falconey:


I am not a FATHER.

McCarlito:
Where is the person she cheated together with

We just have to discuss

missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

PureWays:
What if there isn't any kid between them yet, do you still think he should forgive her?

Chanchit:
I do not have a problem with a cheating wife as long as I do not know. But for me not to know, she must have worked with the CIA before.


On a second thought there is one reason, if I travel out of the country for a long period of time.

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his wife as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

PureWays:
What if you travel for let's say a year and half? Consider the fact that you ain't no saint either.

AccidentalGenius:



if I'm a married man, I definitely wouldn't cheat. If I do travel for that long, I expect her to be the responsible wife I think she is and not ruin the marriage for something as silly as sex


It's a foolish thing to do

PureWays:
Anyway, that's how you think it should be but unfortunately, it's not..
For most men, there have to be a damn good reason for a wife to cheat.

PureWays:
Anyway, that's how you think it should be but unfortunately, it's not..
For most men, there have to be a damn good reason for a wife to cheat.

missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.

SerialDigits:
if she can allow me to get down with any of her friends ...Equation balanced

AccidentalGenius:



if I'm a married man, I definitely wouldn't cheat. If I do travel for that long, I expect her to be the responsible wife I think she is and not ruin the marriage for something as silly as sex


It's a foolish thing to do

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

PapiDShipCapt:

My sister, forgiveness in this scenario is dead and gone

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

missbronze:
OK sir. but, don't forget situation can make people do drastic things.

Btw, Your profile pic, melted my heart. she is so cute.

Your daughter?

PapiDShipCapt:

oh not again! baby in my profile pic is a HE
Thanks for d compliments, and you in your profile pic, dazzling!

missbronze:
Lol. forgive me.

Thanks.

He will be my future son inlaw then.