Stats: 3,187,904 members, 7,933,331 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 August 2024 at 02:18 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? (65739 Views)
"My Husband Employed Imam To Have Sex With Me For 3 Days" – Wife / Am I Wrong Fighting My Husband's Younger Brother's Side Chick? / Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (14) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by RiloKiley: 7:29am On Apr 01, 2016 |
cionon:You don't need to answer everybody. The issue with putting your problems on a faceless and free forum is that everyone gets to advice you. Responsible and irresponsible people, businessmen, doctors, truckpushers, jokers, immoral people, children, single moms, divorcees, drunkards. Your duty is to sieve the chaff from the seed and take the good advice. My take. The man doesn't love you. He never did. You probably knew this and only stayed with him out of desperation or maybe financial /status reasons. You say you have already left the house. That's too bad. But I think you should move on. Stop thinking its because you opened up to him. From your story it's obvious he would have found any reason to leave you. Telling him about what your friend said about herbs is not enough for him to want to throw you out. He's just using it as an excuse. I think you are in the denial phase of this situation. You don't want to believe this has finally happened to you. I think you should start by facing the reality that he has left you for the woman he really loves even before you were married. It's good you said you have a job, immerse yourself in the job. Derive your joy from doing your job better and improving your personal life. Pray for him if you want bit more importantly pray more e for yourself and believe God that all things will work out for good. Stay positive like some people have said here. If he is really the one for you he will realise his errors and come back/call you back. If not then for goodness sake move on and know you will find a better person. Cheers. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by WhoBeThisMan: 7:32am On Apr 01, 2016 |
TheArchangel:you people need to be very careful the way you advise someone to leave her marriage. All the information you have right now is one sided. I can guaranty yoo that this is not even half the story. Yet you say he should wallow in his mess. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Fourwinds: 7:33am On Apr 01, 2016 |
enoqueen:terrible advice 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Nobody: 7:34am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Ndeewonu: I never used juju to hold my husband. I am a believing christain. Well yes my mouth I know brought me woes. I m going to make amends. But certainly not my company. I didn't even make friend with my own neigbhours until September of last year. I don't keep friends. I only had 5 friend in in attendance on my wedding day. Never told anyone about my marital isdue wat i was only concerened was how to conceive. Which I was a very serious member on the ttc thread hear on nairaland |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by TheArchangel(f): 7:38am On Apr 01, 2016 |
WhoBeThisMan:He is cheating bro, so definitely it is his mess or should she wallow too by soiling herself with reprisal cheating.? Or clap for him? It is his mess when he engaged himself into adultery, a calculated decision to cheat on her. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Nobody: 7:39am On Apr 01, 2016 |
WhoBeThisMan:Even if my husband comes here. It's what i said he will say. I m saying the truth so I can get help or solution. My husband is an ardent reader on nairaland. I am not editing the story to suit me or make me feel like a saint. I wasn't a saint. Had my own issues to deal with and probably my mouth. But I didn't cheat or carry men about. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by cyril700(m): 7:40am On Apr 01, 2016 |
enoqueen:u are a witch, quote me anywhere 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by naijaboiy: 7:42am On Apr 01, 2016 |
bankybobo11:Happy new month to you too. ![]() |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by gabbytabby: 7:44am On Apr 01, 2016 |
It looks like you have a tendency to try to buy, beg forlove, marriage and it gives the person you are with power to maltreat you. You really need to learn to love yourself. Should he know that you love him and do not want divorce absolutely. Should you be beggging him to stay despite being a cheat absolutelyNOT. Grow some back bone. Find a mother or mother figure that you can get sdvice from. Your mental health is important and it is not always healthy to keep it all in. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by bankybobo11: 7:46am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Eshey sir, I wish you the same too |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by enoqueen: 7:48am On Apr 01, 2016 |
cyril700: And I just checed u out. Is that really u on ur dp ![]() U are a wizard. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by enoqueen: 7:49am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Fourwinds: Thanks. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Charly68: 7:50am On Apr 01, 2016 |
I empathise with you my Sister,but the truth be told what do you do when you discover that the man you loved does not love you ? What do you do when the man you are dying for does not care if you die ? What do you do when you know that the one you love suddenly hates you like feaces ? This man I say is destined to suffer for his greed & avarice so let him go & suffer alone..You made a mistake in the first place by marrying to the man,your mistake is not because you told him the truth..He is a baby than can not handle the truths of life. So you married a baby Husband hence the pain of immaturity started manifesting. You are right & he is wrong & God can never take side with the wrong..So let him have his way so that you can enter your own future...You are complete in God & not in marriage ..many marriages are like yokes to people today. Look unto God & seek his face for help..nothing to regret when you speaks the truth . John 8:32 & 36 . I give the man one year after he remarries he will be back to zero level. If he can't keep a descent girl like you,what is assurance that he can succeed with an online girl. That is fake relationship already .watch & see how God will vindicate you by giving you divine compensation. You are favoured 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by onunwa21(m): 7:51am On Apr 01, 2016 |
jmichlins: This thing you just wrote, do u think is easy. Can u advice ur sis that way... |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by MrSly(m): 7:51am On Apr 01, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:parents who cannot train their children as a married couple cannot train them as a single parent. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by bankybobo11: 7:52am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Charly68: 7:53am On Apr 01, 2016 |
I empathise with you my Sister,but the truth be told what do you do when you discover that the man you loved does not love you ? What do you do when the man you are dying for does not care if you die ? What do you do when you know that the one you love suddenly hates you like feaces ? This man I say is destined to suffer for his greed & avarice so let him go & suffer alone..You made a mistake in the first place by marrying to the man,your mistake is not because you told him the truth..He is a baby than can not handle the truths of life. So you married a baby Husband hence the pain of immaturity started manifesting. You are right & he is wrong & God can never take side with the wrong..So let him have his way so that you can enter your own future...You are complete in God & not in marriage ..many marriages are like yokes to people today. Look unto God & seek his face for help..nothing to regret when you speaks the truth . John 8:32 & 36 . I give the man one year after he remarries he will be back to zero level. If he couldnt keep a descent girl like you,what is the assurance that he can succeed with an online girl. That is fake relationship already .watch & see how God will vindicate you by giving you divine compensation. You are favoured ! |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by goldman777: 7:53am On Apr 01, 2016 |
cionon: |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by rosalieene(f): 7:53am On Apr 01, 2016 |
cionon:Shey they sign divorce papers. don't sign it. stop begging him.... Go very far away from him en confide in your parents. This might sound foolish to you but it clicked to my mind |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Glorious1985: 7:55am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Dog wey go lost wil nt hear d whistle of d hunter. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by WhoBeThisMan: 7:58am On Apr 01, 2016 |
TheArchangel:in every marital issue, there is "her story", "his story" and "the truth". I dont believe the marriage just suddenly collapsed to this point with just a few paragraph of explanation. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by 2HASUM(m): 8:01am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Go and marry her then, anumpama jmichlins: |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by jmichlins(m): 8:01am On Apr 01, 2016 |
onunwa21: Ndeewonu: onunwa21:if the husband of your sister should leave her for another woman and still threaten her life will you allow her to stay or take her out of his home. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by jmichlins(m): 8:03am On Apr 01, 2016 |
2HASUM:i do not wish to go the cursing lane with you. Happy new month and april fools day |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by josite: 8:07am On Apr 01, 2016 |
cionon: stop regretting,work on your inner contents.as a man speaketh so he is.if you are not into the diabolic realm,where will the thought of magun comes from.and since that was what inside u,u spilled it out.your husband is not too far from thinking he has to be careful with you.just accept the divorce and go and do beta in your next relationship.some men including me cannot stand any lady with the least affiliation to the diabolic realm.guess your hubby is like me.NO GOING BACK. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Nobody: 8:17am On Apr 01, 2016 |
josite: Ok i think it will suffice to say my husband Is a murderer because he said he will kill me and send the remains to my parents. It's not always so. I was only trying to tell him no matter how bad 8 am treated. I can't do it. Tnx for ur advice anyways |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by vicque(f): 8:27am On Apr 01, 2016 |
have you ever reasoned that you do not belong in that marriage?you are quite unhappy and always the one pleading and begging this man called your husband.babe you need to love your self...cos this man surely is over u..he has a mistress and you are smiling and joking about it? |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Nobody: 8:34am On Apr 01, 2016 |
bankybobo11: Tanx luv... ![]() |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by girlfriendsnatc: 8:35am On Apr 01, 2016 |
cionon: You must truly be diabolic because something poked me in the eye while I was reading this — looks like it was your bullshit! So that man better hurry and get a divorce before you kill him with your bullshit. What kind of woman subtly threatens her husband with magun? Obviously, a psychotic over-jealous b!tch that can actually do it, and secretly be ecstatic at his funeral. NB: Dear Nigerian men, The number of Landlady's in Nigeria is exponentially rising. The question is what is killing all the husbands; or better yet "WHO" is killing them - murder or natural death? As far as we know Death is not a feminist. Y'all men should wise up before you go 6ft under. It usually starts with "I was only joking" when a woman wants to harm you. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by bankybobo11: 8:37am On Apr 01, 2016 |
SANDOSKI: You're welcome |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Nobody: 8:38am On Apr 01, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:God bless you for this comment! It is good to know that some people are very open minded. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by Princealex1(m): 8:38am On Apr 01, 2016 |
enoqueen:two wrongs dont make right |
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (14) (Reply)
How Do I Forgive Him? / Bayelsa Man Shows His Two Wives On Facebook (Photos) / A Man Caught A Baby Thrown Out Of A Burning House In Arizona, US
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 78 |