Av bin dating my girlfriend for quite a while nw 3 years to b specific...6months into our relationship she read ma watsapp chart of where I was comparing her wt dis chick I really liked...she told me it was over Nd as usual I begged her for like a week b4 she took me back...m her 3 bf by d way..so like a ur into d relationship she went 2 visit friends in anoda school I was so scared cos her ex schools dere so I called her to knw where she was Nd she told me her ex place ..doing wat she said just visiting...BT my mind was troubled I knew something had happened but couldn't prove it. So when she came back I was just making use of her fone wen a text entered saying tanks u made my weekend ...of course I asked Nd she said nothing DAT it was because she cooked for him...I relaxed Nd was very devoted to her BT she won't STP talking abt her ex to me...den a day came wen she confessed to me DAT she actually slept wt d ex ...dis was after I found the packet of postinol 2 in her bag wen I was helping her move to a new house so I asked wat she wanted wt it cos we Dnt use it as usual she denied saying some girl gave it to her to study....after she confessed to MD things has never being same cos I really CNT bring myself to b faithful cos I still av dis nagging feeling DAT she might still cheat. Above all she has a very bad temper she can even disgrace me in public while she's angry...recently I broke things up wt her but she refused to take it...but I Dnt how to go zbt dis relationship cos I think it has been stretched to its limits...pls narialanders honest advice pls

my brother why na..........now i have an headache.

What has happened has happened....... If you love her, forgive her..... I guess she must have been truly sorry to have told you the truth...... FORGIVE HER

You want someone to tell you to go on with the relationship? Or what else do you want to hear? You can never trust her again so wats the point?Just discard her ASAP... cheat + bad temper

Smh d word relationship is not hard

Bt d people involved made it hard

Follow ur heart

D heart never decieves wen cheated

Most times i just wonder for some guys, smh....they cnt just make a simple decision and stand by it without coming to seek for advice.

When Zayn Malik left One Direction' I was like but why Malik!!! After some months he dropped his first single PILLOW TALK ..... I was like yea Malik you ma Nigga!!!

halfricanadian:
Smh d word relationship is not hard
Bt d people involved made it hard
Follow ur heart
D heart never decieves wen cheated

I read this comment b4 checking the moniker..
my mind said u were the one..
guess what I checked and I wasn't wrong..

Kayoski:

I read this comment b4 checking the moniker..

my mind said u were the one..

guess what I checked and I wasn't wrong..

Meaning?

halfricanadian:
Smh d word relationship is not hard
Bt d people involved made it hard
Follow ur heart
D heart never decieves wen cheated

The heart deceives when cheated. it is not always right to follow the heart.

Back to the issue... The OP doesn't even have the heart to decide let alone deceive

Bluezy13:

The heart deceives when cheated. it is not always right to follow the heart.


Back to the issue...
The OP doesn't even have the heart to decide let alone deceive

feel bad for op

Slyguy:
Av bin dating my girlfriend for quite a while nw 3 years to b specific...6months into our relationship she read ma watsapp chart of where I was comparing her wt dis chick I really liked...she told me it was over Nd as usual I begged her for like a week b4 she took me back...m her 3 bf by d way..so like a ur into d relationship she went 2 visit friends in anoda school I was so scared cos her ex schools dere so I called her to knw where she was Nd she told me her ex place ..doing wat she said just visiting...BT my mind was troubled I knew something had happened but couldn't prove it. So when she came back I was just making use of her fone wen a text entered saying tanks u made my weekend ...of course I asked Nd she said nothing DAT it was because she cooked for him...I relaxed Nd was very devoted to her BT she won't STP talking abt her ex to me...den a day came wen she confessed to me DAT she actually slept wt d ex ...dis was after I found the packet of postinol 2 in her bag wen I was helping her move to a new house so I asked wat she wanted wt it cos we Dnt use it as usual she denied saying some girl gave it to her to study....after she confessed to MD things has never being same cos I really CNT bring myself to b faithful cos I still av dis nagging feeling DAT she might still cheat. Above all she has a very bad temper she can even disgrace me in public while she's angry...recently I broke things up wt her but she refused to take it...but I Dnt how to go zbt dis relationship cos I think it has been stretched to its limits...pls narialanders honest advice pls

You and her ex have already exchanged positions.
What's left is for her to tell you...

Just leave, u deserve better.

halfricanadian:


Meaning?

meaning, having watched u evolve from halfrica to sickstars and now halfricanadian I can actually predict what u can write..

although they are 3 different monikers but its all the same person behind them...

its all in a gud way though..

Kayoski:


meaning, having watched u evolve from halfrica to sickstars and now halfricanadian I can actually predict what u can write..

although they are 3 different monikers but its all the same person behind them...

its all in a gud way though..

Awwwww


I'm always me i don't change

Firstly lemme unfollow ur topic secondly my boi there is nothing serious abt ur story infact u are unserious u should get serious because tenths of ladies dey waka for street daily i hop dat will reduce ur tention it is well DOH

We learn from what happen to others because we can't live to experience every life situation. I wonder at times if people like you read similar threads in this section. If you do, what have you learnt from them?

We have seen threads like this over a thousand times and have been able to treat them accordingly. When you see such threads what do you do? Run them over? You don't try to grab one or two things that can help you.

Truth be told, I've learnt a lot here, it's not like the rest of us don't find ourselves in this kind of situation, we do but we ve been able to handle it with ease without having to create a poor thread like this

Here again, I say emotional intelligence, read on it, study it, it is the key to any sort of relationship..

















Love has killed more than any disease.

Cholls:
my brother why na..........now i have a headache.

Me too oh

sorry hon! She wanted to get back at you but unfortunately she did it in the worst way ever!!!! kpele

And you still call yourself "Slyguy"? Bro you be slack guy.

That babe is having the time of her life and you're here asking questions.

Slyguy:
Av bin dating my girlfriend for quite a while nw 3 years to b specific...6months into our relationship she read ma watsapp chart of where I was comparing her wt dis chick I really liked...she told me it was over Nd as usual I begged her for like a week b4 she took me back...m her 3 bf by d way..so like a ur into d relationship she went 2 visit friends in anoda school I was so scared cos her ex schools dere so I called her to knw where she was Nd she told me her ex place ..doing wat she said just visiting...BT my mind was troubled I knew something had happened but couldn't prove it. So when she came back I was just making use of her fone wen a text entered saying tanks u made my weekend ...of course I asked Nd she said nothing DAT it was because she cooked for him...I relaxed Nd was very devoted to her BT she won't STP talking abt her ex to me...den a day came wen she confessed to me DAT she actually slept wt d ex ...dis was after I found the packet of postinol 2 in her bag wen I was helping her move to a new house so I asked wat she wanted wt it cos we Dnt use it as usual she denied saying some girl gave it to her to study....after she confessed to MD things has never being same cos I really CNT bring myself to b faithful cos I still av dis nagging feeling DAT she might still cheat. Above all she has a very bad temper she can even disgrace me in public while she's angry...recently I broke things up wt her but she refused to take it...but I Dnt how to go zbt dis relationship cos I think it has been stretched to its limits...pls narialanders honest advice pls

And you want us to advise you..So you are telling us you don't know what to do abi...Ehn, Marry her na....abi

I swear this movafuvker went ahead and married that chic. JFC. And he's whining on the other thread about her at the moment. Like, hello, wtf did you expect. Happily ever after? Lmao.

@OP, not cheating on her and her not cheating on you cannot even keep a relationship.. Women are crazy folks. You can never satisfy them.. Just continue to fvuck your own and when she is done, she goes...

Don't take women to heart again.. Just use them to cure.. They are meant for just sex