Am in love with a guy who is married 8 month ago.The secret was reviewed to me by his friend.but the guy keep on telling me that hes in love with me that the marriage he did 8 months ago was an arrage wedding by his parent.he said he decided to marry the lady cos its would be a disgrace to his family if he refused to marry her.pls am in love with him and he want to marry me.his wife is not here in nigeria,what can i do

Why can't u control urself.wt if he breaks ur heart?don' t u know u are going to a polygamous house.u should think of ur happiness

Why can't u control urself.wt if he breaks ur heart?don' t u know u are going to a polygamous house.u should think of ur happiness

Girl,are u a kid.what the hell are u saying that he loves u.do u know what LOVE is.it does not compromise not even with Ur parents.that guy does not love u.u have to open Ur eyes.we Nigerians i don't think u know what love is we think love is like?girl u are mistaken that guy is good for nothing he is saving his own ass at Ur own risk and u are saying u love him.if he loves u truly the u come first.that guy does not love u.i know some guys will not like this but am real.i don't take side just becos am a guy.i say things the way they are and like to be truthful as often as i can.don't wait for that guy.move on with Ur life.God will give u Ur own Isaac.OK.he will dry Ur tears.

Why is it that some girls use their own hands to destory themselves.
the guy is married can't you see? why not go and look for a guy who would love you and take good care of you. why do you prefer to stick with him?
what makes you think he won't use you and dump.
don't you know that for him dating you, he's cheating on his wife.
how would you feel if it were you?

look, if you want to make something meaningful out of your life, just look for someone else. forget about that guy.

hhhmmm dreams just don't do what you would regret later.

gurl, let him go, arranged marriage indeed
he's damn well playin u

Babygirl, let no man deceive you. marraige isnt totally sweet for 2 pple not to talk of three.
i bet you, when u get married to him, you aint going to even remember the word love not to talk of how it feels.
I know of a story of love to a married ma. the guy has seen another babe after marrying her as second wife for lest than six months.
she cries everyday now. i bet she cant even remember the good old days. Guys will deceive you to get what they want.
pls, dont fall victim.

it's not easy to let go when you really love somebody but i feel you need to move on with your own life. As far as am concerned, he had a choice to make and he didn't choose you. there is someone else out there for you so just be patient.

hes married.leave him.
there are other better single men out there pls.

in love? nah i dont think so, ,

you aint f**kin thinkin

E yaaa, what doeshe give you that u cannot get elsewhere. He is just interested in your honeywell babe.

When his wife comes home, you will consigned to the dust bin. The joy of marriage is that you are to access ur husband at any time.

There is gonna be timetable for both of una ohh
Do not say I did not tell you.

iice:

Go-slow happening upstairs. Anyways, how is he going to marry you when he is already married? Even if he divorces his wife for you, isnt that still going to disgrace his family? and in the end defeat the purpose of him even marrying in the first place? I expire

damn rite, infact its a seious traffic jam!

i think this guy has f@*kd u so much , u can hardly think straight. he's not the one for u and neva will be. he has made his choice so u make urs.

faketan:

E yaaa, what doeshe give you that u cannot get elsewhere. He is just interested in your honeywell babe.

When his wife comes home, you will consigned to the dust bin. The joy of marriage is that you are to access your husband at any time.

There is going to be timetable for both of una ohh
Do not say I did not tell you.

word!

opoks happpi new year.

Thanks.

Happy New year too.

I missed our thread

dont worry,i wud find it and we wud start from ebe e medebelu.

@ poster this man istelling you the oldest lie in the world.
what do you think he will tell you.?
"i love my wife but i want to **** you?"

get your shear and get away, his wife is un the way.

Are u crazy? Married or not,he belongs 2 someone else. how sure are u dat he won't fall in love with someone else? be careful girl,

who is playing the  FOOL here  ? be wise  , he has married the woman he loves . their 's always a man to every woman that ve eyes . open your own eyes !

@ poster

babe get a life!! ARE ALL THE MEN DEAD do you realise how pathetic you sound whinging about that.

@post
the fact that he's even married is more than enough reason to leave the man alone

baby girl, he is playing you, he made his choice, he aint going to leave his wife for you. he told you that cock and bull story about arranged marriage just so he can string you along, WAKE UP GIRL, you wont take the place of wifey. Get a man that you can have 100% of the time, not this part time fool here.

Girl u re too good to fall for that.
Men are real good at telling u stuff - dont believe it.

What does he mean by saying he will be disgraced - damn him i say.
Damn every man that tries to take advantage of them. DAMN THEM.

Girl, if he is so not attracted to her - then ask him if he is sleeping with her?
And why she is pregnant?

Please dont fall for this, he is a liar and he shouldnt take advantage of u. Girl, cut off all communications to him, dont let him rope u in, cause ur life will be on hold while he enjoys his married life.

I pray God will open ur eyes soon sha and then u will truly see him for who he is -.

Girl this is the time to prove what you are worth. Play hard to get. i don't mean the one you do for your bfs, this has to be the hardest to get. Even if he sees you as reachable you have to show him that you are out of his class. He has to know that his being married is a minus and not a plus.

He belongs to someone else and you can't afford to share your man. This not just about not ruining your fellow woman's marriage, but it's about protecting your dignity and respect as a woman.

You deserve to have a man to call your own and not a left-over.

Yes a married man is a left-over.

Respect yourself and by consequence you'll respect others.

This girl must be a Japanese. One Bobo for Lagos don grab hold of a mugun. And he go chop am.

Sweet T:

This girl must be a Japanese. One Bobo for Lagos don grab hold of a mugun. And he go chop am.

I am sure you be expert for the game. *roll eyes*

@Michellin89


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