When a girl is impatient with her boyfriend, she ends up not been around when the guy eventually becomes successful. Its only a guy that is lazy or without potentials that wont later become comfortable in life...so, when a girl is with a struggling guy, she shouldn't lose hope if the guy is hardworking and making serious efforts to become successful. Cos sooner or later, he'd surely make it. Its only when the girl is impatient, she ends up not waiting enough to eat the fruit of her labor. Cos, by the time the guy becomes successful, she is already gone, in search of greener pastures elewhere (which is common with most naija girls)...girls, be patient. Everybody started from somewhere.

Niaja girls will always want ready made husbands, they don't want to suffer. Can a farmer harvest where he didn't sow?