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Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by mamba808(m): 8:22pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Are you running out of sexy and naughty ideas to keep things exciting in bed? Use these 10 ideas to get your woman in the mood, for now and forever! Guys, let’s be honest here for a second. In the majority of your relationships, you and your girl want sex just as much in the beginning, but as time goes on, you start to see a pattern. And that pattern is you asking more and more for sex, while your once sex-crazed girlfriend turning you down more often. It wouldn’t be bad if it stopped there, but all of a sudden, your woman probably doesn’t even attempt to initiate sex anymore! On one hand, you’re worried she may turn you down for sex when you initiate it, and on the other, even when she allows you to get on top of her, she just seems too disinterested in the whole thing. Are you doing something wrong? Now it’s not always a guy’s fault when his wife or girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex anymore. But when this situation arises in your relationship and has been this way for a while, it’s definitely your fault for letting it stay that way! I’m not pointing fingers here, but really, is it that hard to help your own lover see the good side of passion and romance? Don’t you think it’s worth the effort? Getting your woman in the mood isn’t a one- night thing Now, don’t be selfish. You want to have sex, and you want your woman to be ready for it. If that’s the thought that runs in your mind, you’re just a miserable excuse of a man! You can’t just expect your wife or girlfriend to get turned on like a light bulb at your whims and fancies. Passion takes time to build, just like a slow burner that takes time to warm the pot but stays warm for a long time. But passion that’s prolonged and intense? Well, that’s a different ball game! 10 things you can do to get your woman in the mood If you believe your woman’s completely uninterested in sex for a while now, it’s up to the both of you to bring the sizzle back into love. And if your woman’s not really taking the initiative, here are 10 things you could do to rekindle the passion and bring her back into the mood, tonight and for a long time to come! #1. Create a sex bedroom. Surprise your better half with candles in the bedroom and rose petals in bed. Perhaps, even run her a hot tub bath and bring her a glass of wine to relax with. Yes, this may be over the top for some men to even attempt, but take a leap of faith with us here, and we are positive you won’t regret it! #2. Spice up the conversation. Simply stating to your significant other that you are “ready for sex” may have worked when you first met, but it is highly unlikely to still yield the same results at this point in your relationship. Spice up your conversations with teases and flirty talk, ease in ideas and thoughts, make her feel sexy and then arouse her with your words. #3. Sexy outfits. Now sexual role playing is not for every couple and that is not what we are suggesting here. If it ends up going in that direction, then great, but you have to make your woman feel sexy. Let her know and see that you still find her attractive and extremely sexually appealing, and getting her a sexy or revealing piece of underwear is a great way to remind her just how beautiful she is. It’s a present for her, but then again, this is really a present for you! #4. Seduce your woman. As your relationship ages, you do not want sex to become a chore, nor would you want to stick with the same positions every time, especially if it’s boring. If you find yourself in this rut, change it up a bit and make the experience all about your woman. By doing so, you are adding a new spark back into your sex life, one we can almost guarantee she will repay happily. #5. The manners of a gentleman. Realize that no matter what you do, sometimes the answer will just be no. Keep your cool, remain a gentleman and don’t pester your woman. This will not go unnoticed by your human counterpart, we can assure you of that. #6. Share your feelings. Women can’t read our minds *as much as we sometimes think they can*. Open up, share your feelings, let your girl know what’s on your mind. This will only create a closer bond between the two of you, not widen any gap that may be forming. #7. Sensual touches. A masterful way to begin pre-intimacy, without focusing on sex but on emotional connection, is by giving her a sensual massage. Lay her down on the bed and make sure to use oil or lotion so she has to remove her clothes. What starts off as a nice gesture ends up a happy ending for everyone involved! #8. Romantic dinners. You girlfriend or wife just had a long day at work, perhaps, she’s been on the go since 6 a.m. and just needs a break. Nothing like surprising the woman you love with a home cooked meal and a glass of wine to help unwind. Not only will she appreciate your gesture, but she’ll also feel closer and more intimately connected to you. #9. Buy an occasional gift for your woman. Guys, remember this one, a gift with actual meaning and significance will beat out an extravagant gift every single day of the week. Have this gift actually mean something to her, and it will bring you two closer than ever, both in love and in the bedroom. #10. Showers. Sometimes, you’ve got to jump start the sex, and taking a shower together before getting into bed is at the top of many lists. Seeing each other’s naked bodies, and having body parts brush up against each other in the shower, usually leads to more than just a good night’s sleep. Am sure many of my guys here don't do all these moves... Since all we want is a quickly do and gbam!!! Am done with her.... Give these moves a trial and you'll be happy forever.... "Quote me anytime". |
Re: Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by Nobody: 8:26pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
B4 she enter the mood sef, ur brain don exhaust finish na |
Re: Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by cruzita(f): 8:29pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
wow!!I'm aroused sorry impressed |
Re: Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by KingRex1(m): 8:40pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
OP i no see anythin eye catchin here. Ok mayb no10.. Bt we all knw these na. |
Re: Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by kossyablaze(m): 8:41pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
cruzita:lol see this boi hiding behind female moniker |
Re: Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by KingRex1(m): 8:41pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
cruzita:U berra no try anythin funny.. |
Re: Ten (10) Moves To Get Her In The Mood. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
We're talking about money, your talking nonsense. Rubbish |
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