Hey Nairalanders,I can't seem to stop imagining why a MAN would suddenly luze interest in a girl or wife hez dating or prolly married to and claims to luv b4 wooing her, Y is it that,as tymz rolls by,guys wil just luze interest in these gals, wots rngI mean,dz shouldn't be as designed by God nd based on d initial luv,what can be d cause?Nairalanders abegi make una contribute

Change happens

i never lost interest in my baby ever since i've been dating her, so

basically i feel its the playas that lose interest, after sleeping with the girl nd they need fresh meat to kill.

@y'all,tnx 4 d comments tho I stil ponder on dz words to b actually sure bout what u guyz r professing cos 2 me o,its strange o considering d current state of d country's pervertness

@topup,what i meant is 'y does luv fades with time'especially wt sum1 u claim to av luvd 4rm d onset'

Loves never fades. Feelings maybe.

maybe because your typing sux?

Sometimes I really don't blame the men. . .yes most of these men might be douche bags. . .but you can't also ignore the fact that sometimes the ladies involved might also have a part in the blame game!

cos he discovered that she has had 5 abortions b4 he married her

real love doesnt fade it grows, so maybe u should differentiate infatuation, lust and like from love then u might just know why.

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@poster
men dont suddenly loose interest, the ones who do were not interested in the women and were only there for sexual gratification.when the "target" has been acquired then the interest is no longer there. they might keep the girl as a side toto but thats is all its good for.

as for the men in relationships then its a simple matter of being bored with the same routine and therefore needing some sparks that will bring them back to life. some women will do some CRAZY SHIT to get with you and then when thats done then sit back and expect the situation to just be there for ever. like everything else relationships have to be "watered like a plant", you gotta bring exciting, new things to make it fun and enjoyable to be with that person. if not then one day or another, you are bound to know that person like a book and therefore be bored around her. thats why so many men fall easily to cheating. its not that its better, its just different and exciting.

if a person wants to have a long lasting relationship then they have to work HARD at it, not just be nice to each other but make it fun for each other that you want to keep on being with that person and discovering her. the first 6month/year is the easy part (more or less) then from that point the real work begins.
look at most marriages today, before marriage, they go on dates, have fun together, sex is the BOMB, you laugh, joke and have fun together then marriage set in and the dates don dry out, the fun is almost never there, the sex is a pain, and both dont even want to make an effort to seduce the other any longer(since they are married)

its the law of life and thats why many fail miserably or stick together but get their fun somewhere else.
mistress/lovers are there for the sex part but a lot has to do with being with someone different, someone that you discovering, like a new challenge.
the catch is for people in relationships to make themselves the new exciting challenge for the their spouse.

in the bedroom, you might know how to make your woman cum or know what your man likes but if you do the same shit for 2 yrs straight then you better get some new moves because that person will be tired of what you do. you got to upgrade from bf/gf 1.0 to 2.0 then 3.0 etc  and all through your life!!!

Hmmmm! 9ce comments, kp em coming pls

Sometimes u realize she isnt what u thought. Especially as lot of ladies pretend, by the time their real nature shows, the guy would get fed up.

My bad wrong message sent here he he lol

Pesin go die 4 egusi soup? @least change of diet helps d system.