http://penastory.com/2016/03/25/in-house-response-to-he-cheats-on-me-but-doesnt-want-me-to-leave-him/

Yesterday we published a relationship dilemma of a reader who has been dating a guy for three years and found out he’s cheating on her with another girl from their church. If you missed that, you can read it by visiting profile or checking PenAStory (www.penastory.com). Here is our own in house response to the issue.

Male Perspective: Normally when person cheats on you, you leave him or her because there is every tendency that they are going to do it again but there are some people worth fighting for.

It’s up to you to first weigh their bad against their good and determine if they are worth fighting for. When you come across such people that are worth fighting for and you are certain that they are truly sorry for hurting you, you do not let someone else ruin your relationship.

Don’t expect things to be the same should you get back with him but cause after a cheating episode, things are usually never the same again. There will be changes which can either be good or bad depending on how you both handle the situation. You might have trust issues but as earlier said, if you don’t find yourself being able to trust them again due to their actions, it’s best to walk away. His actions not words will show if he is genuinely sorry and willing to make it work between the both of you.

Female Perspective: If he is having a second thought about you having cheated on you, it will be in your best interest to leave before he drops the bomb on you. You don’t want to be a second fiddle. Protect your heart.
Thank you all those that commented and left responses to help a fellow reader in her dilemma.

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Hmmm....... then you have to fortify against the soon coming heartbreak.

Check out my signature & thank me later.

this evil man is emotionally/physically controlling this woman, she is in sexual/emotional/physical bondage and thus he can do whatever he pleases and she will accept it.

I think he loves her but can't just stop playing around.

chriskosherbal:
I think he loves her but can't just stop playing around.

sadly this man doesnt have a clue what love is... there certainly aint NO love here.

Ok
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iq_pkXsMv8&sns=tw

MRBrownJ:


sadly this man doesnt have a clue what love is... there certainly aint NO love here.

I agree 100%