For me i think its not possible. We all have best friends. A friend with whom we share all our secrets. A friend who is special to us than all other friends. If for a guy there is a girl who is his special friend and with whom he shares all his secrets then sooner or later it is observed that somebody falls for d other one. What do you think?

Highly possible buh der'll always be 'feels' @frst buh later, erryfn blends up with d hlp of undstndin.

My opinion tho'!

I think you have just answered yourself by yourself.

of course. of the guu looks loke oshiomole, or the girl looks like ezekwesilly.

One of both parties must be unforgivably ugly....

^^^^ The poster above me, how terribly ugly? U mean like Osho baba with his angel of a wife? lee lee onako shiiit

OP, u've answered ur question already, there is no such thing as best of friends between a guy and a girl, so everyone be careful, if ur spouse comes to show u an opposite sex as a besty, I'm really sorry for u.

ettaetta:
For me i think its not possible. We all have best friends. A friend with whom we share all our secrets. A friend who is special to us than all other friends. If for a guy there is a girl who is his special friend and with whom he shares all his secrets then sooner or later it is observed that somebody falls for d other one. What do you think?

you asked a question and still answered it...dafuq aqain you lookinq for

They say: a guy keeping a female as best frnd is like keeping a chicken as pet, no matta hw much u luv it ull still kill/eat it one day

firstking01:
you asked a question and still answered it...dafuq aqain you lookinq for

dats my own opinion, i want to hear from other people too

naughtynaughty:
They say: a guy keeping a female as best frnd is like keeping a chicken as pet, no matta hw much u luv it ull still kill/eat it one day

Hmm, who propounded that?

Ion even have a guy as my best friend.

The probability of two friends of opp sex having feelings for each other is 8/10

Well, it all starts with a crush - liking - love finally!
To what I've experienced sha, if the girl doesn't fall in love with the bestie, the guy falls for the girl, vice versa, bt sometimes, there's mutual understanding between both parties... So I'll say it's not all.


And to all those saying the guy must be unforgivably ugly, I've seen handsome men being best friends with girls who don't fall in love with 'em.
So ugliness is not a basis for ur judgment.

for me.... i cant be best friends with someone im in love with.. e no just follow at all... there will always be that spark... that chemistry... so its better to not start what you cant finish... you can be friends but then you can only be so careful.. once emotional attachment comes in..hmmm....*singing urhobo song in sam locos voice*

Ebayray:
Well, it all starts with a crush - liking - love finally!
To what I've experienced sha, if the girl doesn't fall in love with the bestie, the guy falls for the girl, vice versa, bt sometimes, there's mutual understanding between both parties... So I'll say it's not all.


And to all those saying the guy must be unforgivably ugly, I've seen handsome men being best friends with girls who don't fall in love with 'em.
So ugliness is not a basis for ur judgment.

So they can't remain besties without funny feelings?

KingRex1:
So they can't remain besties without funny feelings?

They can but in this present time, it's actually hard.

Very possible

Yes. My BFF is a guy and we have been frnds since jamb days. We even got admission in2 d same school. He was always getting my back wen we were in schl with attendance and assignments (smtyms I'm too lazy 2 go 4 my classes). Nobody blived we were(are) not dating. He's still my bff till now.
Nothing attached. I knw his relatnshp life and he knws mine. I even dey choose gf 4 him

jopretty:
I think you have just answered yourself by yourself.

To yourself and with yourself

HateU2:
Yes. My BFF is a guy and we have been frnds since jamb days. We even got admission in2 d same school. He was always getting my back wen we were in schl with attendance and assignments (smtyms I'm too lazy 2 go 4 my classes). Nobody blived we were(are) not dating. He's still my bff till now.
Nothing attached. I knw his relatnshp life and he knws mine. I even dey choose gf 4 him

See as you dey shine teeth here whereas you dey punish my young guy with overdose of FRIENDZONE. See your life

ettaetta:
dats my own opinion, i want to hear from other people too

that's ma own opinion

ettaetta:
For me i think its not possible. We all have best friends. A friend with whom we share all our secrets. A friend who is special to us than all other friends. If for a guy there is a girl who is his special friend and with whom he shares all his secrets then sooner or later it is observed that somebody falls for d other one. What do you think?

Well me I have a girl as my bestie for a long time now and I have no feelings 4her...it all depends on d way and manner u handle it, we have even slept on d same bad severally n nofin happened.

SirJeffry:
See as you dey shine teeth here whereas you dey punish my young guy with overdose of FRIENDZONE. See your life

See amebo

sometimes

Ebayray:



They can but in this present time, it's actually hard.

Really.. nd then you give em the 'good riddance to bad rubbish' attitude after it happens by 12-1am.

When u woulda been xpecting it.. Yh i saw ur diary

Well i gat a female bestie nd wen neva going down that path.

well I have a female bestie and nothing strange has ever happened...am still enjoying the the friendzone level

HateU2:
Yes. My BFF is a guy and we have been frnds since jamb days. We even got admission in2 d same school. He was always getting my back wen we were in schl with attendance and assignments (smtyms I'm too lazy 2 go 4 my classes). Nobody blived we were(are) not dating. He's still my bff till now.
Nothing attached. I knw his relatnshp life and he knws mine. I even dey choose gf 4 him

interesting!! And he never asked you out?

Yes, if
the guy is gay or
the gal na lezbo.

But if both are straight, they will still fcvk it is just a matter or time.

tintedniggz:

interesting!! And he never asked you out?

Never. It's just frndshp. Nothing more

KingRex1:
Really.. nd then you give em the 'good riddance to bad rubbish' attitude after it happens by 12-1am.

When u woulda been xpecting it.. Yh i saw ur diary

Well i gat a female bestie nd wen neva going down that path.

Lmao , u're hilarious.
Thanks, dearie.

Awww, wow, that's lovely.

HateU2:
Never. It's just frndshp. Nothing more

Can we forge a Frndship together then