SavageGarden:
Please folks there's this very dear friend of mine..knew her from my hostel though we barely spoke besides greetings..she's the very reserved type..seemed kind of shy and personally we saw her as the rather difficult type, she was always mostly indoors..though she's cute guys gave her this distance, sort of. Well I graduated last year and I visited my twin brother in the same hostel..and well we got talking one night and I offered to buy her lunch and she reluctantly accepted. Couple days later I visited the hotel and well ended up in her room that night..we really got talking and things got intimate..thats how she told me about an addiction that she feels is ruining her life..about how it troubles her and makes her keep to herself and shut people out, how it constantly makes her feel ashamed of herself and all that savage internal grieve it brings to her..I got scared and guessed 'masturbation' she said 'NO' and begged me to stop as I might guess correctly and embarrass cos she's not ready to tell me..I got more puzzled as to what this lovely seemingly harmless girl was suffering from I swear my mind nor go Pornography cos well everyone indulges in it guys particularly..ultimately my mind didnt go there. Well I manipulated her into telling me and she gave in eventually after 2 hours and told me well ''Porn Addiction'' since she was in sec school...hardly a day that she doesn't indulge in watching porn. Well dear romance landers I really like this girl and would love to date her but I've got to get help or tips rather on how to help her put an end to this addiction of hers in a manner that won't portray me as judging her or that sort of thing..I want to help her as politely as possible and not hurt her in the process..please anyone with similar experiences or clues should kindly drop a comment...PLEASE HELP ME FOLKS My heart bleeds for this girl.

KashyBaby:
And in the process u & her will have ur own version of home-made p0rn...


U better take her out of the house, convert her attention into sumtin she really like to try...maybe it's time for her to develop her talent/s..

KashyBaby:
And in the process u & her will have ur own version of home-made p0rn...


U better take her out of the house, convert her attention into sumtin she really like to try...maybe it's time for her to develop her talent/s..

ivyT:


Chaii..nairaland has made sure they turned u into a nigerian,u kon dey yarn lyk us..##YouDoWell

Parpor:
just like kashybaby said,convert her attention to something else....and don't forget to delete all the porn in her phone and laptop

NiRfreak:
Don't judge her, compliment and appreciate her positive side. Let her understand that she's not the only one in the struggle, that many people are into it cos of some sort of sexual fantasies or depression that are not probably their fault. This could come as a result of sheer curiosity, wrong parental upbringing, Circumstances of life and environment she grew up from.

Discuss with her how she can overcome her boring moments by engaging in something fun , mentally productive, Skill acquisition rather than surfing the internet alone and staying in doors

coming out of her shell to meet people and make friends will also go and long way. Joining clubs or associations will also channel her mind into something worthwhile

Agree to date her, love her and give her a hot mind blowing sex that will reduce her interest in porn.
I hope this helps

KashyBaby:




Boo deleting won't help...she can still find access to any p0rn site..all she needs is to convert all her attention to something else,she liked to engaged to, I reckon.

SavageGarden:

Wow! thanks bro...I really appreciate this

KashyBaby:




Its not that hard to blend in with the Nigerians...and that's none of ur biznez if I can talk like one of u up there...


So, tell me why it does bothered u?