Persephenee:

Good decision but those pills mess up hormones attimes.

steppin:

None of them is 100% OK. It's either you use it or face the single mother stigma ie if the man refuses to get married.

TheSociopath:
If I got you pregnant, I'd marry you but be damn sure the baby's mine otherwise I'll divorce you straightaway. I won't get anyone pregnant in the first place though cos I'm not going to have sex casually. Peradventure I do, it means I love you to the extent of marrying you. I'm not being self-righteous but my believe is that you shouldn't have sex with someone you can't marry or someone who is not proposing marriage to you.



In short sha, if I have sex with you and get you pregnant, it means I love you and I'm sliding a ring down your finger ASAP.

Guys! Take responsibility for your actions!!!

Persephenee:
,I just found out that my cousin is pregnant and that the guy isnt marrying. I'm angry and though I know she's also to be blamed but it isnt right.
About four decades ago,it was if you get a girl pregnant you MUST marry her.Now we hear stuffs like "I will take care of my child but I cant marry you". What the fvck happened to taking responsibility?
Guys,why would you have sex with a girl you wont marry if she gets pregnant? Now the guy is saying he cant because he has already promised to marry a girl in india.The India based supposed fiancee called my cousin,threatened to kill her if she dared reap where she didnt sow. My cousin knows nothing about her and has resigned to her fate of being a frigging BABY MAMA.
Ladies,why wont you allow your man take care of his mess?
She's going to have the baby by september,we are disappointed but 'nwunne wu nwunne shaa ihe owula mekwe' .
So guys will you marry a girl you got pregnant,if not why?
Matured comments please.

Persephenee:

Can we get married now

TheSociopath:



hehehehe Let me gather something first so that our lives would be comfortable after marriage

Creamish:
My friend had that ish too... Now she has an adorable daughter. Bros is near MIA.



Irresponsibility amongst some men seems to be the order of the day. Don't start what you cannot finish. I give kudos to the ladies who decided against aborting the pregnancies of these irresponsible men. It's a tough but wise decision which def serves as a learning point for them.

DeeTus:
Of course, I would marry her if I'm truly in love with her. But these days, there are lots of girls who are desperate for marriage and think the best way to nail a guy is to get pregnant for him.

Had to avoid this chick who wanted me at all cost and also not to use protection on her so that she could conceive but was so disappointed that i didn't fall for her trap.

Persephenee:

Be fast!

Persephenee:

Forgive my poking but do you love the girl you are dating presently?

TheSociopath:


I'm racking my brain and working my àss off. Very soon MiLady, very soon.

DeeTus:
I'm not dating anyone currently. Just looking for a right girl to marry.

Creamish:
My friend had that ish too... Now she has an adorable daughter. Bros is near MIA.



Irresponsibility amongst some men seems to be the order of the day. Don't start what you cannot finish. I give kudos to the ladies who decided against aborting the pregnancies of these irresponsible men. It's a tough but wise decision which def serves as a learning point for them.

Persephenee:
Men ruining women's future since 930BC. Believe me no sex is better.

Maxi112:
madam this is vise vaser

Persephenee:
Lsofdk and smellymouth,come and tell me why

@the bolded, are you concluding we won't
to your question i will get married to any lady i impregnate reason being i wouldn't have intercourse *with a lady i can't picture the future with* without protection. besides any guy who can cum in there should be able to handle the outcome

Persephenee:

LOL
OK!

TheSociopath:


The men only are not to blame. Whatever happened to protection? Our women should be cautious nao, for fuçk sake, they'll be the ones moving around with protruded bellies.

Maxi112:
abort ke?


abortion is never an option bro... girls should be careful with the kind of guys dey open there legs for

Creamish:


No one is blaming the men alone. I said in my post that the choice to keep the child serves as a learning point for the ladies involved. This means both have a share in the lessons learnt. It would be irresponsible of the women if she aborts. So since she has decided to keep it, the irresponsible person here is the man who deserts her.

Creamish:


True. Even tho' the use of condoms is not 100% sure proof, it's still a safer & saner option.

Maxi112:
what then are u saying??


don't tell me u r encouraging no sex till marriage?

Persephenee:

Hmmm...why do I find it difficult to believe you?

Creamish:


Moral lesson of every Baby Mama story which has no gold-digging intention/background- Always Use Protection. Abstinence is also a good option for those who can wait.

steppin:

... My father would say, date someone you can marry. So that when push comes to shove, you'll do the right thing.