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What Do A Girl Mean By I Need Space (2) (3) (4)
Help I Need Space by sara2007: 6:46pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
MMmmmm |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 6:56pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
If you can't wait, KILL HIM. |
Re: Help I Need Space by Godmother(f): 7:08pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
@ Posakosa What's is with you and killing, anyway? Lol |
Re: Help I Need Space by justwise(m): 7:10pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
posakosa: Sometimes u make more sense when u shut up |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:10pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
hahahahahaha An eye for an eye makes the whole world go round. Some MEN are just wicked and hearltess. She might be able to get away with the self defense argument. |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:10pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
justwise: Come shut me up now ? |
Re: Help I Need Space by sexyLeamon(f): 7:13pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Depends how much space you take, and for how long. Guys can sometimes be pretty insensitive, but a lot of the time they don't mean harm. Just tell him how you feel and hope he'll understand. Don't take "space" unless you are prepared for a break up. |
Re: Help I Need Space by justwise(m): 7:17pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
posakosa: This is what happens when mum & dady leaves the house and some brat got hold of keyboard |
Re: Help I Need Space by justwise(m): 7:18pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
sexyLeamon: That makes sense to me |
Re: Help I Need Space by sara2007: 7:18pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
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Re: Help I Need Space by Kelvinj(m): 7:21pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
@poster wait a min, Give u space 4 wat? |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:22pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Kill Him and stop all complaints and collect some insurance funds, Its obvious that you are abroad because if you were in Nigeria, you wont'be talking like this. Actually if he saw this post, he'll solve your misery and marry another wife right there in front of you and u are always welcome to stay in the house if you want. |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:24pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
justwise: Luumpa Luumpa! ooh shut it. |
Re: Help I Need Space by Moyola(f): 7:24pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
@ Op Hez too controllin' & petty? yu had yur 1st, 2nd, 3rd?! mahhn! Hang on! are yu juz realisin'? or Hez been like dhat from da beginning? but yu thought yu could endure or that he'll change? |
Re: Help I Need Space by sexyLeamon(f): 7:32pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
sara2007:you should never be with someone who disrespects you or physically harms you. What he is saying to you is very hurtful and shouldn't be tolerated. Although it might seem hard, you have got to make him understand that his behavior is unacceptable and that if he continues there can be no future between the both of you. BUT wait a minute, Is their any exterior reason for his behavior i.e work issues, death etc? |
Re: Help I Need Space by sara2007: 7:34pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Yes i thought he would change. He is getting worse. And yes, he is welcome 2 marry (after i move out preferably). I am actually looking forward to seeing that perfect woman, he always complains about things i do. |
Re: Help I Need Space by Kelvinj(m): 7:38pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Yea, exactly ar u just realizing dat he is 2 controlln? |
Re: Help I Need Space by sara2007: 7:40pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
@sexyL, nothing happened, except maybe he is now making money |
Re: Help I Need Space by gloriuss(f): 7:41pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
posakosa: chei!!!! na all men that roam dis earth u wan finish! my husband loves me. . . KILL HIM my husband beats me. . . KILL HIM my husband is jealous. . .KILL HIM my boyfriend wants to disvirgin me. . .KILL HIM my guy dumped me. . .KILL HIM my boyfriend bought me a car. . .KILL HIM madam feminist. . . abeg oh. . . take am easy!!! oh and at OP. . . if it was so serious u wouldnt be able to hang on 3/4 more years. Am sure there are other ways to resolve this. . . perhaps try counselling. I mean if u can calculate 4 more years then u can endure a lot longer than that to try and work things out! (from my perspective oh!) |
Re: Help I Need Space by sexyLeamon(f): 7:42pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
sara2007:I would recommend marriage counseling. This way you can see if you can somehow salvage what's left of the marriage. You should sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him about how this is affecting you. When you do this, do it in a non-confrontational way. Otherwise, he may clam up, become defensive and refuse to talk. do dat and tell us how it goes I will be following this story very closely |
Re: Help I Need Space by Moyola(f): 7:44pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
sara2007: The bits in bold is what most women {well those I know n 've heard of} believe and later realise "Oh I should have left him then"! Anywayz, do what yu think is best for the kidz n yursef, kuz at the same time yu wouldnt wan to make decisions that may harm yur future. N gdluck wiv him findin' "that perfect woman" |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:45pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
gloriuss: No vex! |
Re: Help I Need Space by Kelvinj(m): 7:49pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
C'mön sara i dnt jst get it is he maltreating u or wat coz no man would rather let his wife do evrytin she wants so be specific letz help. & if itz about compactibility u shld have known about dat even b4 ur marriage. |
Re: Help I Need Space by justwise(m): 7:54pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
gloriuss:My point exactly, always kill kill and kill, its sad that that FOOL can't see another way of expressing her view. |
Re: Help I Need Space by justwise(m): 7:56pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
posakosa: Any guy that touches u with toilet brush needs to get his head checked |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:56pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
justwise: Only a FOOL can readily identify a FOOL, Death to you! |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:57pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
justwise: Is that what your father told your mother ? |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 7:57pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Just wise indeed!~ |
Re: Help I Need Space by gloriuss(f): 7:57pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
posakosa: madam! ur too much!! Kelvinj: i quite agree with that. Many at times, people think that marriage and kids change an individual whereas it doesnt (not that im saying the poster did oh). But its good to be COMPATIBLE before marriage and KNOW what ur getting urself into. . . . . or else u'll be jumping from frying pan into the fire. . . and i know that marriage is not intended to get one *BURNT*. |
Re: Help I Need Space by AmAlone: 8:01pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
posakosa: @POSAKOSA u |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 8:05pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Madness could be a beautiful trait because its freeing. Nothing wrong in being honest. |
Re: Help I Need Space by posakosa(m): 8:07pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Nothing wrong in collecting some insurance funds. |
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