no go smell?

Babies sef smell and yet u love them. True or true

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 9:19pm On Mar 20, 2016

MrsPhyno:

Babies sef smell and yet u love them. True or true

Which kain option be this?

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Asable(f): 9:30pm On Mar 20, 2016

Tallesty1 my............ wink

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 9:36pm On Mar 20, 2016

Asable:
Tallesty1 my............

Finish am nah embarassed

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by AfricanApple(f): 10:39pm On Mar 20, 2016

if you are to sit there and wait for a rich guy with a car and a house, and bastard paying job, he will eventually come but maybe with and ugly face, I'll mannerism or even with a limp

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by MizMyColi(f): 7:45am On Mar 21, 2016

My dear.
I saw that thread, and much as I wanted to refute those claims.
I didn't have the zeal to.

The reason's obvious.

Wealth, and riches are ephemeral.

Vinshu's assertion was fundamentally flawed
in my opinion, but what do I know...
I'm no economist or accountant (wait, I'm actually an economist o...just not practicing, I switched careers).

Give me a man with the kindest, selfless, thoughtful and enterprising heart, and I'm okay.
His money at that moment is an added bonus.

I have always had this inherent belief that no man I decide to build more of my life with can remain poor.

I'm not poor. As I am now, I can afford to take care of myself, totally...and maybe help one more person.‎

Insofar as he is able to feed, can afford life's basics, shows great promise and more importantly....LOVES ME AS I DO HIM unreservedly, we're a go.
‎

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Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 8:04am On Mar 21, 2016

virginboy1:
Bros Nice one.

My prayer is for God not to ever lead me unto the path of such parasitic women. "I no wan die young"

She wants a man with big house and cars. I doubt if she can even pound ordinary yam or still make eba.

Well, she can get 4 house helps y'know.

One that cooks, one that cleans the house, one that washes her clothes and one that follows her around.

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Asable(f): 4:33pm On Mar 21, 2016

Tallesty1:
Finish am nah

you know nah tongue

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 4:35pm On Mar 21, 2016

Asable:
you know nah

Walahi I don't know embarassed

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Asable(f): 5:30pm On Mar 21, 2016

Tallesty1:
Walahi I don't know

Re: One Huge Mistake We Make That Lead To Divorce Mos Times. by Tallesty1(m): 5:50pm On Mar 21, 2016

Asable:
my crush. Oh am so shy

We are shy embarassed

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